Why are guys so obsessed with upskirt things... upskirt photos... upskirt sex... peeking upskirt... why?

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tommi22 · Accepted Answer

Hmmm, I'm surprised you have to ask! Until very recently, let's say the last 20 years, it was regarded as absolutely forbidden for a girl to show any part of her lingerie to the observation of men. Why? Well, I guess it's a cultural interpretation of what comprises "modesty". For a girl or woman to show too much of her legs to the point men had access to checking out her panties... that was regarded as promiscuous behavior... you know... the kind of behavior only a "loose" woman or prostitute would do. Nowadays, thanks to MTV, Calvin Klein ads, "modern" TV shows, magazines and movies women are shown off wearing just their panties and bras or exposing them in really short skirts and dresses... and they are supposed to be giving off an "aura of confidence" in their femininity when doing so. LOL, we Western women should be glad for the latitude of our culture... if we were caught in an Islamic fundamentalist country we'd have our heads lopped off for exuding all that "confidence."

annie616pop · Accepted Answer

Heya, I wouldn't worry so much about a guy's obsession with skirts and panties. It's part of our culture. The most important issue here is not the fascination with panties, it's whether or not a guy is also developing the social skills to engage with girls in a friendly and communicative manner. Once a guy can be around a pretty girl without totally making a sex object of her (at least in fantasy) he's on his way to becoming more mature in his appreciation of her other traits such as her intelligence, personality, and social skills. Yes, yes, nothing says that a little sexual fascination with her body and her lingerie won't happen... it's a given it will be there... but it will now be there as part of the whole game... and not just a limited view of it.

RJGraveyTrain · Accepted Answer

I think it's you that is, not them. Lol. There's a female user who always talks about upskirting somewhere on this site.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

It's all about impulse control. Remember how as kids at Christmas we wish we could just peek at what out presents are going to be? The wrapping makes the event exciting, full of potential, the imagination can go wild. Anyway, some men grow up and we are not obsessed with such childhood pursuits, yet some who look like men are emotionally and intellectually boys. I hope this helps!

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I never cared about upskirt photos, but if it's sexual then a lot of men will like it. I don't move my body to peek up anyone's skirt, but if she's bending over and I can see things, yeah I'm fully going to observe. It's sexual in context therefore a bit desirable.

potatokin · Answer

because normally a skirt is something inviolate that you can't look up or lift etc. It is taboo. that makes it all the more enticing when you can. It's the scarcity principal: the harder it is to get, the better it must be.

casscade · Answer

personally I don't have a thing for upskirt stuff but it's probably because skirts are meant to his your nudity but an upskirt is like a bypass hence they feel like they've done something , well you know , wrong and that gives them a rush

Uncut · Answer

I think it's that guys wanna see what is unknown to them. It's tabo, sexy and naughty. Similar to a girl trying to peak into a guys change room. Or maybe up, his shorts. We are men and we like what women have

th3c0unt · Answer

They're not. There's weirdos and sickos and desperate lot in every gender. Some just go along but don't really care. But if it's pretty and tempting to a guy sure he'd never get enough of it.

BellaM · Answer

Because you can see something girl forbid you to be seen.

Enigma69 · Answer

simply because its "naughty" to look there, or inappropriate, in terms of modesty. so its cheeky and naughty.

attakhelikopter · Answer

Because upskirt bananas in nonsense. And I feel most guys enoy no-nonsense

Browneye57 · Answer

Cuz perverts are voyeurs as well. And it's not 'guys' generally, it's just a few pervs.

TallAnon · Answer

The forbidden fruit, tells us that we can't and we will want it all the more.

Jambofc982 · Answer

Why do I always look upskirt when women are sitting down or walking upstairs

hexadecimal · Answer

it's good because a skirt covers you and doing thought things shows your impurity and it's devilish

Cryostatic · Answer

No idea, that shit's fucking creepy as hell.

TonyRyanAgain · Answer

I've never done anything like that...

convo_king89 · Answer

Cuz we wanna see ur panties.

Angel_Enemy · Answer

We aren't. Your kind of reaching.

Anonymous · Answer

Cause they're dirty dirty people

scooogy · Answer

Maybe because it's naughty

Anonymous · Answer

that's creepy af.  what's upskirt sex? :/

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