What does it mean when a guy "Friend" says you're so pure and innocent?

[Pennypolish]

We were chatting and I made a funny sexual remark. He then said "you're so pure and innocent I forget you know things!"

He knows I'm not a virgin, only been with one person (was engaged) Why would a guy say this to their female "friend"?

FYI- He is a virgin

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Here's the exact convo:

Him- those girls can give good BJs
Me- No they can't because their gag reflexes
Him- you're so innocent and pure I forgot you know things!
Me- oh Hun, you have no idea lol

[1smooth28]

He probably just means that you are act like a good girl and he forgets that you're not a virgin. Not that having sex is bad but it's hard to imagine good girls

[Pennypolish]

He just threw me off because most guys wouldn't say this to their female friends, right? I'm guessing this is a compliment?

In the past he has said to me "you're like this cute, innocent high school girl like my ex."

I dint know if he is holding me to this high standard or something? He does like the good girl type-BUT
a month ago he Sent me a video of a celeb and was talking about how hot and perfect she was (it was a sexy video of her grinding/dancing)

Im so confused as to why he's saying these things and bribing up these topics.

[1smooth28]

I'm not sure about the video he sent you. That sounds strange lol! But if he likes good girls then he might like you yeah

[Pennypolish]

Yeah that really threw me off! I mean, why would a guy send a girl "friend" a sexy video of a celeb he thinks is hot and perfect?

[1smooth28]

Hey thanks!! Did you figure him out?

[Pennypolish]

Welcome. Not really. He's been texting me a lot more though... about random crap too

[1smooth28]

Ohh sooooo confusing :S

[Pennypolish]

Always!!! Lol. I forgot to tell you - I asked how he felt about me and his reply was "you are someone I can let my guard down with"
He never said friend/sister/girlfriend--- just that statement. What's that mean?

[1smooth28]

Lol he is being very vague! That could mean any of the three!! It does mean he likes you a lot though. It looks like you're going to have to ask him, 'do you like me as a friend or more than that?' and see what he says lol

[brewersfan01]

means ur the steoriotypical "good girl". i dont think sexual experience has anything to do with it.

[Pennypolish]

He just threw me off because most guys wouldn't say this to their female friends, right? I'm guessing this is a compliment?

In the past he has said to me "you're like this cute, innocent high school girl like my ex."

I don't know if he is holding me to this high standard or something? He does like the good girl type-BUT a month ago he Sent me a video of a celeb and was talking about how hot and perfect she was (it was a sexy video of her grinding/dancing)

Im so confused as to why he's saying these things and bringing up these topics.

[LifeEqualsLove]

He thinks you're a good girl.

Answer mine pls:
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q2054162-is-he-slowly-loosing-interest

[kaylaS91]

He's just joking around about how he forgot that you don't have any actual sexual experience.

[Pennypolish]

He just threw me off because most guys wouldn't say this to their female friends, right? I'm guessing this is a compliment?

In the past he has said to me "you're like this cute, innocent high school girl like my ex."

I don't know if he is holding me to this high standard or something? He does like the good girl type-BUT a month ago he Sent me a video of a celeb and was talking about how hot and perfect she was (it was a sexy video of her grinding/dancing)

Im so confused as to why he's saying these things and bringing up these topics.

[kaylaS91]

It's a compliment if you view your value as an individual going up because your vagina is untouched.
To me, it's nothing more than a simple statement, a fact. Unless you're of the school of thought that women are complete 'whores' because they've had sexual intercourse.

[Pennypolish]

So you don't think he was being flirty or weird about this comment and sending me that other video?

[kaylaS91]

That's a possibility.. but sending videos of girls giving head to a girl you're interested in would be a super weird form of flirting, tbqh.