- Anonymous(30-35)+1 y
Trying to break the touch barrier.
I once had a guy try to do that at the beach. I was laying on my back and he goes, "Look, you have ribs!" and grabbed them (they stick out a little when I lay down) and pulled. >.<08 Reply- Asker+1 y
Whoa... was he flirting with you?
- Opinion Owner+1 y
I think he was trying to. It didn't work out so well for him.
- Asker+1 y
lol... I mean I see guys doing that kind of stuff with girls who aren't even pretty! So i'm not sure if it's anything special because girls who aren't even pretty are being flirted with.
- Opinion Owner+1 y
Sometimes beauty is on the inside. And sometimes guys can see that.
- Asker+1 y
... Yeah I guess? But you know, our society puts the most value on looks, above anything else. You know that, right?
- Asker+1 y
And uh teenage boys are shallow, (hey I'm shallow too) and they only see the beauty in front of them, not inside a person. Unless I'm wrong and teen boys aren't shallow?
- Asker+1 y
I hope you know that...
- Opinion Owner+1 y
And I hope you know that not ALL guys are like that.
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- Yoda Age: 23 , mho 33%+1 y
Could be anything, some of my male admirers do this, but then again so do my friends, male or female.
06 Reply- Asker+1 y
Friends? How do you know they just want to be friends? How do you know they don't like you in a romantic sense?
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Many of them are already in relationships and some of them are just weirdos who like bugging people.
- Asker+1 y
well what about the staring at my face? What does that mean?
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I look at people's faces, my friends look at my face, my male admirers do to. Could be anything, it depends on his expression or why he was looking at you.
- Asker+1 y
lol. I mean we have known each other for a long time... my instinct says he likes me. But thanks anyway!
- +1 y
He could very well like you, but take precaution in case he doesn't. Good luck!
Well he's using excuses to touch you so I'm pretty sure he's into you (:
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Nice :) He's been my friend for a very long time, since we were 5 years old. How come he didn't make a move like kiss me or something?
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Wait wait so you mean I'm friend zoned?
- Asker+1 y
Oh I see. Well I have feelings for him as well... what should I do?
- Asker+1 y
We don't go to the same school and we live an hour away from each other. We don't see each other very often.
- Asker+1 y
Don't have a phone. I have his Facebook though.
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haha :) okay thanks I'll try!
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Oh wait also, I told him that I have never had a boyfriend before, but he didn't say anything. Well okay, I'm a pretty girl. Guys flirt with me a lot and lots of people tell me I am pretty. I was expecting him to be surprised and be like, "wow a pretty girl like you, without a boyfriend? Crazy!" lol I know I sound conceited, sorry... but why didn't he say anything when I said I have never had a boyfriend before? What was he thinking?
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I'm not sure what he was thinking. He might've been surprised, maybe not, it really depends how old you are. I see you're under 18 so if you're around 12-13 then that explains why he wasn't surprised. If you're 15-17 then I don't know why he wouldn't be surprised, maybe he's just good at concealing shock. I know some guys who are head over heels for a girl but hardly show it at all, they are just that good.
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haha okay cool :) Thanks for the help!
- Xper 6 Age: 25 , mho 56%+1 y
he totally likes you... a guy finds a girl he likes and he can't stop thinking about her... thats why he stares... he doesn't want to lose that amazing image of you.
019 Reply- Asker+1 y
Awwww :) Well he would stare whenever there was silence between us. You know those silent moments where it's kinda awkward silence? He did it quite a few times!
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yea he is speechless... i dont know why us guys are like that... its like we are stuck in a trance and can't find words to say our feelings... it gets weird and he might think that it creeps you out... let him know how you feel so it can bring him back to normal lol
- Asker+1 y
No no I mean he stared at me quite a few times. There were still those awkward silences, and he stared at me then.
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lol oh... thats because he is admiring your beauty... its like... when you see the one... you look at her and think about the future... i think he is thinking that if he had you he would cherish you... and he doesn't want to lose the thought of you
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Um I don't feel like he's the one lol, but I think he is cute. And really? Admiring my beauty, even when we're sitting together, alone in his room? And we're talking about everything, I mean the vibe was just super relaxed and chilled, but it didn't feel sexually tense or anything.
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Hey?
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oh sorry i have been very busy lately... but ummm ask him.. he will tel you the truth... when he asks if you like him then be honest, do not say lets just be friends because guys hate that... if you dont want to ask him that then ask him why he stares... i bet he will give you a romantic reason lol, but dont down his spirits if you dont like him back... that would be sad :(
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also its a proven fact that guys are more shy when around the one they like the most... its complicated and we try not to fuck up but... our quietness fucks it up for us...
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I think he's cute, that's for sure and I'll go out with him, but he's not "the one". He's not the one I'll marry and have a lifetime with. You know what I mean?
- Asker+1 y
Really? So if a guy is confident around me, that means he doesn't like me in a romantic way?
- +1 y
yea i know what you mean... but that decision takes time... your still young and no one is perfect so just give it a go and test out how you feel about it... your mind just might change... you never know
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well sorta... they may have feelings but it isn't as strong as the guy who is like... handing you his world... he would sacrifice... well give up his guy code for you haha i guess thats a way to put it.
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What if the guy is super confident and outgoing by nature?
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im super confident and out going... i can talk to a girl with out a problem... she may seem cute to me but im still chill,,, but when that super fine "man thats wifey!!!" girl comes along!!! i shut down and can't come to speaking terms with her cause she is so beautiful... i was recently at an event where this happened and i got really close to her but didn't say a thing... man i should have said something...*cries* -_-
- Asker+1 y
So what's the difference between a girl being cute and the "oh wifey!" thing?
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ok so the "oh she is cute" thing happens when a guy decides that she is cute and he might try to get to know her... but he has to know a little bit more before he is head over heels for her... the "oh wifey!" is tricky... she is amazingly gorgeous, hard to talk to sometimes because of her beauty, and she has certain qualities that you notice off the bat. This is the girl you got to be careful talking to so you dont mess up anything for the future. And thats why you call her "wifey" because she is like... wifey material... basically she bad and every guy wants her, thats why if you talk to her guys would respect you and not mess with her if the girl and guy are really close.
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Ohhhh... haha how do I tell if guys think I'm "oh wifey!"?
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And what do you mean by not mess with the girl/respect them if the guy and her are close?
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well i dont know about other guys but for me to call a girl "oh wifey!" i would look at her and just be speechless lol, i would try everything to talk to her... and the girl with guy thing is like a guy code... a dude wouldn't mess with his bestfriend girl or his brothers girl, its against the code... you break the could you break your bond/friendship, its true... and it can happen to anybody
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A lot of guys have used that excuse including myself back in the old days xD05 Reply- Asker+1 y
Really? You would ask a girl if she had abs and then touch her stomach just to make sure?
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Oh wait also, I told him that I have never had a boyfriend before, but he didn't say anything. Well okay, I'm a pretty girl. Guys flirt with me a lot and lots of people tell me I am pretty. I was expecting him to be surprised and be like, "wow a pretty girl like you, without a boyfriend? Crazy!" lol I know I sound conceited, sorry... but why didn't he say anything when I said I have never had a boyfriend before? What was he thinking?
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You ask a lot of questions anon girl.
I didn't say I still do it. I used to when I was younger, I have improved my skills by now.
Either he played it cool or he didn't care that much... go figure.
As for what he was thinking.. I'm not a mind reader and you're looking way too deeply into this. - Asker+1 y
Yes I do ask a lot of questions, no doubt about that because I am a very curious person. Deal with it. And if he didn't care that much, doesn't that mean he doesn't like me in that way? If that's true, why was he flirting with me?
- Asker+1 y
Um... do you have anything to say?
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- Xper 4 Age: 32 , mho 73%+1 y
Looking for a reason to touch you... seems like he's flirting
07 Reply- Asker+1 y
Well I don't know, we were on the topic of abs and then he asked if I had abs and poked me. Is that something you would do to flirt?
- Asker+1 y
Hey?
- +1 y
I feel like when a guy finds any excuse to touch you, he's looking for ways to politely and cutely pass that boundary. Think more likely than not he likes you
- Asker+1 y
... I touch guys I don't find attractive, but I also touch guys I do find attractive. I know, I'm weird. But I'm a flirty person.
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Lol well you consider it flirting right?
- Asker+1 y
Um... well I don't exactly know... I do it by nature, it's not one of my flirting moves. I don't know how to explain it...
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You know?
- Xper 6 Age: 39+1 y
He poked you stomach as a prelude that he wants to poke elsewhere.
06 Reply- Asker+1 y
Where would that be?
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Your vagina.
- Asker+1 y
... okay are you saying he is flirting with me?
- +1 y
I'd surely hope so, otherwise he just want to get in your pants once.
- Asker+1 y
lol... why would a guy want in a girl's pants? Because she has a hot body or a nice face? I mean I don't have big boobs or a big butt. I don't have impressive curves really.
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When it's about going in once, as long as she has a vagina.
- Xper 5 Age: 27 , mho 33%+1 y
He's attracted to you
01 Reply- AskerNew +1 y
haha :) Why do you say so?
poking stomach = teasing
04 Reply- Asker+1 y
And? What are you implying? That he likes me?
- Asker+1 y
Teasing as in flirting, right?
- Asker+1 y
I mean look, you can just tell me when you're annoyed, but don't ignore it. That's not nice.
- Xper 4 Age: 36 , mho 36%+1 y
he thinks yer chubby? I don't know
04 Reply- Asker+1 y
Oh hell no, I'm skinnier than a lot of people my age. What else could it be?
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he wants you to have his babies?
- +1 y
dammit you're under 18! please dont read what i just put. it's not PG
- Asker+1 y
... lol. What exactly are you trying to say?
He fancies you no doubt
09 Reply- Asker+1 y
haha awww :) How are you so sure?
- Asker+1 y
No he was staring at my face, not my body. I think there's a difference...
- Asker+1 y
No, he poked my stomach, he didn't stare at it.
- Asker+1 y
Awwww cute :) Thanks haha
- Asker+1 y
I know I do like him. The great thing is, all the guys that I am attracted to, are attracted to me as well. It happens ALL the time :)
He loves you enough to kill you :))
110 Reply- Asker+1 y
lol what? Why would he want to kill me?
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So he likes me?
- Asker+1 y
Then why didn't he make a move like kiss me?
- Asker+1 y
No, I'm talking about in that exact moment.
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Haha okay :) That's nice.
He liiiiikes you.
19 Reply- Asker+1 y
Really? what makes you so sure?
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Act like what? You mean poking me or you mean staring? And haha I didn't get your joke about having a penis.
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Aw cute :) And yeah I have feelings for him too... what should I do? We don't go to the same school and we live like an hour away from each other. We don't get to see each other often.
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The next time you two talk, whether it's in person or by phone/tex, ask him for his opinion on whether you should tell the guy you like (don't say that it's him just yet) about your feelings for him in person or through text.
If he says through text, then try to lead the conversation to where you say something like "Well, the guy I was talking about is you" (try to make it sound more cute/romantic than that lol).
If he says to do it in person, then later on (like a few days later or to where he won't remember the conversation that well), tell him that you have something you've been meaning to tell him but you don't want to say it through text. - Asker+1 y
Alright, sounds like a plan :) I think at this point he is at least physically attracted to me, right?
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Would you think it's weird if I asked him to the spring dance at my school? He's a junior but I'm a freshman and I'm not sure if he would think it was weird to be at a dance full of freshmen/middle school people. But overall, if I asked him over Facebook (I would MUCH rather do it in person, but I don't seem him that often), would it be weird? I really prefer face-to-face interaction a lot more than online.
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Hey it would be nice if you could help me :)
- Anonymous(30-35)+1 y
He wants to father his child in your stomach.
01 Reply- Asker+1 y
lol... he likes me?
- Anonymous(30-35)+1 y
To kill the other man's baby!
01 Reply- Asker+1 y
Lol! What the heck? What do you mean?
355 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. Maybe he likes you?
01 Reply- Asker+1 y
Maybe haha. I mean, I'm pretty, so it's hard for him not to like me.
- Anonymous(25-29)+1 y
He likes you!
09 Reply- Asker+1 y
How are you so sure?
- Opinion Owner+1 y
That's a typical behavior of a young guy who likes a girl. He wants to touch you in a flirty way, but is too awkward to actually do so so he settles for poking you with a silly excuse. I've experienced a lot of similar things in my day ;)
- Opinion Owner+1 y
I should probably also add that basically all teenage boys can be pretty awkward around a girl they like.
- Asker+1 y
haha really? What do they do?
- Opinion Owner+1 y
Hm... they make up really silly excuses to do stuff, like they'll hold your hand for a moment and then tell you it was a "joke." Or if you touch them by accident (or on purpose) they'll stand extremely still and sort of blink awkwardly. They might bump your foot under the table, or jostle themselves against you on purpose. Or ask you multiple times if you want to feel their abs ;) Any of that sound familiar?
Come to think of it, he might want you to feel HIS abs, and so he brought up the subject! ;) - Asker+1 y
YES a lot of it! There was a guy who I was friends with and I asked him who he liked and he looked at me and said, "You." And then he said "just kidding why would i like you?" But he talks to me, he touches me... do you think he was actually kidding?
- Opinion Owner+1 y
Haha no way he was kidding ;) Sorry for the late response. He probably liked you but hadn't come to terms with it yet and shied away from it getting serious.
- Asker+1 y
Yeah maybe he did... well thank you! Guys are soooooo confusing!
- Opinion Owner+1 y
You're welcome! And I'm sure you'll figure them out in time ;)
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013 Reply- Asker+1 y
How are you so sure?
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Oh... you mean poking the stomach? Would you say that's flirting?
- Asker+1 y
How come he didn't make a move, like kiss me? I mean we've known each other since we were 5 years old, but him and I were alone in his room and he didn't do anything!
- Asker+1 y
But he's had a girlfriend before, and he asked her out, so he's not shy!
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Oh wait also, I told him that I have never had a boyfriend before, but he didn't say anything. Well okay, I'm a pretty girl. Guys flirt with me a lot and lots of people tell me I am pretty. I was expecting him to be surprised and be like, "wow a pretty girl like you, without a boyfriend? Crazy!" lol I know I sound conceited, sorry... but why didn't he say anything when I said I have never had a boyfriend before? What was he thinking?
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No I'm so sure he was listening to me. Sorry I didn't make it clear enough. I was like, "I have never had a boyfriend before *long pause* but you have had a girlfriend before." And he said, "yeah but dating takes time." So he did respond, but he didn't respond to when I said I had never had a boyfriend before.
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Well if you said he likes me, wouldn't he have at least said something?
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