Popping a girls cherry- are guys disgusted? How do you feel about it?

[Anonymous]

Especially a girl who has never even put a tampon in... It's probably gonna be kind of bloody, right? I'm still a virgin- and plan on staying this way until I'm at least 17. But I'm worried that he would be disgusted or just run away or something if he sees I'm in pain or if he sees blood!

Have you ever popped a girls cherry? Was there blood? How did you react?

thank you- I'm just a curious teen by the way no harm intended 😬

Have not popped a cherry

I have- it was gross

I have- it was what I expected

I have- it didn't faze me whatsoever

I have- and it scared me, seeing me painfully pop her

[thewings]

There is no "cherry" to be popped. The hymen is not a sheet to be pierced, it's a piece of skin that lays over -part- of the opening but not the entire thing. Sometimes the hymen is bypassed and not effected at all. Though bleeding normally occurs the first time due to tense vaginal muscles from nervousness of the new experience with the new person. Sometimes bleeding does not occur. I repeat, there is no cherry. Do not worry what a man feels about having sex with you, he is honored to even have the opportunity with you.

[prettylittlemynx]

Masterbate by yourself before having sex. It will hurt a little if you don't have a basic idea of what you like and what turns you on. Odds are who you lose your virginity to isn't going to be a sex genius who knows everything he needs to know about breaking you in. You need to learn what you like to make it better for yourself

[Asker]

I do mastebate but i have never put anything in, if you're picking up what I'm putting down... But Iyes I have ways to go in finding what I like sexually. WAYYYS to go. I guess we'll see.

[prettylittlemynx]

Don't be afraid of the dark sides of the Internet, it will help

[CrazynKinky]

If they're disgusted by a little bit of blood then they aren't the right person and they need to grow up. Besides your hymen doesn't always break or can be broken from a blunt force.

[mistixs]

I'd like to know if they feel guilty about causing the girl pain.

[luvgulag]

i felt guilty after knowing i made her bleed cause she was obviously uncomfortable with me after it happened. i had no idea i even broke her hymen if i knew it would hurt her i would’ve never done it. this almost was the end of our relationship. but she left my house the day after cause i guess she was still bleeding even after she seemed so uncomfortable when she left. but she later came back to my house and told me it wasn’t my fault and that she didn’t regret doing anything. but i still feel guilty i would never wanna cause her pain or embarrassment just bc she bled , i wish i knew more at the time

[AleDeEurope]

I've been with a virgin once, but she had he "cherry popped", since she masturbated and used tampons, so when we did it she didn't bleed, but she was in pain, even though she was pretty wet. We had to stop after a while cause she couldn't take it anymore.
It didn't put me off, I understand the first time it's not gonna great, which is not a problem.

[Anonymous]

Getting a little blood on my dick is a small price to pay for knowing that I have finally found the love of my life, and that I was lucky enough to have the honor of being both her first and her last.

[Asker]

that's sweet hahaha.

[Opinion Owner]

Aw thanks :)

[skaikrasha]

PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE WATCH THIS.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=9qFojO8WkpA

There's no such thing as cherry popping.

[Asker]

Why do people keep saying that? It just means breaking the hymen.

[Asker]

Stretching*

[PippiL]

Some girls bleed, some don't. I didn't.
I wouldn't describe cherry popping as "gross." Just kind of painful.

[DarkHumorRUs]

Most guys wanna be with a virgin at some point. I wanna take girl's virginity when she takes mine

[Fearless_banana]

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[genericname85]

there´s nothing "gross" abou it. also there isn´t necessarily a "popping".

[Asker]

I see. Just for me personally- I feel like it will pop because I've never put anything in at all ever. Good to know you don't think it's gross.

[genericname85]

grown ups never think it´s gross :D it´s like kids think that kissing or "the other gender" is "ew" XD you grow out of it. it doesn´t matter if there wasn´t ever anything in there. it comes down to the way your hymen is built. most girls don´t have a closing hymen (this is actually a condition i think) so "popping" is unneccessary. easing in makes more sense.

[Anonymous]

There is another fetishist dedicated to that

Some men chase virgins
Men love virgins

[Opinion Owner]

*an entire fetish

[SunnyCaliGirl]

I have not popped a cherry. Can you explain what the slang term means?

[Asker]

I always thought it just meant breaking the hymen thw first time a guy penetrates you

[SunnyCaliGirl]

Oh ok thank you

[nog6422]

I have not done this but I would probably be a little grossed out but I guess it is to be expected. I'd be worried that it's hurting her though.

[realname]

i would like a heads up

[Anonymous]

If I bleed my boyfriend will be grossed out