Why am I not attracted to white girls?

[Crazycanuck]

I'm a white guy and I'm just not attracted to white girls in general...Ok I'll admit there has been the odd exception here and there but that's it. I don't know why. I've got nothing against white girls and my bad experiences with them have been minimal. I'm just looking for some insight

if your unattracted to members of your own race why is that ?

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+1 y

oh about the exceptions...I mean that she was mixed. other then that white girls just don't do it for me.

[dollhouse]

well is just the fact that they're white? or do you mean blonde/brunettes with light eyes? Because if its cause their white, then you maybe you're what they call as 'self-hatred' race, something like that. But if you're just into darker and curvier girls than NO! there's nothing wrong. That's just your type.

:)

I'm Dominican, and I'm hardly interested in guys who look mixed or Latino. I don't know why...but I just see myself being turned on with black /asian or white guys. My boyfriend is actually white...and I think it maybe an exotic kind of thing. Since I hardly see guys like him in my culture, his opposite features just call my attention.

So maybe it's the same with you, I guess? idk. you should think about it...try looking at girls as girls and not so much for their race. maybe you'll notice another pattern or something.

[Bluerose]

I have a theory. As a girl who doesn't find the male members of her ethnicity (black) attractive. Think that our bodies want to truly create the melting pot that America says it is. For example: I can see the well toned torso of an African American guy and start to feel queasy. However if I see the average torso (not fat but not muscular) of a caucasian guy or non African American guy, I start to get "EXCITED". Its the community you grow up in and well as your biology.

[curiousbynature]

I myself, (being mixed, black/hispanic), am very attracted to white or fair skinned guys and girls. I've never really understood it, but that's what I like. Attraction, never really makes sense ... hahah. It just is what it is.

[Crazycanuck]

Words of truth props to ya

[ryanontario]

its your personal preference I guess , might of been created by previous experiences or the type of girls you were into when you were younger and just becoming attracted to girls , you may have developed some preferences back then , that be my idea as to the cause of this .

[jerseyse410]

personally, I'm only attracted to white girls, specifically american. I don't find african american or asian or latino or eastern european girls attractive, I just can't and I don't know why either but I don't think it makes me a racist.

[Anonymous]

I read an interesting answer on here. it could be genetic variation? I'm not a scientist so its hard for me to explain, but maybe your ancestors have a certain group of genes and you're not attracted to white girls because they have similar genes and you need genetic diversity?

im a black girl with a mixed background and up until my mid-teens I only liked white guys and did not like black guys that much. I only liked maybe 2 or 3 black guys total. I used to think of black guys as like my brothers so I didn't think of them like that. but then it could have been socialization because I grew up in mostly white areas until I got older. people tend to be more attracted to what they grew up around. or another example, if you grew up and your first p*rn you ever watched had a certain race of girls in it, then you will end up mainly being attracted to that kind of girls

[FifthElement]

I have a guy friend who is white, but will NOT date white women. He will only date Hispanic, Black, or Asian. I think his comes from personal experience; he has even said they are "gross." Which I disagree. I'm straight, but I see a lot of pretty girls who are white.

I mean us women are beautiful across the board, but you cannot really help who you are attracted to. You never know, you might come across one you like :)

[Dollface-86]

Who cares babe. Everyone has their certain type of person that they find attractive. I have only liked/dated/been attracted to white guys. I also have been attracted to some hispanics (latin, spanish, puerto rican, etc) and Italiens and stuff. I don't try to pin point why. I'm just attracted to what I'm attraced to.

[armyant]

Sometimes the reasons behind attraction are difficult to understand. I haven't heard anything like this from a white guy before, but I know several black guys who are very prejudiced against black women for some reason.

[Anonymous]

That is just what you are attracted to. Nothing wrong with that.

[Crazycanuck]

To be honest it dosn't bother me at all, its something that that I was scraching my head about.

[just926]

intraracism?

[Crazycanuck]

No It's that its weird I can't explaine why.....

[NirvanaChic]

becuz you're crazy!