You aren't obsessed with him. You're obsessed with the need to be validated. That's what drives obsession. It could be anyone. And it has nothing to do with him, but you.
He's not even the player. You are. And even worse, you're playing yourself. It also happens to be the single biggest turn off in a woman in the history of turn offs.
There is not one other more annoying quality in a person, especially a romantic interest, than the desperation to be validated.
A queen actually knows she's a queen. A whore actually knows she's a whore. But a nothing doesn't know what she is and would as soon be whore as queen if it validated her as at least something.
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Yes it can be cute in way and i think receiving letters can be sexy in way with girl
No! Cease and desist immediately! That's super uncomfortable for them. Women don't like it either. Save your passion, nurture a talent or something instead:)
I wouldn't say writing letters makes you crazy or obsessed. He needs to say ok let's try again or no so you can move on.
I think the would get creeped out lol I wouldn't want someone doing that to me.
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I think I'd like it. I'd spend as much time with her as I could.
Umm... obsessed?
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Errrm... no 😕If you keep writing letters and you keep getting no response, then you're about to earn the psycho/stalker title. No, we don't like it.
Watch "misery" and "fatal attraction"
Possibly that's not what you meant. If it isn't, I retract the label.HELLL NO!!!
being obsessed with someone or sth... it's never good basicall...;-)No they do not. That is the best way to push a guy away. Girls like that end up being crazy, clingy, and act suicidal.
It can get too much really quickly, probably would make me uncomfortable hellah fast
well obsession is not love, so if he's mature enough to realize that, then he probably doesn't
I'd only like it if I thought the girl was attractive.
Clingy, needy, obsession, is what could scare guys away. Its okay for a while but after a while it gets annoying.
If a guy did that to me, its flattering but can become creepy... Especially if the feelings not mutual
Err I don't thinks so...
could you send me a letter?
It can make him feel uncomfortable
No it can get a bit much at times
Haha... I'm gonna say no
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