What does it mean when a guy asks for a back and head massage out of the blue?

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so i was on a trip to Hawaii with my boyfriend and his family which consists of mom dad and brother, his brother and i knew eachother before i met his brother (my boyfriend) and us three had to share a room and after my boyfriend fell alseep his brother asked me for a back massage and when i was done he asked for a head massage and i said sure and he went and laid his head in my lap face down, he did this three times. what does this mean?

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i have no intensions of getting with his brother at all! i was just wondering if i was missing something something, i took it as doing a friend a favor

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i did tell my boyfriend what happened and he was 100% okay with it, but im more curious to know what his brother might have been thinking.

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NovemberJoseph | 335 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Yoda

Umm... Well you're lucky your boyfriend didn't wake up in the middle of the massage.

Your boyfriends brother wanted to fool around with you.

I'm surprised you actually gave him the massage with his head in your lap._.

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Asker

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thanks, and he knew i told him because i wasn't trying to hide anything

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NovemberJoseph

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What was his reaction?
I'd be pretty mad, lol

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Asker

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he was happy as usual like i said i just saw it as doing someone a favor i mean we were walking for 9 hours and i gave my boyfriend one first

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NovemberJoseph

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But I mean he had his head in your lap while your bf was asleep... no matter what, regardless of his intentions, I'm sure at some point you both got a sexual thought in your mind.

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Asker

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i really didnt, thats why i asked the question because in the situation i was oblivious to whatever he was trying. I suppose i thought his brother would never do that or think that of me because i don't feel that way about him :/

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NovemberJoseph

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Well I mean If I were your boyfriend's brother, I definitely wouldn't ask you for a head massage unless I wanted to make a move because that's too far. Idk, maybe there are guys who would without having any feelings but I personally wouldn't and I think most guys agree.

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Asker

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WOW.. i'm blind sometimes... thanks for you input its been very eye opening and helpful :)

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NovemberJoseph

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It's understandable lol, at least you told your bf, that's good.

No problem :)

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Asker

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i would never hide anything from him :) haha thanks again joseph? :)

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NovemberJoseph

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You the real MVP :')

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Asker

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thanks lol :P

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Asker

thanks, and he knew i told him because i wasn't trying to hide anything

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NovemberJoseph

What was his reaction?
I'd be pretty mad, lol

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Asker

he was happy as usual like i said i just saw it as doing someone a favor i mean we were walking for 9 hours and i gave my boyfriend one first

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NovemberJoseph

But I mean he had his head in your lap while your bf was asleep... no matter what, regardless of his intentions, I'm sure at some point you both got a sexual thought in your mind.

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Asker

i really didnt, thats why i asked the question because in the situation i was oblivious to whatever he was trying. I suppose i thought his brother would never do that or think that of me because i don't feel that way about him :/

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NovemberJoseph

Well I mean If I were your boyfriend's brother, I definitely wouldn't ask you for a head massage unless I wanted to make a move because that's too far. Idk, maybe there are guys who would without having any feelings but I personally wouldn't and I think most guys agree.

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Asker

WOW.. i'm blind sometimes... thanks for you input its been very eye opening and helpful :)

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NovemberJoseph

It's understandable lol, at least you told your bf, that's good.

No problem :)

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Asker

i would never hide anything from him :) haha thanks again joseph? :)

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NovemberJoseph

You the real MVP :')

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Asker

thanks lol :P

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imtheoneandonly

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He is so trying to get to you. Keep your distances from him and if he continues to ask for massages and stuff maybe tell yoir boyfriend?

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TheNewClassic

Yoda

Thats a bit too much. Dont do it again.

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Anonymous

You gave your boyfriend's brother a massage? Yikes...

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rthomas43

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... Are you serious?

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rthomas43

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Highly inappropriate.
He is trying to get with you.

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rthomas43

Highly inappropriate.
He is trying to get with you.

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