Is it bad being called a trophy wife?

[chelsfaith]

A lot of the times my guy friends will tell me im the perfect trophy wife or always make jokes that when they get rich they'll "wife me up" to be a trophy wife. I know what a trophy wife is, but im wondering if i should take offence to this. I wonder if they say this because right now my schooling isn't doing bery good and im not planning on going to college because I'm not sure it's for me at the moment. Do they say this because of that and think I'm inferior to them?

[Somewhat_Normal]

Shit they're guys, what would you expect? We make a lot tasteless/crude jokes, things like this included. It really doesn't have much underlying meaning/reason to it, besides the fact they think you're attractive probably if they're joking about you being a good 'trophy wife.' Don't put much thought to it since you can go live your own life, do whatever the fuck you want. If they're really your friends I'm sure they wouldn't actually act on you like that in the future, then again most people are good enough to know the difference between making a joke and turning it into reality.

[Jackarow71]

I wouldn't worry about a thing there little darlin. I'm not too sure if being called a "trophy wife" is the worst thing to be called, I know I can think of a few doozies that I don't want to repeat.
Just keep on keepin on and let no man make you feel less than or inferior. Just remember to live, love and laugh without hesitation!!

[kaylaS91]

Because being called a 'trophy wife' means you're pretty, sure. But not much more. You're pretty much like a trophy for your s/o- something nice to look at, something he can brag about having, but nobody will give you much more than a second glance.

[mooky06]

Depends what matters to you more. Beauty or intelligence.

A trophy wife is like having the latest accessories to show off to the public.

[Jackarow71]

Don't let your value rest in some dudes lap. You know you've got it going on, you can have any dude you want so make them honor and cherish you. You are the queen bee after all.

[mmmhhmm]

its the maximum status a woman can gain. women who are millionares hate and envy trophy wives. the title is for a reason.

[Regneir]

I mean.. It means your cute enough to be someone's wife and not really have expectations for doing anything. Like having your own job etc. Kinda a double edge compliment, personally would never say it to a girl

[didyouknowme]

They're saying that you're pretty but too pretty for them now. They think that in fifteen years, they'll swoop in and pull you from the mediocrity that they think you'll be in then. Don't trust those guys

[mattmanyah]

I think so its not a way to talk about someone you want to cherish so I don't think its fair for people to put that judgment on me

[BlueEyesWD]

"Trophy wife" is an offensive word if you ask me. Since they tell you that you make a perfect match for an old guy and not only that but because you are treated as an object. Because that's exactly what it means.

[Justinaveragedude]

Trophy wives are called so because they are attractive, they are meant to be displayed, like a trophy. It has nothing to do with your personality, and nothing to do with who you are as a person. It just means you are attractive.

[TheSpartan]

It means that you're a beautiful woman with not a lot of character.

They're wrong, though, because you seem to be very nice. Ignore them. You are, however, very beautiful, and you should reserve yourself for a man who will appreciate you.

[pooper89]

Yes. They say it because you're attractive and because you lack intellect

[Intraluminal]

No. It's because you're so pretty. Trophy wives are married for their looks.

[MJM69]

no it's quite the opposite it means you'll be good to show off

[John_Doesnt]

No, that's a good thing and it means you're the smartest.

[Halucinator]

I don't think that you should feel bad
You already know that trophy wife is a positive term so stay positive.
All the best✌

[Anonymous]

yes it basically means they only see you as a nice face and a good pair of assets

[Anonymous]

If you know what it is then it's up to you whether you should like being called that or not. Your friends sound awkward though.

[oldoldold]

they think your only skull is to look good and have sex with a rich guy

[Anonymous]

as long as you're getting a diploma, and at least TRYING at least a year of college, im fine with it. i dont want a girl, who's not at least willing to try

[Tezzy69]

Let them think what they want, if you are happy being who you are_ that's all that matters. x

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't want a married to woman, known as a Trophy Wife

[Anonymous]

Nobody should make a woman feel like a trophy, they're not an item you show off

[Anonymous]

what the hell is a trophy wife? and i dont normally say this but damm you are cute girl

[Pizzalover101]

Depends on if your bitchy or nice that's the difference