Why are hot girls hard to get?

[gtex1991]

they tend to be stack up or have high standards(for lack of better word)

[Anonymous]

I think there are 3 types of hot girls.

#1 The "Yes, I Know I'm Hot. What Else is New?" Girl: Not necessarily mean people but they know they're good-looking and they want you to know they're good-looking, too. They've probably been told how gorgeous they were since childhood and ever since she convinced that poor boy to push her swing she's known how to use her looks to her advantage. They usually come across as being conceited but upon closer inspection they're usually also insecure about a few things (ex. being perceived as stupid, etc.); if not, they're probably too narcissistic to ever love you as much as they love themselves so just get over it.

#2 The "I'm Hot But I Wish You Cared About My Ph.D Candidacy As Much As My Perfect Face" Girl: These girls are pretty, yes, but they also have depth. If they seem aloof or disinterested, they're probably just tired of guys hitting on them with the sole intent of getting them into bed. They're likely aware of their good looks but also accepting of the fact that said attractiveness will fade; luckily, they're smart/talented/whatever enough to get by on more in life than just their yoga-sculpted thighs.

#3 The "Ugly Duckling" Girl: A hot girl with ugly duckling syndrome probably seems the most standoffish simply because she doesn't think she's hot. Girls with UDS likely went through an extensive awkward or fat phase and endured years of teasing and other forms of social alienation. The Ugly Duckling is incapable of believing that she's pretty because it has been ingrained within her that she is not. Such a girl will likely be the nicest of the 3 groups if you ever get to know her--you might give up prematurely when she runs in fear of you approaching. Don't worry, it's not you; it's her.

(Yes, I'm being facetious, but there's some truth in every statement.)

[Anonymous]

the more desirable a person is, naturally the more options they are going to have.

also because society judges a female's value based on how good she looks, some really good looking girls can start to think that they ARE more valuable than other people. I'm not a hot girl but I used to be considered very fine back in the day before I got depressed, and people were always kissing my butt, sucking up to me and treating me like I was royalty. if my parents didn't raise me the way they did, I'm not gonna lie I probably would have been very conceited and snobby because of how the world reacted to me. that may not be a good excuse, but for the most part your environment and how you are treated in your day-to-day life does shape how you see the world and react to people.

[gtex1991]

Why depression

[Opinion Owner]

A close family member died

[RealDeal]

You are looking for a new car but the only thing in your price range is a Hyundai :( But all the sudden you get a bonus and then get to choose from a Beamer, Benz or Bently. Would you still want a Hyundai?

If you get the chance to choose from a variety of girls. Wouldn't you be picky too? When I have the opportunity to choose between a handful, I try to pick the quality lady over the quantity of girls. I'm pretty sure it's the same for chicks. But depending on the girl, she could love the attention or she could be really trying to meet "mr. right". This is the same for guys. We say girls like the attention and girls say it feeds our ego.

[Theking]

Thats because they are so used to the attention and conventional seduction and flirting won't work, I find that finding a feature or talent that's out of the ordinary and not quite related to physical attractiveness is good to build on, but usually a disconnector works incredibly.

[beans]

Because they can pick from a wide range of males who are happy to lick her ass basically

[gtex1991]

Does it mean they like them, or just want attention

[beans]

I think it's attention most of the time, wouldn't you enjoy it if you had girls drooling over you

[socalgamehater2006]

because it's like business and economics, the supply of available hot single girls is very low, and the demand for them by us guys is very high

[mikkie180]

Because they can have the pick of many guys.

[papasmurf]

haha well I can say is good luck