Girls: a guy mails you a handwritten letter, would you rather he told you he sent a surprise or say nothing?

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So, randomly felt like writing a letter to this girl I like and mailed it. We talk every now and then. Not really sure where I stand, but I know I like her, so I guess that's all that matters. No love letter, just a "thinking about you and wondering how you're doing" letter (asking how she is; talking about some stuff that I've been up to; telling her she's fun and cute; basically normal boring stuff).

Girls (or guys):

1) Good idea or bad? (I think it was pretty smooth, and that she'll love it.)

2) Should I tell her I sent her a gift and make her anticipate it? Or, should I just not say anything so she'll receive it unexpectedly one day? (Leaning towards not saying anything, making it a surprise.)

Girls: a guy mails you a handwritten letter, would you rather he told you he sent a surprise or say nothing?
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