Why does he look at me that way?

There is this guy, the most desired by all the girls and all the boys are dying to be friends with him. He seems to be interested in me. And the thing is, all these show he likes me. But I'm worried whether he really likes or if he is checking to see if I like him. He does quite a lot. and I'm sure he likes me there, and he goes out of his way to be around me and stuff, and that's just so sweet. His friends are pretty good towards me too. But see the thing is, there's this one move he does & its the most obvious and it drives me nuts. It is totally scary, cause I'm usually this timid, nervous girl when people stare. And he knows it... knows that especially when he looks at me, I get all sweaty and fidgety.. but yet he does it.

IT goes like this. Lets say I go out of the class, and I forget something so I have to go back in. This guy would just turn fully and look at me directly into my eyes. and on and on.usually I can't meet this contact, because I'd embarrass myself, and I lose control of everything. But sometimes I do, and when I do, he never drops the eye contact, just goes on staring. Its so weird. And there's something there in his eyes. He doesn't smile, just watches on and on. And sometimes it looks like he is controlling a lot, like he is having an internal struggle or something, or else, like he is scared of me. And when I meet his eyes, his eyebrows go up and he just looks at me, in this weird way, like he is wants to eat me or something.. and that's so scary, usually if I meet his eyes... I just bang into something or drop something and make a huge scene right then and there.. and he knows it. yet he does such things...

And when we go home, he just stands in a place where we have to face him while we come.. usually he is laughing with all his friends and talking and glancing gazillions of times while we come.. but sometimes, while he is talking with someone, and if I'm alone specially, he would just squint like he is watching far away or something, but he has clear eyes, I know he is looking at me, and he would stare.. and it has always been on my face, especially my eyes... he would just stare into my eyes... and that's soo weird. Once when I was alone... he was talking with a guy in front of him, and then I came and faced him, he just started squinting, and watching me... When I passed, I heard a whole lot of laughter, so I turned just in time to catch, that, the guy who was in front of him, was saying, "look at this man will you, I thought he like looking at me, when go to see, he is putting the squint and watching someone else..." I was laughing like crazy...

So why does he look at me, like he is going to eat me... does he like me, or is he checking? He doesn't look mean, but its something like surprise and sometimes like he is scared of me, his eyes grow all wide... I don't know.. its so scary.. plus, what can I do, to get rid of my nerves and to be able to face him when he does that?

OMG>> today we had some kind of award ceremony.. and he was planning to go.. and I was staying.. so I was looking at him and he was looking at me.. but he went down with his bag.. and I was so sad. but he was staying. and I had to sit next to him...
and I had to sit next to him... right? he just started talking really loudly and laughing for the least funny comments.. and showing off... and I don't know.. he was turning towards me the whole time, I could barely breath in peace...
I can't believe he tricked me... I thought he wasn't going to stay.. and I was all pleading and looking into his eyes... jeez.. he can be such a meanie sometimes... and when he sees me again.. he looks at me, like, "TA DA, fooled you didn't I?" Jeezzzzzz.
im starting to think, this guy reminds me of how Edward stared at Bella when she came first day.. and he was HUngry... LOLL... kinda scares me imagining him as a vampire


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  • TRUST ME HE"S NERVOUS OF U! yea U! think about 4 A second I bet he can talk 2 any body else have conversations with whom ever bt when it comes 2 you he just stares its obvious he likes you but REALLY HE"S shy of you he wants 2 talk 2 you but don't know what 2 say trust me ima dude I know evry guy goes thru this bt ima tell you this you gotta get out of the staring game its OBIvious he's shy around you & vice versa MAKE HIM TALK 2 YOU ! try this next time he stare at you don't htink about it jus go up 2 him & spark a conversation & see what happens

    • Wow.. thanks... I sure hope so! :)

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What Guys Said 2

  • You're right. It is weird and kinda scary.

    What do you mean by, "eat me."

    Here's my suggestion: Gather up your courage and and when you two are together alone, ask him, "What's going on?"

    If everything seems safe, smile and say, "Thanks."

    If not, be ready to cut him to bits if he answers something creepy.

    You're female. You can do that. If he's a weirdo, leave him bleeding, then rub salt into the wounds.


    • Lmao ;)

    • Like I said, or maybe I didnt, we don't talk..... he has never had even a tiny conversation with a girl before... and he is all popular so he never goes anywhere alone... jeez.. besides I don't have the guts....

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What Girls Said 4

  • He finds you attractive and is drawn to you. I know you said you get flustered when he gazes at you, but try to give him a nice, long stare back and smile. I think he is feeling you out to determine if you have an interest too. He might be trying to figure out where your mind is before he does anything, if at all.

    I wish a guy would stare at me like that- LOL.

    • He he be careful what you wish for :), It's not like when other blokes stare and you just give them a smile back and carry about your day, this stare is like there looking deep inside you and it drives you wild with confusion ha ha

    • My stare can be just as deep and soul capturing.......he'll wonder "what the hell is going through her mind?" :)

    • Wow... I hope that's the case... THanks!!!!

  • omg my crush stares at me in the exact same way as you have described your fella except when he raises his eye brows he gives this little like side smirk or something, and I know how your feeling it is just so weird I can't work it out either, ha ha :) but at least I know I'm not the only one getting this treatment.

    • Oh and I have come to the conclusion that him and his mates are just tacking the p*ss out of me.

    • Yea,his pals all go, You know... "Hai hai.. " or "there she is" and they all stare at him and me and he is staring at me tooo... that just drives me out of sorts.. I get so nervous... lol.. yea I'm glad too someone else has the same experience...lol

  • My crush does the same thing he doesn't smile either but hell just start staring at me out of nowhere like I saw him staring at me from far the other side of the cafeteria but yeah I think he likes you. amy crush tries to get where he can see me too.

  • He sounds crazy to me, and controlling. I wonder if he is making fun of you because he knows that you react so much when he stares. He gives no positive bodily language, like a smile or tenderness. He hasn't told you he likes you either, so why do you think he does? I think he is using you for some sick joke. Unless someone tells you they like you, I wouldn't assume that he likes you. You like him. But God knows why.

    • He does all the things a a guy should do if he is interested.. like stands where his shoulders are in my way.. he stands right in front always too... and he has told all his friends.. and you may think he does it like she is that freak in love with me... but they all tease him like.... there's your girl... and he is quite sweet towards me... he is shy too. but that move is the one that is scary.. hmmmmm.. you know you might be right!

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