How do you melt someone's heart?

Question

How do you make a cold person open to being in love? How do you get someone to let their wall/gaurd down?

IcyStar363 · Accepted Answer

Love is work. If someone is too much work to try and fix, then your love for them was never really that strong. You don’t give up on someone you really love. It’s impossible. Even if you try and lie to yourself that you can, that person will always remain in your heart and mind. You will miss them if you even start to walk away. No matter how much it hurts you, you don’t give up. Love is sacrifice, and love is pain.

wingattebaby16 · Accepted Answer

love them unconditionally, even when they hate you never stop.. and you will break through their barrier someday..

adamski24 · Accepted Answer

By letting them know it's a safe place and let them open up in their own way and time

Sleeksam · Accepted Answer

Just be yourself and things fall into place

Cynicaldreamer · Answer

Most people that are that way because they've been hurt, manipulated, and lied to by others in the past. They built up a wall around their heart to keep from getting hurt again. So you have this person that may have once been sweet and really caring- is now afraid to let down their guard because some ass hurt them.

Best way to help them let their guard down is to be patient. It's going to take a while for that wall to come down. You'll have to show and prove to them you're not like others- and believe me, that's NOT going to happen overnight. That and they're going to be wary to open their heart up to anyone again.
But once you've gotten that wall down and earned their trust? They'll be one of the best people to have in your life.

Logorithim · Answer

Make them feel special and that there is a realistic prospect of a happy relationship.

Adrianna7868 · Answer

You can't, or at least not immediately. I once had a guy who was clearly interested in me try to quickly break down my walls, but as with most walls, it was far from cracking. I tried shutting him down swiftly from the beginning; he still pursued. From the getgo he only ever talked about himself. "Look at this thing that I like." "Here's another thing about me." At one point he even asked me "Are you always this cynical?". I'm just honest. But the point still stands, he lost the chance of me even considering a relationship.
TL;DR - Don't go into relationships head over heels trying to achieve a fantasy. Life doesn't work that way.

valualty · Answer

Patient and act of kindness. And by not being the same as everyone else that being said. Teach them through your action that life is fuĺl of joy and can't be taken serious, if your vibration is always good around them, they'll find find a way out of their cold dark place which the circumstances led to in the past.
Oh yeah and suck that dick dry once a while 😂😂😂 that'll help 😋

smg99 · Answer

Personally if I keep investing with barricaded walls, I give up sorry. The experience of hard work in subjectivity is pain and sleepless nights crying myself to sleep. Lost purpose but attention seekers who act cold toward me can simmer or let’s say freeze in their ice bath.

SirRexington · Answer

You have to slowly ease your way in. You can't bust it down. And when you do start entering, you need to be tender and nurturing.

Schrodingerscat · Answer

You heat it to very high temperatures, along with high pressure. Temperature around 1000 Kelvin and Pressure around 2 Pascal.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

I would say reassure them that you care for them i know for myself i have a habit of putting up walls/ guards i been trying my best to change this habit it's a rough road.

just_a_potato · Answer

You give them time and you let them know they can trust you until they believe it, extra effectiveness if you cook them a nice steak meal

Moralisa · Answer

1. Cut open their chest 2. Rip out their heart 3. Throw it in a boiling pot of water or acid There you have it, their heart should be melted. It’d be appreciated if you made this MHO 😁 thank you

DocilexElle · Answer

Be genuine. That's why people trust me so much. Xoxo!

spartan55 · Answer

If that's the way some woman is I'm not going to be interested in her enough to try to thaw her out.

Rangers · Answer

You can't, once those walls are up, it's game over.

DANNYKWOK · Answer

This topic, I would very much need to know as well. I'm not good at this and I also want to know. Very good question and hopefully got a very good answer.

BluesheepOwl · Answer

Just being myself. I wouldn't normally talk to someone who is cold. That person has too many issues for me. I know I can't fix him only he can do that for himself.

Anonymous · Answer

I have the same problem. My ex taught me It was okay to let people in. I was too afraid to let people in because of the rid of getting hurt

Gottabsavagee · Answer

Stay by their side, have a nice time and hope for best

Razal · Answer

You have to build trust with them which takes time. Also you don’t dictate or advise them for anything (don’t push), let them say what they have to and they will open up with time.

ashley1996 · Answer

Show them they are safe gain their trust. Show them as much love as you can. Never lie or be fake. Show them the positive things in life.

smahala1991 · Answer

being sweet, kind, and nurturing. But Olaf said it best

TheRealQuestion · Answer

I hope someone finds out, i wanna feel something again.

facialhair27 · Answer

worship her ass if it's a woman worship his cock if he is a man

smeezing · Answer

Ask the local apothecarian for a love potion which may or may not be poisonous

OpenWine · Answer

put heart in oven. 220 degrees for 1 hour. I love the white house

JubJub_Hi · Answer

By not giving up. Staying with the person you love in difficult moments <3

hindril · Answer

Try to make her laugh or at least smile.

Halucinator · Answer

I’d take a candle close to their chest. Let the flames burn their heart *SINISTER LAUGHTER*

Eryxx · Answer

By heating it to their melting point.

ultimega · Answer

If you can tell me, let me know.

RIVERTAY888 · Answer

you can't do it they are born that way very cold

turnmypainintopower1 · Answer

It’s never worked on me

ChocolateCheesecake · Answer

Never had to do that before so I don't know

SpiderManFan2002 · Answer

No idea xD

JSmuve · Answer

How do you make an abused puppy feel loved?

Hugemoth · Answer

Blowtorch should work.

Philyouup · Answer

Selflessness accompanied by love

legalboxers · Answer

Id like to know that as well

Secretgardenblood · Answer

I don't know

ThatItalianBastard · Answer

With a lighter

LegateLanius · Answer

I don't know

DrHonesty · Answer

Open legs

Nadim171 · Answer

With fire

Glen68 · Answer

With a jackhammer

clampfan101 · Answer

Loving them.

Giggletr0n · Answer

Flamethrower?

Alpha2019 · Answer

meatballs

malegender · Answer

anal

hornyoldguy · Answer

stunning picture

justStrange · Answer

HNO3

PERSONANONGRATA · Answer

Be natural

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