How do you melt someone's heart?

[Wowgirl10q]

How do you make a cold person open to being in love? How do you get someone to let their wall/gaurd down?

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Don't look in my eyes boys you will turn into stone😉

[IcyStar363]

Love is work. If someone is too much work to try and fix, then your love for them was never really that strong. You don’t give up on someone you really love. It’s impossible. Even if you try and lie to yourself that you can, that person will always remain in your heart and mind. You will miss them if you even start to walk away. No matter how much it hurts you, you don’t give up. Love is sacrifice, and love is pain.

[TheRealQuestion]

Thank you, i needed to hear this rn.

[wingattebaby16]

love them unconditionally, even when they hate you

never stop.. and you will break through their barrier someday..

[adamski24]

By letting them know it's a safe place and let them open up in their own way and time

[adamski24]

Totally misread the question

[Wowgirl10q]

Your silly

[adamski24]

Thanks I love you too 😜😛

[Sleeksam]

Just be yourself and things fall into place

[Cynicaldreamer]

Most people that are that way because they've been hurt, manipulated, and lied to by others in the past. They built up a wall around their heart to keep from getting hurt again. So you have this person that may have once been sweet and really caring- is now afraid to let down their guard because some ass hurt them.

Best way to help them let their guard down is to be patient. It's going to take a while for that wall to come down. You'll have to show and prove to them you're not like others- and believe me, that's NOT going to happen overnight. That and they're going to be wary to open their heart up to anyone again.
But once you've gotten that wall down and earned their trust? They'll be one of the best people to have in your life.

[Logorithim]

Make them feel special and that there is a realistic prospect of a happy relationship.

[Wowgirl10q]

Good answer

[Adrianna7868]

You can't, or at least not immediately. I once had a guy who was clearly interested in me try to quickly break down my walls, but as with most walls, it was far from cracking. I tried shutting him down swiftly from the beginning; he still pursued. From the getgo he only ever talked about himself. "Look at this thing that I like." "Here's another thing about me." At one point he even asked me "Are you always this cynical?". I'm just honest. But the point still stands, he lost the chance of me even considering a relationship.
TL;DR - Don't go into relationships head over heels trying to achieve a fantasy. Life doesn't work that way.

[valualty]

Patient and act of kindness. And by not being the same as everyone else that being said. Teach them through your action that life is fuĺl of joy and can't be taken serious, if your vibration is always good around them, they'll find find a way out of their cold dark place which the circumstances led to in the past.
Oh yeah and suck that dick dry once a while 😂😂😂 that'll help 😋

[Wowgirl10q]

Naughty

[smg99]

Personally if I keep investing with barricaded walls, I give up sorry. The experience of hard work in subjectivity is pain and sleepless nights crying myself to sleep. Lost purpose but attention seekers who act cold toward me can simmer or let’s say freeze in their ice bath.

[SirRexington]

You have to slowly ease your way in. You can't bust it down. And when you do start entering, you need to be tender and nurturing.

[Wowgirl10q]

Awesome answer

[Schrodingerscat]

You heat it to very high temperatures, along with high pressure. Temperature around 1000 Kelvin and Pressure around 2 Pascal.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I would say reassure them that you care for them
i know for myself i have a habit of putting up walls/ guards
i been trying my best to change this habit it's a rough road.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I know i feel my heart racing yes it's going to happen. LOL

[just_a_potato]

You give them time and you let them know they can trust you until they believe it, extra effectiveness if you cook them a nice steak meal

[Moralisa]

1. Cut open their chest
2. Rip out their heart
3. Throw it in a boiling pot of water or acid

There you have it, their heart should be melted. It’d be appreciated if you made this MHO 😁 thank you

[DocilexElle]

Be genuine. That's why people trust me so much. Xoxo!

[spartan55]

If that's the way some woman is I'm not going to be interested in her enough to try to thaw her out.

[DANNYKWOK]

This topic, I would very much need to know as well. I'm not good at this and I also want to know. Very good question and hopefully got a very good answer.

[Rangers]

You can't, once those walls are up, it's game over.

[BluesheepOwl]

Just being myself. I wouldn't normally talk to someone who is cold. That person has too many issues for me. I know I can't fix him only he can do that for himself.

[Anonymous]

I have the same problem. My ex taught me It was okay to let people in. I was too afraid to let people in because of the rid of getting hurt

[Gottabsavagee]

Stay by their side, have a nice time and hope for best

[Razal]

You have to build trust with them which takes time.
Also you don’t dictate or advise them for anything (don’t push), let them say what they have to and they will open up with time.

[ashley1996]

Show them they are safe gain their trust. Show them as much love as you can. Never lie or be fake. Show them the positive things in life.

[DANNYKWOK]

I like your answer.

[ashley1996]

@DANNYKWOK thanks. I have experience in turning cold.

[DANNYKWOK]

That's awesome, no wonder you can point the best to turn cold to warm or even hot. Respect to you, I think it a lot harder for a woman to turn cold man and for a man to turn cold woman, yet you did it.

[DANNYKWOK]

The best advice****

[ashley1996]

@DANNYKWOK thank you. Id say ice turned the cold. I've been cold myself for a few years. I appreciate that. Thank you

[DANNYKWOK]

Oh wow, I'm sorry, I didn't know. I hope I didn't say some offensive.

[ashley1996]

@DANNYKWOK no no. I appreciate that you liked. my opinion. I wasn't offended at all

[DANNYKWOK]

Good to k ow, I was worry that what I said is offensive. And I really do like your opinion, I think that would be the best way to do. I was trying to break one cold girl before, since I didn't know what to do I fail badly.

[smahala1991]

being sweet, kind, and nurturing. But Olaf said it best