Why do black men like Latinas/ white women so much?

[banksss_]

I'm a black girl & I must say it is HARD to find a black man that likes black women nowadays. They're always choosing White or Latina women. I have nothing against white girls nor Latina girls. So brothas why do some of you refuse to date black chicks & go for Latinas or white chicks so damn much?

[mistninja314]

MF finna hate me for this 1, but as usual "mistninja314" gives no fucks ^^.

If I'm being honest with myself, black women look the best bar none/no contest. We have the best natural bodies, we come in all skin tones, but white, if I'm right, we can get any hairstyle that we want, granted that we might need some products etc y'all see where I'm going with this.

Let me see, You have natural looking black women which I adore/LOVE like @Mgoods @Creole_Flavor COOL ^^. THEN YOU HAVE the sisters, that'll wear those nasty long ladybug eyelashes, fake nails, Straight haired 50 INCH WEAVES KNOWING DAMN WELL that hair texture doesn't even belong on our heads LOL

When I think of a black WOMAN, a certain "image pops up in my head" (Mgoods) would be a perfect example of that/it. You know a black woman with a cute skin tone, natural hairstyle and a cute feminine face etc.

Now I guess this would be the/my answer as to why "MOST OF US" (black men) chose to go for white, Hispanic, Asian, Indian and Arab girls. It's simple really, IMHO most black women try to imitate NON-BLACK WOMEN.

So let's be honest here for a moment, that's not even possible, right? I mean yeah, you can put on a weave, BUT AT THE END OF THE DAY, you're still going to be black LOL.

If I'm going to DATE A BLACK WOMAN, she's either going to be natural (close to it) OR IMMA JUST GO GET WHAT SHE'S TRYING TO COPY AKA a snow bunny or Latina Mami, SORRY TRUTH HURTS LOLOL

Hope I got my point across AND yeah I know that all women wear makeup/hair extensions etc BUT IT LOOKS/blends in with their natural hair unlike our women. THINK ABOUT THIS THOUGH, when was the last time you saw a white girl with an AFRO/why don't they wear them?

TLDR Most black women these days resemble that of an NON BLACK woman. So if that's the case why wouldn't we/I go date the REAL THING, THEN? I mean who wants a fake, when you can get the real thing? LOLOLOLOL

[banksss_]

It's the other way around lmao. Also there are many black girls that can press their hair out to be straight. The don't need weave (i. e me). White chicks go out & buy our bodies (lips, booties, tan, etc). Latinas will do the same shit too lol, don't let them fool you. Just bc you see a couple black chicks with bad weave doesn't mean we all wear weave.

[mistninja314]

This time I only bashed US (blacks)

But I've said everything that you just said to me... on GAG at 1 point in time. Imma just say this

WHITES want to be BLACK
BLACKS want to be WHITE
ARABS want to be Asians (random I know) LOL

Point being, everybody wants to be everyone (race wise) it seems these days etc

[Creole_Flavor]

@mistninja314 speaking the real :) and everyone can't handle it but it still needed to be said.

[mistninja314]

@Creole_Flavor Lol I'm speaking it and you're LOOKING it (love that profile pic)

[Creole_Flavor]

Thank u bunches <3

[bluehairgirl21]

I'm a Latin and I'm nit trying to look like any other race since I'm all in one (Portuguese, native American and black). I like my body the natural way it came, big hips big butt tiny waist and wavy hair. Most African American women I know are always trying to change their hair, nails etc . I also know white and Latinas who do this too. So yih can put us all in the basket

[Anonymous]

What Mistninja said plus sometimes it's being real love and sometimes self-hatred. Some only date other races because of the stereotype that they're easier.
I like black women and I've dated them along with hispanics but it was always legit love.
Don't give up on us though.. we still love y'all but us liking everybody is often mistaken for "hating black women" because some guys really do :/

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks for mho and keep ya head up you'll find a nice brotha.. he's out there somewhere :D

[Creole_Flavor]

If you ask each black guy that does date outside of their race exclusively they will have many different answers and some of those answers will be: submissiveness, exotic look, pleasure, to have light-skinned kids with fine textured hair and some answers might even be stupid but my whole thing is i'm not worrying about men that don't want me because if I can't get them there is no use in trying to figure it out lol. I have love and respect for any man sees the beauty of all black women in their natural state and does not put her down and pick her apart or talk about our attitudes and put someone else on a higher pedestal because he can't handle the strength of a black woman. Your mom is black and if you have sister they are black too and they are disrespected when they are being compared to other races. I'm not against dating outside your race I'm all for it but its wrong when a guy generalizes and puts his whole race down as his reason for dating other races. You are beautiful and you will find someone that sees you the same what inside and out.

[BelleGirl21]

What does submissiveness have to do with race?

[Creole_Flavor]

@BellGirl21 Nothing at all

[Creole_Flavor]

@BelleGirl21

[cutiepie4real]

This question is so deep, we may need Dr. Phil for help. I've often asked some of my black male friends the same question. I was told in one situation, the man said white girls were more aggressive sexually and had less "back talk". In another situation, my relative said that black women never gave him the time of day (he's very nice, but slightly nerdy). He said white women make him feel really good. (He seems to end up with those that "mother" him). Another man said white women are ready for sex immediately when black women make him wait. (? I dunno) If I could tell him anything, it would be that most black women that I know were raised to be a lady. Those are some examples, but I'm sure there are hundreds of more reasons.

[Your_boss960]

I've been noticing this too lately. I think it's because when they have children they don't want their daughters to be black. Because they know that they prefer lighter women so they try to make their future children try to have lighter skin.

Im not even racist, I'm not trying to be mean or rude. This is just what I've been thinking. Forgive me if I'm wrong and tell me what you think. I didn't want this to sound as bad as it did! D:

[banksss_]

Lol I'm all for love & if you love someone you should love them regardless of skin color. I've seen a lot of black dudes go with black & white girls bc they claim they're "submissive" & "don't have an ugly attitude". That makes me so angry bc you can't say every black woman has an attitude. You can't possibly know every black woman in existence lol. Some get with them bc they're color struck & some go with them bc they claim black women are argumentative & want to be the man in the relationship. Oh & don't worry lol you didn't say anything out of order :)

[Afrochick]

No offence taken it sounds like great logic

[Loudon]

Beats the hell outta me :/ often wonder the same thing too. I think it's because everytime "we" look up 9.5 times outta 10 we see a european looking woman. So its conditioning at its finest. It doesn't help that it's easier to see all women celebrating their non black features and their wanting to look more white.

I really don't know and I wish this wasn't the apparent trend.

[albundyfan]

Thank you. Its all a matter of exposure.

[delaney922]

i'm black but i'm mixed race so my skin tone is on the lighter side and once a (black) guy found out and immediately lost interest in me. it's a weird self-hatred thing i think. for ages people have been told that the black female body is undesirable and it's really really fucked up. honestly, i feel a little bit guilty whenever black guys are into me because i'm scared that it's because of my skin tone not being super dark and that i'm the "next best thing" to a white woman.

[zorro8888]

I like black girls too, I just don't feel the need to limit myself based on race. If I like a girl and our personalities match, I'd be a fool not to take a chance regardless of race.

[lovelina14]

Can't speak for all but maybe some just like to try new things. My boyfriend is white, I think I'm the first in my family to be in a interracial relationship. And it's pretty fun learning about different cultures

[MissMinaaaa]

Honestly, I think it's usually the light-skinned black guys do that.. Not saying all, but that's what I've mostly seen.

[Creole_Flavor]

Not true every light skinned dude I dated loved dark skinned girls I wasn't dark enough for one of them lol. Some guys are like that

[MissMinaaaa]

Read again. I said I "think", and what "I" have mostly seen. I also said "not saying all". The reason why I say mostly, is because the area I live in has mostly have light-skins. And the most that I have seen, yes, I said "I" again for emphasis, are like that. Keep in mind that posts on here are opinions, not facts. Of course you wouldn't see it as being true, it's not proven.

[SomeoneImportant]

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[blondfrog]

I am white and I love Latinos and whites and besides most Latinos are white.

[Anonymous]

I hate when black guys like latinos and whites more than blacks lol. I want a guy who likes black girls more than any other race hahah. I don't mean to sound racist but... I guess I'm picky... Lol.

[Tokana]

I like all sorts of girls.. and personality is a huge factor in my decision.

[CreepyOldMan]

Dayum! I'm stayin outa dis. Some sort of domestic issue going on with our African brethren, I assume.

[grahamcracka]

to get those light skinned, colorful eyed, sunburn resistant, wavy haired babies
I'm one of these so I might be biased lol

[Afrochick]

lol I smell self-hate

[grahamcracka]

Not here. I like being caramel

[Anonymous]

It's like a girl wanting to marry a rich guy. They want to move up in social status.

[cutiepie4real]

What do you mean? I hope you're not drinking the kool aid and believing what you see on tv that all black women are ghetto.
What do you mean by moving up in social status. Please explain since we're on here to tell the truth.

[Keyspirits]

I always see blacks with blacks here. don't know what world u live in..

[Anonymous]

They are being hunted n abducted by blondies coz of rumours of big packages... :D

[MyUsernameRules]

You can always look for non black guys though.

[banksss_]

I like any guy that's attractive & has a good personality lol BUT my love for black guys will never weaken.

[MyUsernameRules]

I see but I've noticed way more black girls who are less open to dating interracially than other girls. And at the same time, many complain why black guys go for other girls. If more black girls were open to other guys, I'm sure less black girls would complain about black guys cause guys usually don't care as much about a girl's race and skin color so they go for any girl they can get, regardless of what she is.

[MyUsernameRules]

I never meant to say that you should weaken your love for black guys lol :)

[Anonymous]

How though? Most white women stay with white men anyways

[DumpliingPrincess]

I'll find a black guy who can answer @mistninja314

[mistninja314]

Thanks right on time ^^

[hypno-trip]

For diversity I suppose...

[lenny510]

lol prob cus they dont like black chics

[Rick-Lewis]

So True :/.

[dev765]

They want those "exxoticals".