My crush is always sad, is there anything I can do?

[Loveaddicttilly]

So he hasn't been hanging with his friends for about 4 months and he sits on his own, I've gone to sit with him and see if he's okay a few times but I feel like I'm annoying him, we're in different years (I'm a year younger than him) so we only see each other at break and lunch. I say hi to him quite a lot and he smiles and says hi back but a lot of the time he just sits on his own and looks like he's falling apart-he looks like he's going to cry and I really wanna hug him 😩

Today I went to look at his Instagram and maybe talk to him on there but he's deleted all his social media and I was going to start a conversation with him on there but obviously, Me waiting for the right time was only too late 😔 But is there anything I can do to help him? Or should I keep my distance for a while?

[SouroNox]

Well if he's only a year older then you then he's 15. Its clear that he's in some sort of depression. In that age depressions generally occurs due to problems in family. Maybe because his parents always fight or maybe they are breaking up. Or the most probable one they put too much pressure on him for studies and academics. If thats the case. And you really want to help him. You have to say more than just hi. I m not saying to go nd propose at the moment. It would be a Terrible idea. But if you want to help him you have to become his friend first. Since you only meet at lunch and he sits alone then it cannot be more easier than you to go and sit beside him. And start talking normal about normal things like classes and all. Start doing it everyday. Make him laugh a little. He will start loosening up to you. And once he does reveal his problems. You can help him pretry easily. Walk him out of this. And off-topic but i will include if you dont wanna get friendzoned then make the move at the right time. I mean the move from friendship to relationship.😉 Boy how i regret that!

[SaramadHill]

I don't think you should keep your distance, the dude is obviously severely depressed; who knows what he could be dealing with at home (abusive parents for instance) or elsewhere (abusive friends or even bullies)...
I say what you're doing is okay, and you should only leave him alone if he explicitly tells you to go away. Something's seriously bugging him, and you don't have to know what it is to help him. A smile is a universally understood language-- I'm sure he appreciates you taking an interest in his happiness, even if he's not showing it. You're a kind soul, that much is apparent.

[katherineec]

You should offer to to listen I say ask him why if he opens up let him talk just listen and be there for him you say he is your crush I say be a friend for him before you try for a relationship

[Whatthefluff]

He's in a depressive bout, those suck. Do not keep your distance, he needs social interaction

[JDavid25]

Well, maybe just start talkin to him at lunch.. Askin how he is doin, and all that good stuff.. Maybe just surprise him with a hug, and say "I'm here if you need me" stuff like that.. And if he doesn't want yo company then yeah you should give him some space.. But that's only if he doesn't..

[Lopezz1999]

This guy need some serious comfort. Please be the one to give it to him.

[samanand25]

hey
don't worry