If a guy finds an excuse to text you everyday does that mean he's into you?

[Anonymous]

Everyday now going on 2 weeks this guy who've had a crush on for about almost a year and a half is now wanting to talk to me more and more everyday. He starts the chats first. Last night around 1am he snap chatted and I stayed up until like 430am talking to him. I must have been on his mind. he'll always find an excuse to snapchat or to text me throughout the day which I find pretty fucking cute. He usually always sends me things we have in common pictures of them. I think that's his way of thinking telling me hey I'm thinking about you. We're pretty good friends also. I just think he's shy and isn't sure if I like him back. Is he hitting on me if he keeps wanting to talk everyday?

[Princessnikki15]

Yessss!!! Like you said by sending those pictures he's showing you things that reminds him of you ! That's so cute !!!

[Asker]

Ugh my god this makes me super happy

[Princessnikki15]

Girl ll I know !! It's such a relief when you find out the person you like likes you back

[Asker]

Man it really is. Good thing because he's very cute. I just adore him.

[Princessnikki15]

Awwww !! I wish you two the best of luck ! 💖

[Asker]

It's just nice for once it's someone I actually like and not someone I'm actually interested in and not some creeper dude

[Princessnikki15]

Yes! That's the best feeling !

[Asker]

Another good thing is he took himself off some of the dating site he was on like that's a big deal

[Princessnikki15]

thats good 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 just take things slow

[TheBootyChest]

I would say yes, but there is a small chance that he really wants you as a close friend in his life. Or both.

[Asker]

he does get pretty personal also

[TheBootyChest]

could you share a few of the things he says?

[Asker]

He's tell me about him past relationships and we've talked about our families he never would tell me stuff like this before.

[Asker]

He'll tell me about his day and what's been going on with it at work

[TheBootyChest]

With the work stuff it could be a friend thing. But with the relationships and family thing it could be that he is interested in you and wants to open up to you more.

[Asker]

There's something there he makes to much effort each day for him not to be interested.

[TheBootyChest]

I totally agree with that. He certainly seems interested in you. You can either show him you are interested or let him keep doing what he's doing. Sometimes guys are shy and need a clue posted on a billboard on the side of the freeway that you have to point to for him to see it.

[Asker]

I think he knows cause I said something like 2am snap chats from you are the best.

[Asker]

This is pretty awesome cause I've pushed away so many guys just for him and now he's so interested in me

[TheBootyChest]

This is where you either ask him out yourself if you are a strong independent woman or suggest to him that he ask you out. Or another way is saying "when are we going to make this thing official?"

[Asker]

I'll ask him if he wants to hang out sometime but usually when I ask him it's always yes

[TheBootyChest]

That still says "friend zone". Think more like "do you want to go out for a nice dinner" or "come over and look at what I just picked up at Victoria's Secret"

(I say that with the utmost respect for you.)

[genericname85]

not necessarily. i text with my best female friend every day too :D

[slywinkle]

Yup. Means you're on his mind. A lot it seems

[Asker]

I can deal with that. He usually is the one to start the conversations which means he's very interested

[slywinkle]

Then I'd say, if you are interested in him, try and let him know it. See if you can take it to the next level. It sounds like you've got a shot at something nice so go for it. Good luck to you :-)

[Asker]

So is that why he rather snap chat me then text me so I can see his face and that he's making sure I'm only thinking about him and no other guys I feel like that's why he does that

[slywinkle]

Maybe so. If you dig somebody, you'd rather see them. I think anytime you can see someone it's more personal than just a text.

[gujito]

He's definitely hitting on you

[Asker]

So he def likes me huh? If keeps doing that.

[gujito]

If thinks about you at 1 am i'm pretty damn sure he likes you

[Asker]

That's fucking awesome I never thought he'd like me like that.

[ConsultantIsBack]

Texts everyday = would love to make babies with you

[lNathyMartinez]

He's hitting on you!

[Asker]

Your name just makes me think of Melanie Martinez I don't know why probably the last name lol

[lNathyMartinez]

Thanks, I guess xdd