Holds grudges, doesn't generally care for people, big ego, insecure enough to be upset when people make fun of him... Yeah, this ones definitely a winner.
Honestly, you don't seem "cold-hearted" at all. Based on your description, you sound like you're extremely sensitive. Can't get over things and can't deal with criticism. Boom.
Also, I can't imagine any sane woman wanting to put up with this sort of nonsense in a relationship.
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I seem attracted to guys like you. Loner people, shut off, don't want to be attached
To be with someone I feel like they have to be able to love someone else more than themselves, I'm not saying me but they need to be able to sacrifice things and not only be considered on their own lives, if you're able to live for someone else such as family/children or girlfriend then only you could achieve happiness. That's just for me tho
What girls want is very self centered. Don't use what they want as a guideline for your life. Idiots do that and girls who are entitled speak like we should conform to that.
Be ur own man who has a plan and a backbone.
Girls like different things according to their mood so... be ur own man
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Personally I like emotional guys but not to emotional. I like a guy that is confident because confidence is sexy. You can't change who you are so just find a girl that matches your personality and you'll be fine. There is nothing wrong with not being super emotional or being shy just be yourself and be with someone who likes who you are.
I resent cold hearted guys. Especially the ones who pretend like they are really warm and caring but on the inside,, cold and empty. I've been hurt by cold hearted people.
I am awfully insecure and anxious as well, so I don't like it when a guy doesn't tell me how he feels about me. But personally I like serious people to balance my personality.
I'd like someone in between. In high school, I dated a guy who was cold but also sensitive. Sometimes his coldness was too much, but just right compared to the guy I like now who's is super nice but way too sensitive and emotional.
I am kinda like you except I dont keep grudges on people because I dont care. but if you think people like cold hearted people then look at yourself, I look at myself. are we with someone awesome? NO then the answer is no.
Girls don't want the extreme spectrums. They don't want you to be emotionally distant, but they don't want a guy that flips his emotions like a drop of a hat.
Guys who are "cold hearted" usually have issues KEEPING a girl long term.
I'll keep it #100 ; I've never seen a cold hearted, emotionally distant guy with a speck of social skills struggle getting a girl's interest or with getting laid.
I don't like cold-hearted guys. I am quite cold-hearted myself I need someone to balance me. Just kidding. I love guys who are not afraid to show their emotions.
Warm hearted guys are my type, helpful, polite, kind, cheerful. Not the type that hates the whole world, are negative and bitter. I prefer positivity around myself and majority of others too. Being togh and cold may sound cool or whatever but it's not good in the long run. But at least you were honest, that's a way better quality than anything you wrote So excuse me for being honest as well
It depends on the woman, and/or how well the guy masks his cold heart with emotions and/or how well an emotional man masks his emotions with a cold heart.
I love sensitive guys. I love sensitive people. I like people who feel and are compassionate. They make me feel wanted in a world where people seldom feel accepted.
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Holds grudges, doesn't generally care for people, big ego, insecure enough to be upset when people make fun of him... Yeah, this ones definitely a winner.
Honestly, you don't seem "cold-hearted" at all. Based on your description, you sound like you're extremely sensitive. Can't get over things and can't deal with criticism. Boom.
Also, I can't imagine any sane woman wanting to put up with this sort of nonsense in a relationship.
I seem attracted to guys like you. Loner people, shut off, don't want to be attached
Sorry to bother but can you answer mine too maybe?
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1892623-guys-would-you-feel-offended-if-a-girl-compares-you-to-the-joker
To be with someone I feel like they have to be able to love someone else more than themselves, I'm not saying me but they need to be able to sacrifice things and not only be considered on their own lives, if you're able to live for someone else such as family/children or girlfriend then only you could achieve happiness. That's just for me tho
What girls want is very self centered. Don't use what they want as a guideline for your life. Idiots do that and girls who are entitled speak like we should conform to that.
Be ur own man who has a plan and a backbone.
Girls like different things according to their mood so... be ur own man
Personally I like emotional guys but not to emotional. I like a guy that is confident because confidence is sexy. You can't change who you are so just find a girl that matches your personality and you'll be fine. There is nothing wrong with not being super emotional or being shy just be yourself and be with someone who likes who you are.
I resent cold hearted guys. Especially the ones who pretend like they are really warm and caring but on the inside,, cold and empty. I've been hurt by cold hearted people.
I am awfully insecure and anxious as well, so I don't like it when a guy doesn't tell me how he feels about me. But personally I like serious people to balance my personality.
I'd like someone in between. In high school, I dated a guy who was cold but also sensitive. Sometimes his coldness was too much, but just right compared to the guy I like now who's is super nice but way too sensitive and emotional.
I am kinda like you except I dont keep grudges on people because I dont care. but if you think people like cold hearted people then look at yourself, I look at myself. are we with someone awesome? NO then the answer is no.
i like emotional because emotions are a human thing not just a female thing.
Most of us like a man who is emotionally stable. As in, isn't afraid of his feelings but also not a slave to them.
Girls don't want the extreme spectrums. They don't want you to be emotionally distant, but they don't want a guy that flips his emotions like a drop of a hat.
Guys who are "cold hearted" usually have issues KEEPING a girl long term.
I'll keep it #100 ; I've never seen a cold hearted, emotionally distant guy with a speck of social skills struggle getting a girl's interest or with getting laid.
I don't like cold-hearted guys. I am quite cold-hearted myself I need someone to balance me. Just kidding.
I love guys who are not afraid to show their emotions.
Warm hearted guys are my type, helpful, polite, kind, cheerful. Not the type that hates the whole world, are negative and bitter. I prefer positivity around myself and majority of others too. Being togh and cold may sound cool or whatever but it's not good in the long run.
But at least you were honest, that's a way better quality than anything you wrote
So excuse me for being honest as well
It depends on the woman, and/or how well the guy masks his cold heart with emotions and/or how well an emotional man masks his emotions with a cold heart.
I love sensitive guys. I love sensitive people. I like people who feel and are compassionate. They make me feel wanted in a world where people seldom feel accepted.
I personally like guys who are generally caring. It's not that you have to be nice to every single person but a person who is generally nice.
It would be great if a guy could open his feeling with his girlfriend as well.
Your description doesn t define a cold hearted person.
You get easily affected by others and you are emotional
Personally, I Love it when a guy is secure enough with himself to honestly and openly show his emotions...❤