I was dating a white boy for 10 months, he wasn't allowing us to get any closer and he would tell me things like; "You're too much woman for me", "I dont understand what a woman like you sees in a guy like me?"
Killed me!!! I was VERY INTO HIM and he absolutely LOVED grabbing my curves, as his last girl was Asian and he admitted he enjoyed the upgrade in certain areas ;). He would always tell me how hot I was and how I turned him on, but once I lashed out (my hot-headed-latina side) because he wasn't giving answers on our relationship, he withdrew and just shut down. Ran off with an Asian girl again. :(
I'm very frustrated. Seems most white men are so sensitive! Latina's LOVE that passion and have that feisty character, but we are ever so caring of the home and our men. I for one love to cook, I'm attentive and dammit do I love sex so never a dull moment with me! Also, I make sure I'm always dressed nicely and keep fit. So, what is it? "Too good to be true deal?"
He also kept saying, "There's more to you that I don't know, like you're hiding something"
WHAT? NOTHING! I just want a man to be a man and handle me as his woman, slap my ass here and there, get romantic, let me feed and spoil him, go out and get away, travel together...(and I'm not jealous like most Latinas)
::broken heart:: :(
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Being a hispanic female myself I know the concern that you have, but don't worry it has nothing to do with your race. When you meet someone you like it has nothing to do with what race or nationality they are. Guys are surprisingly shy and have the same anxieties that females have about the opposite gender. I suggest if you like a guy you should just go ahead and let them know, it takes courage, but you will feel better knowing whether or not they have feelings for you as well. VIVA LA MUJERA!
im attracted to all kinds of girls. I myself have dated a few hispanic girls and its no big deal. I am an english major and I had to read an essay out of my text book for an essay I had to write and it was about hispanic women in the workplace and who majorly make up white collar offices? white men. it actually was interesting because the entire article was about her curves and her natural hispanic womanly figure and it became more and more clear that men are intimidated by overly womenly women with confidence. the average guy would shy away from a strong woman and although its true and also a terrible sterotype, hispanic women are usually passionate, independent and strong willed women. Not all hispanic girls are sluts by the way, I hate the reputation hispanic and latina girls have of being ghetto and popping out babies left and right. More times than other the average guy wouldn't approach an attractive woman out of intimidation and fear of rejection, add the sterotype of being strong willed and having aura of confidence and it will drive guys to go after the easier girls...sad but true, sometimes. everything comes with exceptions to the rules
I don't think race plays a huge part. I'm attracted to all kinds of races - If I genuinely like a hispanic girl, was comfortable around her and she gave me positive signals id deffinetly want to go out with her
Lots of guys, including myself are really shy and can be intimidated. Maybe your not making yourself appear to be freidnly or approachable
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White guys love hispanic girls. We are just a bit intimidated I think. Its easier to approach a white girl than a hispanic girl. If a hispanic girl approached me and came off as a sweet girl I would definately take the bait. I know me and all my friends always talk about how hispanic women are kinda a fantasy we all want, I think its because they seem more mytserious and sensual.
nope, all my friends and I love Hispanic women! I have never heard of this reputation?
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