Are white women most desirable to men?

[Anonymous]

I've noticed that men seem to be more attracted to white women is this really the case? Im a black girl and i feel that because of today's Media men prefer white women over any other race, like for a example white men seem to always stick with their own women its rare to see a white man with a black women, but black men always prefer white girls over us? I always see black men trying to pursue a white girl and when they do they're extremely proud of themselves, also with middle eastern men they all prefer a white girl preferably with blonde hair and blue eyes and very pale skin or a "english rose" type of girl with pale skin and dark eyes and dark hair, i just dont get why men find white women more attractive? Im not generalizing i know that everyone is different but you've got to admit it seems that white girls can pick any man from any race and she will get him simply because the colour of her skin, what is it about white girls that you men love so much?

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I think it depends on the person, personally myself i find darker people more attractive but that's because I've grown up in a mostly white area so anything "different" is more appealing to me and its probably the same for the men you have described, in the Middle East its rare to see white women so that's probably why Middle Eastern men prefer white women over darker women and for black men they're normally used to black girls so anything "different" from what they normally see.

[Anonymous]

Black men pretty much date outside their race the most in my opinion compared to other races of men. I'm black and white and I noticed that my friends who are Latino or white get boyfriends real quick and my friend who is Latina has a Latino boyfriend but she gets hit on by white and black men when we are out but guys do not approach me when I'm at the club but they will approach me if I'm running errands which makes no sense. There are some ugly ass white women out there too they all do not look like Scarlett johanssen or Megan fox lol
I really don't care what black men think of me.

[harakiri]

well, most cultures seem to... value paleness over darkness. a lot of south Asian people pride themselves on being paler than the average, a lot of black people pride themselves on being paler than the average... etc. white people played an interesting role in history, they were responsible for a great deal of imperialism- they were in positions of power whereas the people of the lands they took over were seen as subservient. that mindset probably got ingrained into people over centuries, and we see the vestiges today. paler skin is more attractive than darker skin. end of story.

[MysteriousChick93]

I disagree I love my skin colour, an would hate to be pale. I love being tanned. An I wouldn't say a lot of black people want to be lighter. Sure some do. No paler is ugler in my opinion. It looks ghostly, exotic women look way more beautiful

[aamy811]

@MysteriousChick93 don't so that. Putting another body or form of beauty down doesn't get rid of the body image problem. Say the whole world loves dark skin tomorrow just like some girl is killing herself for paler skin, another will kill herself trying to be darker. We should push other down to oft other up. We should all be encouraging different forms of beauty together not letting one dominate another

[harakiri]

@mysteriouschick93 but this question wasn't about people who love their own skin color. it's about the preference for pale skin.

[mistninja314]

www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a7267-where-is-the-colored-love-at-on-this-site Umm I'm going to leave that there LOL.

[harakiri]

@mistninja314 that doesn't change the validity in my statements.

though you should post the link as your own opinion so QA sees it more easily

[iamyourneighbor]

I'm African American but I'm light skinned
Only the darker blacks like to point this out though. The Latinos, whites and Asians don't point this out to me

[MysteriousChick93]

Where I live its very common to see black with white , so I have no idea where you got this from. Probably purely the media. Also you do our race no favors by asking this lmao. If your attractive any guy could be interested that is what it comes down to

[Bellibooo]

That is an interesting theory - It would probably be because it's mostly white women who are overly sexualized in media and thus, men get a very sexual image of white girls. That is my guess, at least.

[justwannatalk]

I understand the question and you make many valid points. Some men have a type that they prefer and I guess unfortunately for women that may be skin color. I think black men liking white women is really overexaggerated in the media, jokes, and theory that black men are *bigger* and white women are *tighter*. Just remember there are always going to be guys like me who see the woman underneath. Not just the outward appearance.😉

[mistninja314]

www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a7267-where-is-the-colored-love-at-on-this-site I'm going to leave this here

[aamy811]

It's a sad fact but it's true. You just got to pick yourself and Carry on. There aren't as many fish In the see but there are still some fish

[Anonymous]

Don't listen to the media
When a white girl is ugly she is the ugliest compared to other ugly girls from other races. I think white girls are actually the most ugliest and the most average unless they look exotic or unique. Someone like Olivia Wilde. There is this other actress who is white but I forgot her name
I think Hispanic and black girls are the best looking. they also age the best

And this is coming from a white girl

[Opinion Owner]

And I saw your update. I grew up with mostly darker features but I like the opposite
But the girls I see who are prettier are black and Hispanic women
They're truly beautiful.

[DianaWest]

nice to see anonymous, spineless racists hiding behind their computers. are you sure you're white?

[Springnok93]

Blame the media. Who are the ones plastered on magazine covers = white women.
Who play leading roles in movies = white women
Who are the majority of female pornstars = white women

[Грегу]

I only like Russian women, I dont care about their skin color, but generally most Russian natives are white...

[Anonymous]

I'm white, but I find Latin, Middle Eastern, Italian/Mediterranean women generally more attractive then a lot of white women. I still date date white girls too though. :)

[DianaWest]

italian women aren't white? some greek women are whiter than nordic women. i don't understand.

[dudegrt09]

To me yes white women for some reason do get some bonus points in general. But I can't say I haven't been attracted to Asian, Black, Latinas, Indian or Arab girls before... it is just that I find it easier to connect with Caucasian girls...

[Princessofpersia]

I know many men that have liked me because of my dark eyes and hair. They find my middle easterness exotic and white women are boring to them

[Notedkibbles]

That can change when the majority of you guys aren't hood and I prefer black girls soo

[Anonymous]

"The Majority" in any area are most desirable with very few exceptions.

[UnknownXYZ]

I think Asian women are most desirable?

[Florals]

Skin color is just an appearance.

[Klaatu51]

no.

i don't even notice her skin color

[Nothing_]

That's very true.

[Anonymous]

yup yup yup