He rested his arm against mine?

[Anonymous]

I was sitting next to my crush in the computer lab.

It started with him brushing his elbow on my elbow, and then he just rested it there.

Is he attracted to me? Was he aware? Am i overthinking it?

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+1 y

Obviously this isn't the only sign he's given me but if I were to go through all of my interactions with him then I might as well write a novel. Just base my question off of attraction. If a guy does that is he okay with touching me?

[10dsw]

Could be something however I wouldn't overthink it.

However if a girl does that to me I take it as a sign of interest. Most girls aren't comfortable getting into the personal space of men so overtly.

Sometimes when I walk with my female co-workers, I can feel them getting into my personal space or brushing against my arm. Do you think I don't know what's going on? I think this indicates interest in a girl but not necessarily in a guy.

[thorthorley]

It could be a good sign, but you need a lot more than that to say whether he likes you or not. Just try flirting more and see what happens.

[Other_Tommy_Wiseau]

we don't know the dude, so how should we know? but you're probably overthinking it

[elsipink16]

lmao haha

[Asker]

Obviously you don't know him lol..

[elsipink16]

that the point.. how can we help you if we dont know him

[Other_Tommy_Wiseau]

@elsipink16 exactly. i know people who don't give a shit if you touch their arm from doing nothing. we don't know his tendencies

[Asker]

Well if u can't help people u don't know then why are u on this website. It's meant to give people advice based on there questions. If u don't know then don't answer. It's better than being rude

[Other_Tommy_Wiseau]

because people ask for advice, not to solve their problems. there's a difference between asking what 2+2 is vs asking for how 2+2=4. and it's not being rude. it's telling you that we don't know the answer cause we don't know him. why the fuck does everyone on this site get so butthurt all the time? jesus, christ!

[Asker]

well I'm sorry but saying you don't know him is like asking me to explain the day I met him until now. Unless you want to read a book, then I suggest you don't say you don't know him. like no shit you don't know him I never said you had to but don't expect someone to not get mad when you say that cuz it easily pisses people off.

[Asker]

And also I never said you were fixing my problems. I'm simply asking what this could mean and like you said your advice, not a snarky comment saying you don't know him.

[elsipink16]

WELL I DONT HAVE TOO LOL JUST MY OPINIONS. TALK TO HIM THATS OBVIOUS ALREADY

[Other_Tommy_Wiseau]

and i told you. we can't help you cause we don't know him or you or y'all interactions. it could mean anything. it could be flirting. it could mean nothing at all. you might be on to something. you might be overthinking it. maybe he has flirted with you in the past that might lead you to believe that he was flirting. you might be looking through rose colored glasses to think that the dude was flirting with you or that he likes you simply because you have a crush on him... can mean literally anything. and with your lack of information to expound upon, you leave us even more in a clout as to what's up with this dude. happy?

[zorro8888]

"Am i overthinking it?"

Yep.

[blondfrog]

He was tired.