even if it accidental and not too slutty or anything?
Do guys like it when girls show their bra straps and stuff like parts of their bras?
Guys know how worried about appearing "slutty" girls are. Which mean that they know that anything having to do with a girl's appearance is very carefully monitored and maintained by the girl. Everything from what she's wearing, to how she's wearing it, to how she's moving her body, to how she's looking at someone, to her facial expression, etc.
So when something is there, guys know it's there because she wants it to be there; never by "accident"
There's no such thing as an "accident" when it comes to a woman's appearance. Everything is calculated down to the last detail.
So when a guy sees a girl with her bra strap sticking out; the only thing that he's thinking is.. "she's trying to turn guys on; she's trying to attract sexual attention onto herself"
That's all a guy can logically infer.. he can make assumptions.. but that's the only valid inference he can make..
Assumptions:
- She's single and looking for find a guy
- for a relationship
- or just for sex
- She has low self esteem
- or daddy issues
- and is looking for male attention
- to comfort her insecurities
- validate her low-self-esteem
- and feel better about herself
From a hunter's POV, this is interesting prey.
The "I'm not a slut, I have respect for myself & my body, I'm not easy" types are probably the easiest to take down. All there is, is just fear that the guy is just going to want her for sex and then leave her. So it requires "sniping", patiently waiting it out, being very aware & perceptive, letting her feel cared for, appreciated, special, until she can feel comfortable & safe; take your shot and go home.
But the "daddy issues, hot emotional mess, Alicia Silverstone in Excess Baggage" type is far more interesting. She's not predictable. There's no redundant routine of behaviors that is common to most other women that she displays. Which is why she's fun. You sort of don't know what's real and what's fake. It's a rich learning experience, combined with the thrill of playing with fire; or at least the promise of both. She's an untamed animal you want to tame; even though you know, that's probably just a fantasy, and that some wild cats simply can never be domesticated.
She might give you a blowjob while you're driving, you might have two nights of amazing hot mind-blowing sex; and then you won't hear from her for a week. And then she'll call on a Thursday to ask you what you're doing next weekend. And when you want to be romantic & emotionally close & intimate with her; she just creates emotional distance and talk about bringing her bi friend over, and if you're okay with filming a movie together.
When you allow for such an "accident" in your appearance, you attract a specific group of guys.
- Bored
- Fun/thrill seekers
- Confident, but wicked
You do filter out guys just looking for one thing, but that's because you're such a departure from the norm; that the guys you DO attract who want a relationship with you, are probably nuts in some way to begin with.
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Yes of course it just like that there are lots of clouds are in sky and we want more like cool wind and rain and rainbow to see. If a guy luckily get a look of bra straps or inner stuffs' glimpes he will stare at them again and again. His nervous will be uncontrolled if gal is really hot and tight. Actually then he wants to see more and more. If gal stays there they will start smiling also.
This is pretty natural even gals also do this when they see handsome guys.
As second option girls sometime show there inner stuff to those boys whom they really like so that they can attract those guys either for becoming friend or making fun or for sex.
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Well, some guys think it's trashy, some think it's hot, and some don't care. If your trying to get a 'certain' guys attention, then flashing your bra straps around isn't the answer. I mean your bra isn't anything that's gonna get you much attention anyway, I mean maybe from some girls who are just gonna tag you as a slut. anyway, some guys might think your doing it on purpose and think that you'll just hook up, you know? I rather keep my bra straps inside my shirt sounds less complicated. I mean unless your just hanging out with close friends, then I wouldn't care.
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bra straps are one thing.
the actual cups completely another.
like I knew a girl (bless her it wasn't her fault) who went somewhere and whose shirt was very obviously falling down to reveal her bra (not even that much of it, but still). she was so embarrassed, but all those guys though she was a huge slut. it didn't help that it was quite a slutty bra.
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My guy certainly does.
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Well it depends. Most of the time, heck yes! I prefer if it looks accidental, but you can make it "purposely accidental"! It also depends on the bra, if it's like a grandma bra (no offense to grandma's haha) with thick straps and stuff, not so much. But if it's some thin straps that look good for the most part, for sure ;).
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Yeah...it can make a cute girl seem pretty sexy...it's not naughty thoughts solely, but for some reason it's very turning on! Generally, exposed shoulders are. And combine this with a bit of accidentally messy hair and you're going to make a guy attend NASA for a flight ;)
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Some guys do because there hoes but some guys dont. Like this one chiks thong was hanging out and I was gona tell her and this guy was laughing about it and telling other guys about it an I was like wow your cool. But some other chick ended up telling her and she quickly pulled down her shirt. If its intentional I don't think it looks very hot I agree with the whole trashy thing...
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It will make us notice and does make a girl seem more "dirty" not necessarily a slut, but possibly looking for that sexual attention.
However, from bras guys tend to look at other areas and if purely based on this physical attraction of added bits will we decide if we like it or not.
Bra straps + Good figure/Face/breasts = like
Bra straps + overweight/coinslot/not pretty face = Dislike
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I think it looks sloppy and trashy. Anything but sexy. Sexy is wearing a sheer cotton or linen blouse and having your bra show through just a bit. But wearing a tank top with straps showing or falling is lazy and low class. More women should invest in wrap around mirrors so they can see how they look to others. And if their friends think they look cool with their muffin tops showing and half their underwear out...then they need new friends. Sheesh.
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I don't mind it, but it isn't exactly hardly something that's gonna give me a hard on. It'd be like seeing a guy's shirt he's wearing under his hoodie or something. Just really not something I pay a lot of attention to.
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hat’s so childish, I use to do that when I was in junior high, stick my thong out and my bra etc
Just to get attention and of course I did.! But now that am almost 19 I think its so trashy and stupid.
Pulse my hubby would kill me if he see those stuff showing in public lol -
never paid a lot of attention to that...I usually focus on there eyes and there smile.
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They better like it, because I honestly don't care wether or not my bra straps are showing. Everyone wears one, so it's no big deal.
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Yes, I like it. I like being able to see the entire bra. It's even better when the bra is flimsy enough that her boobs jiggle and wiggle with her every step or movement.
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Yeah, that's hot! A girl did that with me once (bra-strap) and I asked her out and we dated for a bit...lol..the bra strap did it!
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I think straps can be hot most of the time, if not done to draw attention. But if its other parts of the bra, that could be a bad thing.
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well some guys do but those are the punks who just want one thing but the sweet ones say I'm sorry but you bra straps showing
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oh yeah I mean breasts are the sexiest part of a women body
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Depends on the girl. If it's obviously intentional, no. But if it's accidental, yeah. Also, be careful what bra you wear. I saw a girl wearing a cheetah bra today, who I normally would find attractive, and it was an instant turn-off for some reason.
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It's stupid and trashy.. Guys don't bring sluts home to their moms! Remember that.
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what do you think? it gets guys thinking about their bra...
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I rarely even notice. Most of these answers are really surprising. I didn't know I was in the minority.
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ummm honestly I totally wudnt care but there are times when a girls like bra is being exposed I would wanna cover her up..i totally dk y lol I don't think its slutty at all
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I was raised never to show your underwear. But, in today's world where we have sure pretty bras, See no reason to tease a bit.
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