How do I make a player who charmed, manipulated, lied, and took advantage of me and countless other girls for sexual favours fall in love with me so I can break his heart and give HIM a taste of his own medicine. This player said “I love you” “I care for you” “I want to be your first and last” etc all in the name of trying to get me to sleep with him. His actions were hurtful as he was leading me on into thinking it was something serious whereas all he wanted was to smash and dash. The heartbreak after realizing that you were used like that is a special kind.
well, here's the thing. the player- if he's already had sex with you and everything. he's already won and there really isn't any way you can get back at him because he got what he wanted and he's moving on. however, in the future, if he reaches out (which chances are, he most likely will) ignore him, don't respond. that shows him your done and you're not playing the game. that won't hurt him that much, but he'll know he's lost an option and he'll try to regain you. don't let that happen, just don't respond- and that is what will bother him. not hurt, but bother him a bit. please don't go and try to make him contact you, so you can do that because it will probably get messy. this is if he reaches out, and chances are he will at some point. If you haven't slept with him, then the very simple thing is to tel lhim your busy, and can't talk anymore. leave it at that. he'll know why you said that, because youve figured him out, and he'll try to reach out, but ignore every word. the thing with players is, once they get what they want, you can't really get back at them because they got what they needed and the rest doesn't matter. also, from experience, players are really the type to fall. i mean they can and when they do theyll fall hard, but its not easy and not often they do.
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Thankfully, I haven’t lost my virginity to him yet. He talks sexual, tries to get me to sexy and send sexy pictures and say gross dirty stuff to him over the phone
yea, he jsut wants sex and plans on dashing after that. honestly you can go cold turkey and just block him. like if you dont see him everday or anything like that, you can totally just cut off contact without a reason- u dont owe him anything. its completly up to you, but i would suggest not talking to him or having anything to do with him. its hard, but its for the best. stay strong!
Revenge is the raging fire that consumes the arsonist. So forget about the revenge (it only looks good in movies, not in real life). Instead of wasting your time on revenge, invest it in something productive. You enjoy your life and let karma do that (revenge) for you.
So you wants to waste your precious time taking revenge on him. Is he even worth it? He's not going to get unpunsihed. He'll ripe what he sow. You don't have to do anything. Forget about revenge and focus on betterment of your life.
He needs to be punished for what he did. He wasted my time and energy. Instead of focusing on important things in my life like school, my career, family and friends I was mourning someone’s loss who didn’t even deserve it. That’s time I will never get back. I don’t want to be mad at him anymore, I don’t want to waste my time being mad, I just want to get even.
So you want to get even by wasting your time? He already wasted your time. And now you're giving him chance to do it again (indirectly). Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned. So forget what has happened in the past. And move on. And trust me he's not going to get unpunished. Let karma do that for you. You haven't lost everything. You're still alive. So use it wisely. Don't ruin it for the one who don't deserve your attention.
Tell him you don't wanna talk to him anymore and now one more message and I'll report it to cop. And if he still sends you a message then really report him to cops. After that cops will take your revenge.
There are two types of offences. Physical and mental. If he beats you then it's physical offence. But if he's harrassing you via texting, calling etc. then it's called mental offence. So you can fiow a complaint against him if he's doing something like that.
It doesn't matter if it's too many messages or just couple of messages. Harrassing isn't ok. But before taking big steps why don't you just block him from everywhere. That will defintely stop the problem.
Nothing u can to to break his heart, his heart is calloused as fuck otherwise he cudnt do what he does. He’s already so broken, don’t let yourself become like him. Worry less bout revenge and more bout surviving yourself
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