My gf thinks im gay. Here are her reasons that makes her think im gay?

[Anonymous]

1. My nails stay cleaned and cut. I keep them that way because i have a nail biting habit and its the only way to curve that habit

2. I have no problem what so ever with gay people. We saw two gay dudes kissing she got mad because i didn't flip out about that

3. Im 24 and i still watch cartoons.

4. Im black and i dont talk hood. Im from the south and i had a heavy accent and when i moved to california i got tired of people asking to repeat what i said, so i made my speach more clear

5. The first time we had sex i couldnt keep it up and said that i wasn't attracted to girls. I was just nervous about my performance

6. Im a very informational person. Just because i have knowledge about a lot of things makes me gay?

7. Im a giver and not a taker while having sex. I like pleasing my gf first before myself

I even jokingly said "maybe i should cheat on you to prove that im not gay" and she said that would definitely prove it. But im not a cheater.

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+1 y

I think i didn't say number 5 right. She is the one that said im not attracted to girls. I didn't say that lol

[SaVes]

1. Personal hygiene and grooming have got nothing to do with sexual orientation.

2. Supporting something does not equal being part of same thing.

3. Preserving your inner child is a highly positive trait, but has got nothing to do with sexual orientation.

4. Dialects and usage of slang language have got nothing to do with sexual orientation.

5. Saying you're not attracted to girls is in fact giving a strong, if not definite, impression of being gay.

6. Knowledge and the passion of verbally sharing your knowledge has got nothing to do with sexual orientation.

7. If anything, being a giver indicates a strong interest in the ones you want to please - which in your case is a female.

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You can completely disregard 1, 2, 3, 4, 6, and 7. I'm pretty sure it was exclusively Nr. 5 that makes her think you might be gay. If she really named the other things as reasons too, then I'm not sure if she even knows what "gay" means.

[Anonymous]

Dump her. She's being disrespectful. None of the things you have stated indicate that you're gay.

My boyfriend keeps his nails clean and trimmed because he plays water polo and it is against the rules to have long nails.

What business is it of yours to care who's kissing who? Good on you for not caring who's gay, straight, or lesbian.

I'm 21 and still watch cartoons - they're awesome.

I didn't know that only gay people spoke clearly lol

Your performance anxiety is a normal thing and it's rude of her to make assumptions.

Heaven forbid straight people be smart. My boyfriend is brilliant. I don't think he's gay lol

I fail to see what that last one has to do with sexuality lol

Maybe your girlfriend is insecure and thinks you'll leave her. Which you should. Because she's a bitch.

[CrazyCandy]

Truth

[carebearagent]

8. Looking at men?

All of the things you have listed doesn't even make you slightly gay. I think that your girlfriend is just paranoid. You seem like a very unique guy, maybe someone she is not use to having, lol. Those are some bizarre reasons. I enjoy it when it a guy pleases me first. :-)

I wouldn't classify you as being gay based off of what you have listed.

[Ildskf]

I think she is being childish about this. she is joking... all of those things listed pretty much matches my BF... except #4 (he's white) and #5. You don't sound gay to me just based on those things... if it is bothering you and you haven't already then talk to her seriously about it...

[Anonymous]

The problem is she has her own ideas of how a black male should act and since you don't fit it, she is calling gay. My girlfriend calls me gay because I won't just drop what I'm doing and come have sex with her when I'm hanging out with my friends. We have sex a lot but she wants me to drop everything when she wants some. So she thinks that since most males are sex addicts that I should drop everything I'm doing.

[Mesonfielde]

I'm not sure why as a male you're expected to be homophobic. Are you sure she's just kidding about these? Because these reasons are fairly arbitrary and I'm not sure I'd trust her after that.

[PrettyBama]

When I talk to people that aren't from the south they can't understand me either. They say we slur. Anyway. Maybe you're a tad feminine but not gay.

[Skittles_lover]

Well number 5 was a little interesting even if that's why you really said it. Other than that, your list seems fine and she needs to relax a little.

[thatfitchicklivi]

I would break up with her she obviously doesn't deserve you

[menina]

If you you're with her, you're not gay. She's overreacting.

[Anonymous]

I don't think you're gay she may have been on her period or was just moody. She is over reacting, she might not be use to guys like you (no offense to you or her) you know you're different (in a good way). #2 She did no seriously get mad over that she is paranoid if you really love her talk to her about how you feel but if she continues like this dumb her because she has a problem. #5 Everyone gets nervous their first time. She's lucky to have you #7 Like super lucky (not in a perverted way)

[CourtJester]

Nothing gay about those at all ha. Something is wrong with her.

[alwaysight]

dude she's just paranoid

[JennyBenny318]

She's over reacting. You're not gay.

[Anonymous]

Why is she with you if she thinks that

[Anonymous]

*reads number 5*

DERP

[Anonymous]

If she thinks you're gay, why is she with you