Guys, fuckbuddy or one night stand?

[FlorandFauna]

Hello guys, I'm currently looking for a fuckbuddy on Tinder, because to me it's important that I feel a certain level of (sexual) attraction/a connection with the guy before I jump into bed with him, and the only way for me to feel/have this is by getting to know the man and fucking him more often then just once. Besides, when you get to know each other I think eventually you'd feel more comfortable about telling each other about what you do and don't like in bed etc. But now I was wondering if guys are actually intrested in fuckbuddies, or do they rather just fuck around with diffrent girls?

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+1 y

I'm very happy about the results. Think it won't be too hard to find a fuckbuddy!

[bestLover]

A fuck buddy is better... I don't do one night stands unless that's how it turns out. If it wasn't good for one or both of us then it's cool but there is a saying... If it wasn't good the first time try it again (or as many times more to make sure) bc it could have been a fluke otherwise you could be missing out on a really good experience with someone you could really make a great connect with that will be memorable. We all have off nights when we feel we over compensated or weren't in the right mindset.

[Anonymous]

Depends if you are fuck buddies can he have others? If yes then he will like the arrangement if not then he will think you want a relationship eventually..
Basically you shouldn't care if he fucks other girls if you do because of certain feelings then he won't like it..
I left a girl who slyly moved our arrangements from fucking to cuddling and talking..

[FlorandFauna]

I'd like to do things with him like people in a relationship do. But I'm definitely okay with him fucking others and I too will still flirt with others (don't know if I can fuck 2 guys around the same time but would do that too if I can).

[Opinion Owner]

Yh but doing the relationship stuff will make him think you like him.. The only way it will be ok is if u tell him your fine with him banging other girls..
I don't get why u want the relationship stuff because that leads to feelings

[FlorandFauna]

Yeah that's true. It is dangerous. But I just like the feeling to be loved and cared for. Think that part is important for many women.

[Alessus]

While personally I'm open to both, I suppose I'd rather go for a fuckbuddy, because what you said about telling the other what you like/don't like and also because it's easier to better your own "techniques" as you get, hopefully, honest comments and criticism.

[Anonymous]

Unless we're not compatible, i'd rather it be ongoing, and turn into a relationship. Doesn't need to be a serious relationship, but i'd rather have feelings and wild sex. However, the relationship would have sex as a core part.

[FlorandFauna]

Same.

[FlorandFauna]

I like that idea. Would you then not sleep around with other girls? May I ask you how old you are?

[Gustafsone12584]

Sounds like woman are more into fuckbuddies honest. Does anyone want to have a real relationship?

I think having an understanding out of bed is more important. Sex can be a boring thing, if your with a boring person.

[MrFluff]

I prefer fuck buddy. I love to have a fuck buddy who i know (know what she loves, what she hates so i can easily make her squirt like mad) and i can fuck many times a week. But she has to be a bit nympho as im always horny and naughty😎😈
In which country/city are you looking for a fuckbuddy?

[abc3643]

Congratulations on deciding to reduce your value as a potential wife for future husband candidates!

[FlorandFauna]

I'm from the Netherlands. Free country lol. Besides I always wanted to wait for the "one" I actually was a virgin until last month. Kind of screwed it so why not getting more experienced so I can please my future husband in bed? 😀

[MrFluff]

I love the way your thinking Flo 😉

[Nik1hil]

fuck buddy are better, its safe better and also hygienic and safe from STD

[Laurentiul]

Usually both. Depends on the girl. If it's really good / memorable that first time, why not again. And since it's not a relationship, I see no reason not to fuck around with other girls if something interesting comes along.

[mystical-symbol]

we definitely fuck around with different girls.. but we also like fuckbuddies too.. don't show too much affection for the guy unless you want something serious with him. until then jus ride like you're riding a horse

[Anonymous]

i think fuck buddies are great thing to do. its safe and fun! i wish i could have a fuckbuddy as well. maybe an online one... lol to send naughty chats and flirt.

anyway! enjoy! have a great time 😉😉

[Wolframium]

I really don’t understand the mentality behind this. Why would you do this?