The subject of CUCKOLD ?

[Anonymous]

So my hubby is into cuckolding.. does that mean he loves me less or doesn't love me at all anymore. I mean his fantasy can be hot but he is so into the thought of seeing me with someone else I'm kind of worried lol... should I be worried? Guys what's your take on this , is it normal?

[Anonymous]

A good woman is one of the greatest blessings you will ever find. For overall happiness, a string of one-night stands does not hold a candle to her. But even the best woman is a creature just like you. While she deserves to be cherished she does not deserve to be put on a pedestal. If that applies to the woman that you marry, it applies even more to women that you date.
The irony is that if you hold women in too high regard, they will treat you poorly in return. Make a woman your “everything” is a sure way to get dumped or cucked. This is because women were never meant to be a man’s reason for living. A man must have a higher calling—a higher mission—than just being Sally’s husband or boyfriend.
I can’t tell you what your mission is. For some, it will be ushering in the kingdom of God. For others it may be bringing about a sane political order, becoming a champion mixed martial artist, or starting a successful company. Whatever it is, never lose sight of your mission. The woman will come along as part of it.

[HermitNYC]

I can only speak for myself.

I have always felt 'not good enough'. When I was young, my family never, never ever praised... me, or anyone else.

I was married, and she always said that our love-making was good. But somehow I knew she was telling me what I wanted to hear. Long story about that. The tell-tale was that she never really seemed enthusiastic, although she sometimes pretended to be enthusiastic.

I fantasized about a three-way, me, her, and another guy. So she would have twice as much chance of really enjoying it.

Never happened. Marriage ended. I just wish she would have told me what she liked/didn't like. I doubt she ever had an orgasm.

[Goddess_Germanika]

My husband used to be a sexual therapist, he believes those men want a more sexual wife. In my experience, cuckolding makes the connection between the couple stronger and more present.

I think when couples first do this it is best to have multiple men (if 5 say they will come 1-3 may come) or a surplus men's night at a sex club. This allows it to be sexual without it being an emotionally threatening or confusing experience.

It will allow you to stop worrying about pleasing anyone so you can focus on your own orgasm. I've had over 600 cocks (yes, attached to men but I had zero interest in them as humans, people, or friends. I was there for their hard cocks. How did I judge them? Was their cock hard? Did they fuck hard? Do I have any memory of the "best fuck"? No, hundreds of cocks, thousands of orgasms.) After the first few, you don't care, or you can care tomorrow.

I recommend you ask him to find a few good men.

[VikingWarLord]

He's a beta and probably has a small D.

I lived in the SF Bay Area for almost 10 years and I was the BULL for tons of couples especially Asian Couples (I'm blonde, blue eyes and a huge BWC). Even the Asian dudes got off on me using their Asian Wives and Asian GFs. The dudes were all very effeminate too, I'll bet your boyfriend is the same!

[AdamThomas]

I don't think it means that he loves you less, it's just a fucked up fantasy that weak low testosterone beta males who've watched too much porn have.

[Hanrej]

The fact that he's into cuckolding has no effect on his feelings for you. He could love you or not love you. It's a fetisch from wich he derives pleasure, nothing more or less.
You should instead ask yourself if you share in it and if it might effect how you feel.

[Foulu]

i'm into cuckolding a lot but i have no experience with it.
the thing is its just a kink for me, it turns me on a lot and living it out would make me happy

if i'm in love ( i don't need that fetisch to be so ) and my girlfriend would cuckold me
she would be the one that makes me happy so i guess she would just get more affektion from me as before and i see nothing wrong with that i mean live and let live

[Thunnnder]

It's not normal. No one should be ok with the one they love getting fucked by someone else. That's sick.

[Asker]

I kno he would never go through with it... it's just a fantasy !

[Thunnnder]

He shouldn't even be fantasizing about that.

[Wurdom]

It's hard to say what he feels towards you. The fetish isn't normal and it's linked to enjoyment from humiliation. Some cuckolds do it because they want their wife to be pleased

[Asker]

That's interesting.. he always tells me he wants me to be pleased he feels that he isn't big enough for me... I'm not complaining tho :( . Can it be from watching to much porn and that's why he's into that now?

[Wurdom]

No porn has nothing to do with his sexual desires. I think being a cuckold is rooted in other humiliating fantasies or experiences.

[Asker]

Hmm ok thank you for your opinion !

[AdamThomas]

I think porn has a lot to do with it actually. First sign: he thinks he's not big enough even though she isn't complaining - it's common for heavy porn users to think this when they're used to watching guys with huge penises. Second sign: he gets off on the idea of watching the girl he wants get fucked by another guy - just like watching porn, only in real life. Porn has been proven to warp the mind as it affects the brain in the same way that drugs do - each time you watch you get a dopamine hit - if you watch it a lot you get less sensitive to it, therefore you get less of a dopamine hit, therefore you either need more porn or you need to watch kinkier stuff to get off (the same as starting on softer drugs and eventually moving onto harder drugs) - that's when guys start to develop strange fetishes and fantasies.

[Wurdom]

AdamThomas That all makes sense. I don't know if porn is that big of a factor though. Most cuckolds are on the older side that didn't grow up with porn being a pretty big part of their life. I think a lot more people would have that fetish if that were such a big influence. I believe that that desire comes from feeling inferior as a male in general, although what you said definitely adds to it.

[Asker]

It does make sense I agree with Adamthomas ! Thank you for both your opinions :)

[AdamThomas]

That's true, however the number of men who fantasise about cuckolding seems to be on the rise and it's becoming quite a popular thing, and about 30% of all of the most popular vids on porn sites tend to be cuckold porn.

[wannabecuckold]

He has probably always been until it from some extent

[FunGuy1970]

I cannot speak for your husband, I love my wife with all my heart but I just find the thought of her with other men sexy as hell and it makes me lust her more since she does it.

[Anonymous]

Pick out someone you find attractive and have fun

[Asker]

So your saying it's normal.. nothing out the ordinary?

[Opinion Owner]

Nope but if he is dumb enough to allow it you might as well have a little fun

[wannabecuckold]

I think its quite normal. My first wife got into it before we split (we didn't split because of cuckolding ) my wife now gets the kink and has enjoyed her freedom 💞

[Anonymous]

*soon to be ex hubby

[Anonymous]

Ir's masochistic.