Why do guys only want to fuck me but date a white girl?

[Anonymous]

I could be just as loving, fun, ambitious, hardworking, career minded, accomplishing goals and everything else, but its always just a fuck (or try to fuck) me :'(

Im going to move away and never look back lol

please I don't want people feeling sorry I want the cold hard truth. I already feel like many guys treat us brown girls as notches in their belts. If we are ugly then just say it!

A white woman can flaunt her assets and guys see them as beautiful Queens, but us colored girls arn't respected as much. I've seen it all

[Anonymous]

You will be considered the same thing than white women in Brazil, we don't even use the word brown or white here, we call white people of dark hair and some people little tanned, the word used is "moreno" and they aren't even obsessed with race here, nobody says anything against them or care for them, they are normal. Maybe they are normal in America too and are only troll or race baiting racist americans of all races and ethnicity trying to push this, I don't know. I don't know if Brazil had bad influence in the last 10 years with the internet and the media from America and the people become a little bit more racist than they never would be without American internet and American race baiting. Even the official websites of America try to use race baiting and flame this is why I try to avoid the majority of websites unless I know some place is less worse or safe. I try to avoid some things from American media too, sometimes.

Don't believe in the few rare internet losers from Brazil, they are rare and they are just people who want to follow and copy everything invented or spread by America on their internet and in America media sometimes who include their racism and race baiting strategies with the people who pretend to be anti-racist but talk about race all the time and need the racism to keep their jobs and excuses to keep everything pretending to be against it. Or just wanting some advantage for themselves.

[Opinion Owner]

When the women use the word "moreno" they mainly think in whites of dark hair, but I'm using "white" to American understand because we don't see someone and think, oh my god you're white, oh my god you're brown, the majority of normal people just don't think in race here but of course we have our preferences for relationship, we try to avoid the race baiting and force race in everything, "morena" is used for the women, and in general because of the sun they become a little tanned here unless are in some cities who have less sun, and we have "brown" people or little tanned people that are called "moreno" too.

But I don't know if the influence of the American internet and their globalism changed so much my country in the last 10 years, I don't see this, but I always think that the racism increased with the internet, Americans spread their racism for other countries pretending to be anti-racist, race baiting. We had more acess to the internet and things from American mostly after 2004.

[BubbleGuppies]

Your body must be pretty good!
but i've never noticed thi i guess i haven't payed any attention.

[xXiTacoXx]

That's the question many women of colour wish was answered. ┐('～`；)┌

[RedThread]

Here's a guy checking in who would love and respect a woman he feels a connection with regardless of the color of her skin. Unfortunately there are a lot of people who fantasize and objectify people of other races. I really don't know why that is because we are all human beings. It isn't like we are really different from each other. It really pisses me off because it dehumanizes people. It also reeks of superiority.

"Hey I'll fuck you but I don't think you're worth dating or taking home to meet my parents." It's a disgusting mindset. I don't care if people have casual sex but when they relegate people of certain skin colors to that category exclusively it's beyond reprehensible.

You're worthwhile just as you are. Unfortunately you're going to have to be really careful when getting to know a guy because he may have this racist mindset. Yes people can be racist and have sex with other races. Slave owners did that shit all the time.

Keep your chin up. Remember you have dignity and worth and you're beautiful as you are.

[Asker]

This was beautiful. Thank you.

[RedThread]

You're very welcome!
Thanks for MH!

[Anonymous]

Cold hard truth? Right. So this won't be me being rude, just what I think. Don't take offense.

I think a white girl is seen as more of an accomplishment or trophy in general society.
Sure that might be twisted and wrong in all kinds of ways, but I think it is that sort of view that is the reason behind it.

[tyber1]

I would have no issue dating a 'brown' girl, whether that be Hispanic, Arabic, Asian or anything else, just so long as there weren't any cultural or religious barriers. As long as she is pretty that's good enough for me.

[Anonymous]

Strange. The girl live with is black and wev fucked a lot but i wouldn't date her.
I suppose black people just don't seem as good an option. I know that's harsh but I'm being real. And no im not racist, but we all have an element of subconscious natural racism in us whether we want it or not, it's a defence mechanism.

[Asker]

But you said so you're fucjing her... But won't date her? That's bizzare seems like you're the racist because you do agree with us 'all having an element of sub. To natural racism'. Get outta herreeeee😤

[Asker]

So you're one of those huh..

[Opinion Owner]

Erm yes.. If you actually study humans you will learn that it is part of our natural defenses to be weary of other tribes, colours etc because they can pose a threat. The same as a cat will run from a dog, idiot.

[Asker]

hmmm because I've seen babies of different colors treat eachother with love. Racism is taught hate. fucking idiot

[Opinion Owner]

You're the idiot. Learn some science bitch

[Asker]

You're an idiot learn how to not judge a book by its cover racist

[Opinion Owner]

I'm not judging anybody you imbecile

[Asker]

You very well are you nematoad.
You just said "strange. The girl I live with is black and we've ducked a lot BUT INWOULDNT DATE HER." Class is dismissed you troll

[Opinion Owner]

So because I won't date her that makes me racist?
Go and suck a black dick you ho

[Asker]

No I really think you should go back to high school. Because you judge and claim you are a racist. Now you're acting as if you have Alzheimer's.

[Opinion Owner]

I never claimed to be racist. How the fuck can i be racist when I live with and fucked my black housemate who is also my best friend. Silly bint
I even fingered a chinky girl a few years ago too.

[Asker]

Case #1: chinky.. (Thats a racial slur)
Case point #2: And no im not racist, but we all have an element of subconscious natural racism in us whether we want it or not, it's a defence mechanism.

[Asker]

Your just a troll and I won't be futher entertaining you or your ignorance. Have a blessed day

[alyssaang9]

If he can't accept your color he's an ass and is not worth your time or thought and 1day someone will accept it

[Zombie-Killa]

That's all in your head, Trust me.
The white girls out there disgracing themselves and throwing it around like it's going outta style, are looked at as a pump. That's about it lol

[Asker]

I believe you. I see colored girls and non colored women acting like this but its a huge majority of guys so overly fixated on my appearance first then with a non colored girl or they will at least try getting to know her before pressuring her in the dating scene. but the only guys who show that respectful behavior is older men :) which I do like.

[Asker]

pressuring her with sex* in the dating scene.

[yuyu30002]

I love me a brown sugar queen white sugar is bad for u

[ArtDent]

I've never had a brown girl, so I don't know what you are talking about. But that whole litany surrounding economic success? I couldn't give two squirts about that, so long as the woman isn't a leech.

[Anonymous]

They might see you as exotic so that becomes objectified.
I noticed this too esp when I date outside my

[Let_me_do_that]

well they are considering your body not heart

[Asker]

But a white girl can have the same body shape and size as I do, yet they get respected more?

[Let_me_do_that]

I think most of coloured girls have nice shape than white girls and on the other hand such guys are just disrespectful for both types

[Nivekian]

You're just around the wrong guys

[jmmmfi2]

I wouldn't even fuck you

[Asker]

Thats nice dude

[Anonymous]

I feel you... Most guys are WAY TOO SHALLOW