What does being called "thick" mean?

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Context of the term used: A guy called me "sexy" and "thick" in bed while I was wearing shorts and a shirt. He was trying to seduce me, and there was petting. He was "looking at my body" and feeling my legs when he said "so thick". I, startled, asked him "like do you mean fat?" and he said "no". I didn't want to push it on.

I've spent a while bothered by this, trying to figure out if he was calling me heavy. I'm not overweight according to the BMI, but I'm certainly not skinny, slightly above the center point of "healthy" so I know I"m not obese. But does this mean like "chubby" or "chunky" or what?

Ozanne · Accepted Answer

I always assumed "thick" meant he likes that there is meat on you. To him he's not seeing fat, he's seeing more flesh, and that is what a lot of men love. It's not the greatest thing to hear, but there are men who love it and they don't mean it as a negative. They mean it as a positive because they love our skin and our shape. If you have more skin and shape to offer, some men go nuts over it.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

When I think "thick" I think about a girl who carries most her weight in the thighs, butt, and hips. She can be slim but she can't be too skinny, cause you have to have thick thighs and all. You can be thick and chubby too, but once you're fat/obese its not even thickness anymore, just being plain fat

523206720 · Accepted Answer

It might mean chunky but it might also mean voluptuous such as that you have nice and big curves in the places that he likes. I don't think he would insult you if he is sleeping with you and intends to do so again. I don't believe he thought you were chunky based on your description of yourself.

archides · Accepted Answer

First and foremost, you'll hear guys say thick for more than one type. It can get confusing cuz as guys we know what each other mean by it, but girls don't get it as easy. A girl doesn't even have to be anywhere close to big to be thick.

But the way he said it to you in your situation meant that you had good, right, sexy, size in the right place (s).

OldDinosaur · Accepted Answer

It means he is not going to have any trouble staying rock hard because your body is perfect to him and perfect for...

thunthunthun · Answer

Thick can mean a wide variety of things. From what you're saying, I highly doubt the guy was turned off. He likes your thickness.

behindthemask · Answer

He's pretty much saying you're curvy and he loves it

IrishguymadforLatina · Answer

It was a compliment. No guy likes skinny girls. I've yet to meet a guy who wants to hop into bed with a girl like a matchstick. Thick is awesome.

decemberxblue · Answer

It's a *very* good thing. It means you have a womanly body.

griffball123 · Answer

It usually means curvy. I honestly think thick girls are the best.

Ezio2023 · Answer

Thick definitely means sexy for a start. Usually curvy, certainly not big, heavy set or fat etc. But tough, like you got a bit of muscle and strong without heaps of definition or looking like a typical gymrat. And it is very attractive 🙂🤤😉

Anonymous · Answer

Thick means chubby (the definition of chubby is plump and rounded). He obviously wasn't using it in a negative context and likes your body.

Daniel3035 · Answer

He meant you were fat pfft obviously you just get played well done.

katydollxx · Answer

not fat, not skinny

Anonymous · Answer

curvy

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