Girls if a guy you don't like gave you flowers, how would you respond?

[Anonymous]

Would you accept it or not?

Also, would you think it's sweet and would you be flattered, or would you be angered by the fact that he knew you didn't like him and still gave it to you?

Thanks

[kriskiss]

i say do it anyway because if she is already mad at you and does not like you its fun to p[iss her off and just get a reaction out of her. I did that once to a girl and she acted like she didn't like me but I know she did...we eventually got together.

indifference is the worst emotion someone can show, anger means their emotions are engaged and can easily turn into their opposite...love...much as in jujitsu where you can use ones force against your opponent to knock him down.

ya send them flowers, and if she refuses send em back...just piss her off. LOL

[prophecy]

in most cases she will probably say "thank you" to you and "what a loser" yo herself and throw them away in the nearest garbage can.

but don't you worry about her. think about yourself for a moment - how desperate you're gonna look. it's just obscene.

[gallie]

I will not like it...i will accept it just not to embarrass the giver if it happens in public, if its private then I will say thank you but not accept it.

depends whether you give her in public or not really. Do not ever send flowers to college, office or work if that girl is not yours. Its more chance of embarrassing the girl/increase her stress/ think you are creepy than thinking that's sweet

[jrose]

I would definitely accept them and say thank you- it's a nice gesture regardless of whether I'm interested or not.

If he knew I didn't like him, I might wonder why he was doing it, and if it kept happening I'd feel like I needed to say something, make sure he knows how I feel (or don't). I'd get annoyed if it kept happening, but if it was just once, I'd just take it as a nice gesture...

[Stacyzee]

If a guy got me flowers and I clearly stated I didn't like them,

I would be a bit disappointed but its the thought that counts.

I would never be angered, that's such a strong emotion to feel especially

when someone means well.

Try finding out what she really does like, so you can get those things for her.

[Asker]

I know she likes chocolate but that's about it. She doesn't really listen to music or read any books. She just studies 24/7.

[Stacyzee]

Well, just get her a box of chocolates.

[SoCk3t_PoCk3tZ]

I would accept them, thank him for it being a kind thought and be flattered but stick to my word and tell him gently that I still don't like him and that flowers is not what will change my mind

That is how I will respond. Not sure if that is the right way of dealing with that kind of situation though :S I mean, like the others said, maybe not accepting them is the better way as it clearly tells the guy you aren't interested whereas if you accept them it still might give him hope.

[rudy37lee]

I would accept them with a kind thank you but that's about it. If he knew I didn't like him that way, it would perturb me. I shouldn't have to ask for space more than once.

[Anonymous]

Honestly for me it would be awkward and an uncomfortable situation, if you know the girl doesn't like you and you still give her flowers would mean your kinda forcing her to like you! if you know what I mean. well that's my point of view :)