You like a guy but you flaked on him?

[Anonymous]

You flaked out on him, (for whatever reason) what kind of reaction would you expect from him, if you like him, that you would respond positively to? That would mane you go out with him.

[Anonymous]

If he wasn't rude about it. So many guys get in my face and p*ssed off if I can't hang out with them for whatever reason. That just make me feel pressured, and then It makes me cautious about getting involved with him at all. Wondering how he will react to other things. I like my men to care, but be laid back about the little stuff. So if he reacted in a way that showed he cared, that he wanted to see me, but that he understood and it was no big deal, I would love it.

[Limelife]

Actually I did flake out on someone recently, not on purpose. He seemed cool about it but he hasn't ask me to hang out with him since. I think he thinks I might do it again!

I feel so bad...maybe I should buy him a drink!

[Asker]

Why on earth did you do that??

[Limelife]

I went out on a blind date and he knew it. I told him I'd hang out with him if it wasn't too late afterward. He ended up texting me half drunk saying that I must be having a good time.

I really like him, but I feel that he doesn't like me in the same way lol

[onemoreplease]

Brush it off. Don't act like you don't care, but I always think it's really classy when I have to cancel on a guy and he says something like "That sucks, I was looking forward to it, but maybe we can hang out another time." That way you let her know you want to see her, but leaves the door open for HER to make the move when she's free. If she really likes you, she'll be happy to suggest another time. And you'll weed out the super-flakes right away.