Is life boring without a crush?

[Anonymous]

Or beautiful?

I feel less... constrained.

When I had a crush it was always about him, what I thought he'd want me to be, but now it's about me.

Not that he is to blame, but I just feel so free.

[YourFutureEx]

My life is running smoothly without any crush.

We can't generalize that whether life is boring or beautiful without crush. It solely depends upon the specific person.
If you are feeling happy (like me), you should be proud of it.
Stay happy, stay blessed. :-)

[Klaatu51]

hahha it's nice without... because you focus on other things ;-)

[Asker]

I know right.

[been_waiting]

Yes and no.

I'm content without one, and yeah it feels better not being a bit too consumed with someone else, and not worrying about getting your feelings hurt, but its also fun and exciting to have one.

[justbanANNAz]

i think life is painful with a crush, because u just never know how they feel. id rather not have one because then i dont sit there getting my hopes up about unrealistic things.

[Anonymous]

Always put yourself first.. Those butterfly feelings are amazing when you have a new crush but that shouldn't be the main focus in life.

[Asker]

It's not even butterfly feelings I used to have... just I don't know, kind of like an attachment.

Now it's not there, I just feel so free.

[Opinion Owner]

I know what you mean. I was just talking to one of my girlfriends about this. About how frustrating it can be when you start dating a new guy. Wondering what he's thinking, when he'll text, next time he'll ask you out bla blah..

[Liveyyy]

Having a crush is torture, but not having a crush is just boring.

[Asker]

This.

[Phoenix98]

I don't know I guess it makes life more interesting but at the same time kind of painful ( you know not knowing whether they like you or not ) but without one I suppose you have less on your mind lol.

[Ahman]

No it's definitely better without cuz you would have other things to focus on and talk about

[Anonymous]

After reading this question I don't even know what a crush is anymore.

[Asker]

Why do you say that?

[Opinion Owner]

Because I thought a crush was someone you were not dating.

[Asker]

Yeah, it's not lol how does that factor into what you said?

[Opinion Owner]

"When I had a crush it was always about him, what I thought he'd want me to be, but now it's about me.

Not that he is to blame, but I just feel so free" You made is sound as if you had a clingy or selfish bf.

[swimmersam]

It's easier to focus when you don't have a crush

[NateInAk]

No. Life is just easier.