How to steal a player's heart?

Question

I have fallen for a player. He flirts with everyone and has had one real relationship before. I really like him and want him to really like me too. So my question is, how do I get him to fall for me and only me?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

It depends on him there's really no hard and fast rule for us to tell you.
Just that people are complex.
some guys naturally flirt without thinking but want something long term or at least they think they do having never been in a proper lasting relationship.
Others don't and have a completely different story.
I naturally flirt but don't like to drink and my social group is now all tec people
I tried spinning but Iv just been to busy and sure there were lots of women but they where mostly older and it wasn't that sociable plus it's an expensive way to get exercise and more time consuming 40min drive and £8 a time 5 if I was going near there any way for groceries or something and I have so much outdoor work still to do at home at the moment that's all good exercise fallen trees and branches to deal with pond to remove walls to paint.
Basically it's inconvenient to do things to meet women so Im after a relationship when I do meet the right person or one of the million or so right people fortunately it's not like there's only one person that would be a good match for me or at least I hope that's not the case else Id never find them.
Far as I can tell for a relationship to work you need to tick enough of each others important boxes and compromise on the rest.
Im thinking I might try speed dating.

nfigure · Accepted Answer

You can't capture him. He's a player. Players don't get captured.

It's like trying to catch Carmen Sandiego. You go all over the world trying to catch her, work your butt off following the clues, and eventually it might LOOK like you've got her, but then... she always gets away, leaving you pissed and singing: "Where -- the -- F*^K -- is Carmen Sandiego?"

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KattFeesh · Accepted Answer

If he's younger than 30 I would say you don't have a chance. Successful players are under 30 at least for your age. They are successful they do not stop. Sure there are players over 30 but there a different breed. They are very manipulative while on the 30 they get what they want just by being there and knowing what to say.
The only way to get to a player (and this is very difficult to do) is to play him. But that is a psychological and emotional content within your own brain. You don't fall for him, you don't have a crush on him, you play him you create a relationship where you don't give a crap just like he doesn't. He will then be eventually he will then be eventually bewildered. "What the hell does this girl want?" If you got to that point then there's a chance that he'll fall for you. But he has got to be played and that is very difficult for you to do if you have fallen for. You have to unfall for him. He'll be looking for signs that he's got you. Show them just the opposite signs that your plan him

rachel1112 · Accepted Answer

well, you can't, because he's already knew that you like him, so you will be just like every other girls that he flirt with. And well, unless if he doesn't know that you like him, don't let him know. In fact, be hard to get, don't be so easy. But because he's a player, it's gonna be hard for him to fall for a specific girl. And the only chance that he's gonna fall for u is if he like you in the first place, if not, you're hopeless. But girl, give up on this guy! Because you deserve better than this:)

Deepblue11 · Accepted Answer

You can't make someone fall for you. Those feelings are uncontrollable. However you can stand out and get his attention in other ways. But is it really worth all the effort energy and time to make someone notice you? Just be yourself. Falling for a "player" doesn't seem like a good quality to want in a other half. ;)

Spermdumster666 · Accepted Answer

OMG have some self respect for starters or you will end up as his latest pump and dump. The fact that your asking this question shows that he's already played you.

Mesonfielde · Answer

You can't because they have no heart to steal.

hellionthesage · Answer

Well did he fall for all the other women? If not then why would you suddenly be the exception? The probability of this is extremely slim I would suggest moving on unless you don't mind being in a purely sexual relationship with him with little to no possible long term/monogomous relationship.

AleDeEurope · Answer

You don't. You've already fallen for him, therefore, you've lost. The player has won. Game over.

GracefulCharm · Answer

If he is only making you smile and laugh when you are both flirting. He won't think much of you. If you can make him smile and laugh, then he will remember you.

Flirting is game, where you want to tie. If you win, the other seems below you. If they win, you see them as above you. If you tie, you know are both a perfect match.

fueledbythc · Answer

You should give up on him. Players don change especially if they are successful at seducing women. their goal is sex

ConsultantIsBack · Answer

Be his type. Is he really a player even? or just outgoing?

Anonymous · Answer

You can't make a player stop playing his game. He needs to quit on his own if thats what he really wants to do. Its best to just let him be bc at the end of the day, you will just get played like every other girl.

TheGuyFromMiddleEast · Answer

Hahaahhahahahhahah ages old question, same trap over and over again. Go ahead and try, I beg you. It's so nice to see your question afterwards.

Oram52 · Answer

You can't. Move on. At the same time buy some self respect.

cherrymarina · Answer

He has commitment issues. These people don't commit even if they fall for you... it's a scary territory for them

skaikrasha · Answer

You can't MAKE someone fall in love with you, that's not how the world works. Unless you're a witch and can cook up some magical love potion.

crisnas · Answer

Just b yourself! If he doesn't bite there's more fish in the sea who Know how to respect females

abundantlyrich · Answer

Thats control and players dont really change for life 😳

Anonymous · Answer

LOL. He wouldn't be a player if he fell for you. No point of going down this road. You'll be back here with a post saying my boyfriend cheated on me in a few weeks.

Summerbunny · Answer

Didn't someone make a movie about this called "John Tucker must die"

zagor · Answer

Take the ball from him with 3 seconds left in the fourth quarter.

rgb008 · Answer

Ok you're gonna need a knife...

Yanoa_Yanza · Answer

Hmmmm by being better than the women he goes after and not giving in to his simple tricks

skulljon · Answer

Let him lick your pussy & ass. After that he can't leave you or pay attention to other girls.

RaggaMon · Answer

You swallow and hope for the best.

CrazynKinky · Answer

You need to be uninterested in him

realerthanreal · Answer

Well... that was pretty idiotic. No offense.

Sabretooth · Answer

you're not. parents needs to block Disney...

Anonymous · Answer

i think you are digging your own grave.

Mr_Darcy · Answer

Make him jealous using Bear Grylls!

blondfrog · Answer

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WhaChaChaKing · Answer

Play the player.

JustChilling · Answer

Not going to happen.

That1Thing · Answer

Threaten his life.

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