Do guys like to feel passion during sex?

[Anonymous]

Like do they want to feel romance? Or is it more just physical?

[Anonymous]

Well, first, i would like to state that my primordial goal in sex is to provide the girl i am with pleasure and a nice, intimate time. Secondarily (but still important) goal is to share my pleasure with a girl, making her feel she is the responsible for that.

So, to answer your question:

Passion is needed for this 'providing pleasure' to make sense. I mean, why would i feel good about providing a stranger pleasure?
The secondary goal would be kind of fulfilled, even without passion though.

So the short answer is, sex without passion is still amazing, but just, incomplete.

[Matt21]

passion and romance are the absolute best! I adore feeling connected to my woman in every way when we make love.
However, I've never been the one night stand kind of guy. So I can't really speak for hookups. I'm assuming it would be more of a physical thing then.

[Anonymous]

Hell yeah without passion it would be weird to have sex with that person.

[Whaaaaa]

When he calls me bitch
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[TonyRyanAgain]

Lmfao love that answer

[ashishtyagi]

girl is honest

[Investigator]

As a guy, I find passion is effectively "romance" on a micro-scale. You don't have to be in a romantic relationship to feel the effects of it. I mean, what is "passion" but a strong physical affirmation from the other person that they strongly desire to be there with you and cannot get enough of your presence.

Having sex is kind of like going to school: you get out of it what you put in. It's not enough to merely show up and be present, you have to actively engage with the material (or person). Just like how a teacher can tell when you really couldn't care less whether or not you learn anything, over the duration of intercourse, your partner will start to sense when you would rather be somewhere else or with someone else. Even if you eventually have an orgasm with your partner, what's the point? You could just as easily have masturbated the whole time while they were in the room, and it will have the same outcome.

[JustChris]

Sex should feel passionate. To feel connected body, mind, and soul. The best sex is when you're both lost in each other and you never want to let go. You want to savor every second. Make it a night/day you both will never forget and want to keep coming back for more.

[kellytheman]

I love passionate sex with a girl it just makes the sex better more intense and you can feel all your feelings coke out of you. When u have romance the physical part is incredible because u can feel that person loves u and want to make u feel good and happy.

[bgbgmoore]

For me it is romantic. The aim is to be lost in the persons most vulnerable state. Sharing a moment in time where nothing else matters but the euphoria of your partner.

[Leeviathon]

Hmmm i'm in a long term relationship but i don't think i have ever felt like having a "passionate, slow love-making" type of sex. Usually its pretty rough. that's not to say the attraction isn't there. I definitely don't want the girl to just lie there like a mattress.

[Anonymous]

It's why it's important to me to find a highly attractive woman. I want to feel the love and connectedness both romantically and sexually.

The feeling of complete gratification coming from loving the right woman, not regret from loving another. 😍😘

[Chilled_Eyes]

Well in a relationship of course why wouldn't we guys have feelings too, we just express them differently.

[Anonymous]

Heck yeah! If I wanna have sex with you I wanna feel it down to my soul and heart, not just in my dick lol.

[Dexzyn]

My girl wants me to 'make love' with her, but J literally can't contain myself enough to be slow or passionate.

[ManicThor]

it didn't matter at all when I was younger but as I got older and definitely after falling in love and having my own heart rip out chewed up spat on and shat on (karma is a bitch) without a deeper connection.. well it's as good as jerking off

[124572]

Yes... of course, when u see your partner passionate during sex... it makes sex a lot better

[lord_chilled]

Just physical is good, but passionate sex with someone you love is a lot better!

[shyramarie1]

absolutely necessity for me

[CapnHawk]

They want to feel it all - passion, romance, etc.

[Anonymous]

I do, but I think it depends on the person. For me, if there is no passion, there is going to be no D for her.

[zagor]

Of course. It's not nearly as fun having sex with someone you don't give a rat's ass about.

[Nightinggale]

I don't but I am aromantic/very out of touch with my and others emotions.

[TonyRyanAgain]

Unless it's a ONS, absolutely, otherwise it's pretty pointless.

[midoooo]

For me I like to feel romance I think I can't do it without feelings

[Bluemax]

I like to feel passion, romance, and the physical.

[dizmuhjam]

If she's not just another hole then yeah..

[Bleepasaurus_RexEwww]

Yes everyone likes to feel passion

[chocolatelover3]

Great sex has passion for both.

[Johnagain]

Yes. Some do, like myself, most of the time.

[SuccessfulHornDog]

Passion makes it better

[DareYouAsk]

Passion is the number one motivator for me

[FaithfulGuardian]

Passion is a plus but not required.

[Anonymous]

yes but it's more "enthusiasm" than "passion"

[Anonymous]

I love to create the passion!!

[Anonymous]

Passion.

[FergusonsFriend]

Both!

[beefcake2000]

im okayvwith either

[Sythemaster]

Depends on the guy

[mikey112]

personally, I do

[Anonymous]

Both really