Do white guys like black girls? I'm a black girl who's definitely down to swirl but i'm not sure if most white guys feel the same?

[queenmadi]

Most of the white guys in my area say they strictly like white girls (or any other race that could pass for white), maybe they don't "mind" it but their parents would freak out, they'll flirt with a black girl but not date them, or that they would be open as long as she's light skin or mixed. One time there was a white guy that was flirting with me for a while and one night things escalated but I stopped it because it didn't feel right but the following week he kept saying how he doesn't like black girls and would never date one but he definitely had been flirting with me non stop for weeks. Personally i'm tired of living in an age where people discriminate over skin color and I want a guy to genuinely like me for me regardless of my brown skin color.. So i'm wondering if most white guys like black girls.

[ak666]

I'm not 100% white. I have some Japanese mix in there (25%), though I don't look it.

If that can count, I've found women of all sorts to be quite beautiful, and dated a black woman. I might have even married her except, because of some uncontrollable circumstances, we got put into a long-term relationship. I remember always wanting to kiss her on the cheeks, as her skin was so soft and smooth.

Yet, unfortunately, I found my mother (completely white) threw a passive-aggressive fit over this. I didn't recognize that side of my mother before, and it really disappointed me. She just spouted all kinds of nonsense like, "They don't move the same, they don't talk the same. They're not like us." Just utter garbage like this.

And that permanently strained my relationship with her. I realized the person who gave birth to me was sort of an idiot. I loved her, but I just couldn't believe what I was hearing -- so obviously illogical, such poor reasons to dislike people.

So I ignored her and just continued to see this woman I cared about very much. One difficulty -- she was quite a looker, and when we walked around on the street holding hands, it was also difficult with black men who would kind of tease us and yell that they could please her better than me, things of this sort. I found that most unpleasant and it was kind of intimidating me and making me insecure a bit, but I really cared about her.

[Anonymous]

First of all, don't use creepy terms like "down with the swirl," just don't. They're weird and they lend normal human attraction the freak-show air of a circus act. Second, no, most white guys don't like black girls. Before you get upset, though, remember that most black girls don't like white guys. There are many, many reasons for this mutual disinterest, but they're far too many to list here. There are white guys who do like black girls, it's just not the majority of us.

Before you get on a high horse about white people making interracial dating difficult, it would do you good to understand that it looks eerily similar from the white perspective. We see a lot of black girls and their families discriminating against us and putting up some pretty stiff roadblocks to interracial relationships.

Most white guys who've dated a black girl have gotten the freeze-out from her family and friends. We've heard her male and female friends whispering things to her like "what are you doing with that white boy?" So it's a two-way street.

My advice to you is to just show interest in a guy of any race who you like. There will be guys--white, Asian, Latin, whatever--who shut you down, and there will be others who will be thrilled for your attention.

[ashisimo]

"down to swirl" I don't know why that made me laugh lol it's all to do with location, take a trip to more diverse places and you'll definitely get some love.

[BabyCrazy]

What's wrong with the black girls on this site? You all look and sound desperate

[queenmadi]

Its not a matter of desperation, its just that living in an area where black girls get shitted on i'm wondering how other people think

[Wasteland_Wanderer]

Not nearly as desperate as others on this site.

[Knuckles77]

This white guy is down to swirl as you put it too. I'm an equal opportunity employer so to speak. Hot is hot regardless of race. I've dated and hooked up with a few black girls and will again if I find one that I'm interested in.

You should understand if a person regardless of race doesn't like black girls because that's what they're not attracted to, it's not discrimination. I don't like fat girls persay in an attraction sense. That's not discrimination.

On the whole I don't think most white guys parents would freak out over their son dating a black girl in this day and age. If they would fu*k them.

[Bobba_Fett]

Generalizations dangerous, clearly. But I'm white as hell, and I love dark women.

Ignore all those jerks.

By the way, people generally don't do 180s like that, he was probably hurt that you rejected him. Pretty mean to use your race to express it tho. People can be nasty sometimes. I'm sorry that happened.

[Anonymous]

I live at quite a white university where there aren't many black girls and I find that black girls who are equally physically attractive are actually MORE attractive to me because they are unique. I can't say this applies to everyone, but personally skin colour doesn't bother me so long as I find you attractive.

Even really racist guys would probably have a hard time saying no to a beautiful girl, regardless of skin colour. Chances are if that guy was flirting with you, you're already very pretty!

[MrSalik]

Most of the white guys would like white girls. That is the truth. I believe that if a white guy doesn't mind, then his family could mind. That can always be a problem between boy and family. Maybe 5% of families support their white son who is in love with a black girl. Sorry for bad English, hope you can understand what I tried to tell.

[ClassicRocker]

I've answered this question half a dozen times on this site and I always put basically the same answer, but before I answer you're talking about American culture right?

[queenmadi]

yes i am talking about American culture in the northern states around marlyand, ohio, and newyork

[ClassicRocker]

First of all I'll shed some light on your personal anecdote. The reason he got all bitter with you was because he perceived what you did as a rejection. All of us guys get rejected fairly often nothing to do about it just part of the culture so once you do get rejected you have to convince yourself that the source of your rejection is invalid. If it's multiple women you go to a stripclub and by the time you're done you're convinced that shit women say shouldn't get to you. If it's an individual girl that you really liked you convince yourself that you never liked her/couldn't have liked her/ she was a bitch anyway...

[ClassicRocker]

In other words your skin tone had nothing to do with it. It was just a convenient and readily available excuse to invalidate your rejection so that he can keep some shred of his self-esteem alive.

[abc3643]

Oh God yes. Lord knows how many cracker guys would love to get down with some sisters, me included.

[Yumix]

I don't care about skin colour and I don't care what other people think about it when I would date a black girl

[FakeName123]

I am not particulary attracted to blacks, but there are a few black girls I found pretty attracted and wouldn't mind dating them.

[magiusX26]

am a white guy who does not care about race or skin color. hell if you skin is darker then i get an extra thrill from the color contrast

[Anonymous]

I'm getting tired of these questions - Do you only date white guys?

[queenmadi]

As of now i only have dated white guys but don't care about any skin color bc i was never raised to see color as an issue

[Opinion Owner]

Would you ever date a black guy?

[queenmadi]

Yeah 100% i've never seen skin color as an issue! my thing is if i like you then I like you. Simple as that.

[StickStickity13]

If I met the right one, sure.

[Dred1614]

I know guys that do. I don't.

[Humping_Tornadoes]

I'm not

[Humping_Tornadoes]

sure if he actually said that because you are black though, it seems as if he did it because you rejected him and he was showing a little bit of pride.

[Anonymous]

Are caucasian guys interesting?

[Anonymous]

There is some out there I'm sure.

[Joe__Exotic]

Are you hot?