Girls, What do women think of guys who never smile?

[Anonymous]

Like I look pissed off 24/7

[btbc92]

Nothing. He doesn't have to if he doesn't want to. If nothing merits for him to smile, who I'm I to judge because of that. A bit creepy? Maybe, but I would have to see the guy in person to know for myself, then place judgement for myself. Other than that, as long as he isn't a criminal or ready to do incriminating acts, to each their own.

[Asker]

My guard is never down

[btbc92]

@Asker Well I can understand that for that reason, and you shouldn't let your guard down unless that person earns your trust.

[Asker]

I seriously doubt any girl could earn my trust

[btbc92]

@Asker There are. You will know at the right time, but you can't let the past define you by your mistakes with these women. Otherwise your going to end up hurting an innocent person who just wants to be with you or around you.

[Asker]

Well I have never had a girlfriend but I observe what goes on in other relationships

[btbc92]

@Asker Never had a boyfriend either, so I understand where your coming from.

[Asker]

Yeah I'm legit scared to get a girlfriend especially with how I look I just believe she would cheat the first chance she gor

[btbc92]

@Asker Well if she is superficial of course she would do that. But you don't need a superficial person. You need somebody who is going to love you for who you are, and you both have to work together. I understand your fear of relationships, but if your looking to be Celibate all your life like I am, that is your choice.

[Asker]

https://imgur.com/IqFsHz3 What girl wouldn't cheat on this

[btbc92]

@Asker Buddy, you have genetic traits of my cousins. And they make it out alright, getting married and/or having children. You just need to be with the right person, all while your already doing the right things in your life. And you will eventually attract the right kind of woman who will stay with you, love you, cherish you and build a family with you. But that is only if you want that. Then you will have to let go of your past and work on yourself to become a better man for the right woman who needs that in her life. That is what you should be striving for.

[Asker]

So what are you saying when you say I have the genetics of your cousins

[btbc92]

@Asker Yep. The upper part of your face, teeth, all of that. My family on both sides is very mixed, so you don't surprise me at all. You just need to ahem more confidence in yourself and be you. Don't take on the persona of other men. And most of all, stop being miserable. Nobody wants to be around a person who's down all the time. Only people who wants to use you and see what they can get out of you will.

[Asker]

So I'm ok look wise

[btbc92]

@Asker I say you look fine. I know somebody is bound to be attracted to you. But looks should not be on your mind. Your heart, mind and soul should. Your personality and your character is far more important than looks. If a woman cheats on your because of looks, then not only was she lustful, but she is a deceiver and she doesn't love you. She doesn't even know what she wants.

[Asker]

Well long ago when I was younger I was called a freak and repulsive I was told I would never get a girlfriend

[btbc92]

@Asker that is somebody cursing your life. Don't believe that. You make the choice.

[btbc92]

@Asker You know how many times guys lie about me behind my back, mock me, make fun of me, starts fights with me? Curse me and all that?

One minute I'm ugly. Next minute when I dress up for myself, now they want my number?
I'm supposedly stupid, but when I'm recognized by teachers and peers all of a sudden I'm smart?
First I'm cute, but then when I shut it down all of a sudden I have always been ugly?
So, because I refuse premarital sex of any kind, now I would never be considered a good girlfriend, wife or mother?

How about getting mocked at 14 by and a old friend around his friends [girls & guys], for him to send his one of his friends [who by the way is only a desk away from my combined desk of 4 students], to give me his #. I sensed that he was no good, got the nerve to snicker in front of me and behind MY back. So I get up, present him the little piece of paper with his # and ripped it to tiny pieces, and then he calls me B****. And how he always knew I was?

[btbc92]

How about getting beat up by guys as a kindergartner up till Middle school?

I don't know all of your experiences, but these are mine and that's just the tip of the iceberg.

[btbc92]

Besides bullying.

[Asker]

Well no girls ever flirt with me or wanted my number so naturally I assumed there was truth to it

[btbc92]

@Asker Its not about the flirting or getting a girls number. I prefer old school. Where you just meet up in a public setting and still get to know each other better. Not giving random people your number.

[Asker]

Yes I was bullied all through school and made fun of

[Asker]

Well like I said no girl has ever shown attraction to me

[btbc92]

If that is what they want to do, then that's them. You date the way you want and need to date. That girl has to qualify, and you have to step up and conversate with the girl, see if she is at ease speaking with you. Build a connection and chemistry through vocal communication, and when your about to leave, then ask if she is interested in getting a drink, lunch, breakfast, whatever. Don't rush into anything, and behave calmly if she rejects you. Keep a smile on your face. At least you had a nice conversation, and you move on to the next girl until somebody says yes. Thats it. Thats all you have to do. But natural.

[Asker]

Last semester I had a really attractive girl talk to me twice and it completely shocked me

[btbc92]

@Asker Well there you go. What you had going on was immature girls that's all. A person who is mature will see you from what you are from the inside not the outside.

[Asker]

Looks matter to girls

[Asker]

When she was talking to me it's like my conscious was talking to me like what the hell is happening right now a drop dead gorgeous girl is actually talking to me she even gave me Tim Hortons

[btbc92]

@Asker Not all girls. Not me, or my now married friend, or my other friends. Don't know what other girl your talking about except superficial and typical ones who can't even keep their first.

[Asker]

I know looks aren't everything to a girl but it's important along with personality with that being said where do I fall on the scale. You said I have mixed genetics

[davisgirl89]

Lol I am communicating with a guy like that Now. But I do adore him and I kinda wish I could make him smile and be more at ease. It's not really a deal breaker as long as they are great at cuddling.

[Asker]

I'm just serious all the time

[davisgirl89]

That's not a bad thing. I tend to be goofy a lot of the time. So just find someone that you feel balance you out. Someone that can appreciate your smile and you seriousness.

[wynnie]

It's not exactly a turn on. It's always nice to see a guy who usually doesn't smile crack a quick smile it's like a small miracle.

[Asker]

I'm serious all the time life has trained me that way

[Asker]

My guard is never down

[WillowTree]

Unapproachable, likely unstable, will probably shoot up the place one day.

[Asker]

My smile looks forced and fake

[WillowTree]

Practice makes perfect.

[Asker]

Nope never been a person that smiled

[WillowTree]

Well no one can help you then. Good luck.

[Asker]

It's just I'm all business

[babeeeone]

It's annoying, it's a turn off, and leaves me questioning why they're so serious

[Asker]

My smile looks forced and fake

[cutie4010]

if I'm taking to you a smile would be nice, if I'm not talking to you then it can be sexy i guess

[Asker]

Thing is I have been talking to girls and the facial expression still Dosent change

[Anonymous]

Scary.

[Asker]

My guard is never down

[Summer_Bunny]

I don't know depends

[Asker]

What do you mean

[Summer_Bunny]

Depends if the guys hot and I want to approach him

[Asker]

Wouldn't scare you

[Summer_Bunny]

Nope... I see it as a challenge

[Asker]

How like you could fix him

[Summer_Bunny]

No to make him smile Lol and let go

[Asker]

Well I'm all business

[Summer_Bunny]

*makes a funny face*

[Asker]

Makes a serious face

[Summer_Bunny]

*tickles you*

[Asker]

Ok I might laugh

[Summer_Bunny]

Mwuahaha! 😈

[Asker]

But it seriously takes a lot to get me to smile if it's not a girl I like then I can't stop smiling

[Summer_Bunny]

That's okay

[Asker]

Why it wouldn't make you uncomfortable

[Summer_Bunny]

I don't know it just doesn't

[Asker]

Yeah most women avoid me because of this I legit only had one girl approach me and I could tell she was uncomfortable our whole interaction cause she was smiling and I wasn't

[Summer_Bunny]

I don't know I'm very confident so it doesn't bother me.

[Asker]

Even if he's looking at you like that

[Summer_Bunny]

Yeah, still doesn't bother me

[Asker]

Your a special girl

[Summer_Bunny]

Lol thanks?

[Asker]

Really cause most girls would be creeped out

[Summer_Bunny]

Its just your personality

[Asker]

Yeah smiling isn't something I do

[Asker]

I mean I might smile for the girl I like but outside of that probably not

[Summer_Bunny]

Okay

[Asker]

My guard is constantly up

[Summer_Bunny]

Why?

[Candy15]

Unapproachable

[Asker]

My smile looks forced and fake

[Candy15]

It's better than no smile at all. It might look forced to you, but to others it may look great

[Asker]

I have posted pictures online and people say it looks forced

[Anonymous]

I don't mind it.

[Asker]

My smile looks forced and fake

[Opinion Owner]

How do you know that?