Guys, do you often think about sleeping with other women when you're in a relationship?

[Anonymous]

I ask this because someone I work with has a girlfriend, but whenever a somewhat attractive customer comes in, he says he "wants to give her his phone number" and "wishes he could date them". It always sickens me because I have a boyfriend who also works with us, and our coworker will often say things to him like "would you fuck that girl if she asked you to?" (he says this while I'm not at work). My boyfriend always says no because he's in a relationship.

[Belgie]

Yes, but I wouldn't be so crass and disrespectful as to say it out loud.

What goes on in my own head is my own private business. No need to hurt my SO just because I've had a random wayward thought.

[CapnHawk]

Never. If I did, there would be no point to be in a relationship in the first place.

[Asker]

Thats what I was kinda thinking. Maybe my coworker is just in an unhappy relationship.

[CapnHawk]

You could be on to something. Just because he has a girlfriend doesn't mean there's a strong relationship.

[Asker]

She used to work with us and visited yesterday, and he was all over her. Quite literally the night before yesterday was when he was saying he wished he could ask out several customers on a date.

[CapnHawk]

I hope your coworker's girlfriend finds out what an asshat he is. She deserves better.

[Anonymous]

A lot of guys definitely think it. I have friends who talk like they are single. They are very predatory. I even do it. A part of male bonding is talking about hot girls so it's hard to adapt

[RohitLakra]

not often but yes sometimes there are very hot girls you cannot stop thinking about