Do guys friendzone attractive girls?

[Anonymous]

If a guy has an attractive female friend and she wanted to up things to a friends with benefits situation would he do it? Or do guys have just strictly platonic female friends despite finding them very attractive? Also say you were rejected by a girl simply because it was the 'wrong time' and she 'didn't want a relationship' would you accept her offer of friendship out of actually wanting to be her friend ir because you were still hoping for more?

[evenlift]

I think, as is often the case, there are differences between what the typical inexperienced guy would do and what the typical experienced guy would do.

The typical inexperienced guy would almost certainly agree to a friendship with benefits with an attractive female friend. The typical inexperienced guy has at least one female friend whom he is really into. The typical inexperienced guy will pine for romance even with a girl who has rejected him.

The typical experienced guy will take into account all the relevant factors before agreeing to sex (he recognizes that there's more to life than sex, and that sometimes sex isn't worth it even with an attractive girl). The typical experienced guy has no female friends he is really into (because he recognizes that the friendship route rarely leads to romantic/sexual success). The typical experienced guy won't even have got to the point of friendship with any girl he is into (therefore he can part ways with her, if she rejects him, without any messiness or guilt).

[LastoftheFamous]

I am not interested in a friends with benefits situation so I would seek to friend zone the girl if that's what she wanted from me.

It's either friendship or a relationship for me, there's no compromise.

[LastoftheFamous]

To answer your second point - if a girl rejects me, I wouldn't accept friendship from her at all.

[RandomPerson327]

If I'm already friends with a girl then I enjoy their company. If I am also sexually atracted to a girl then no, I would not "friend zone" them. That being said what i a sexually atracted to varies from other people. I may not be physically atracted to a girl many others find attractive.

There are a few exceptions such as the girl being married, dating a friend, or related to a close friend who doesn't aprove.

There may be other weird exeptions im can't think of.

[vet31bSoldier]

I have female friends that are drop dead gorgeous. And 1 of them is interested in me. But I've never so much as touched her

[Michellediva]

why not? is she not your type? I'm curious

[vet31bSoldier]

She is my type, and I am very much attracted to her. But it just isn't right timing. Maybe one day, maybe not

[izzybolden]

sounds like you just contradicted yourself lol

[cth96190]

No idea. I did not ever friend zone a good-looking girl. My difficulty was in getting such girls to speak with me, because I was not a criminal-looking bad boy.

[rUinSAYAN]

only friendzone if I have a gf or I am just looking for outer appearance I might get a pretier one.

that's what you get if you just count the looks

[Anonymous]

Because there's more to men than just sex? Scruples and whatnot?

[Anonymous]

no lolollolololol