When a guy is asking for butt pics, does it mean he doesn't respect you or see you as girlfriend material?

[Anonymous]

[jaye883636]

I guess it depends on a case by case basis a good number of guys ask for nude or pictures sexual by nature. I think in general the vast majority would fall under 3 categories one the guy is player or worse a dog that just wants to make himself feel good by celebrating he was able to get the pic and show off as alpha male in front of his guy friends, the 2nd is just the dirty pervert that wants nudes or the 3rd he may be attracted and interested in every aspect of who you are one aspect being physically in this case if he's a gentleman it wouldn't be degrading or disrespect but a sign of appreciation and Adoration

[Asker]

The third category may not apply to my case because he doesn't respond to my snaps when I send full clothed pics of myself

[Th3B1ackguy11]

Not at all, it means he is attracted to you and wants to see you like that. He obviously has a preference for it and is attracted to that part of you. It doesn't mean he doesn't respect you. If he keeps asking after you've refused then he doesn't respect you but asking to see your butt would still be something you would ask of a girlfriend

[Anonymous]

depends on how well you know him? like if your boyfriend asked you from them while he's away it's not cause he doesn't respect you, but if a nobody you've known for a couple days asks them he probably doesn't respect you

[Asker]

But what did I do for him not to respect me

[Opinion Owner]

don't send him the nudes, that would be the major thing, and set it straight about what you can and can't provide him and stay rooted to it.

[Opinion Owner]

don't let him use you, or walk all over you.

[Asker]

Well I am attracted to him and I do enjoy the flirting but I'm bothered that he doesn't ask more subtly with class

[Opinion Owner]

mhm, i've dealt with a similar situation before, yeh the best advice i could give is to be straight up with him, drop a comment like "wow real classy". just be brutally honest, with what you do like and don't.

[Asker]

Oh ok, I guess I'm scared to come off as bi**y. But I'll take your advice. that actually sounds smart to say

[Opinion Owner]

you won't come across as bitchy, if anything he will respect you more for having the balls to say what's on your mind. g luck! x

[Asker]

Ok I would dig that. Great piece of advice. appreciate it.

[GingerGuy]

It really is hard to say because we guys are visual. Something I think you'd have to be a guy to fully understand (it's the equivalent of mental/emotional stimulation for you). Having said that, it depends on your relationship overall and the guy. I personally would never ask for this but that's just me. As far as respect for you, look at how he treats you otherwise. Is there respect there? Does he have ANY interest in anything to do with you other than your body? These are the "signs" to look for/at.

[GingerGuy]

And definitely don't do it if you don't want to 100%. If he cares about you and truly likes you, this WON'T be a problem. If he gets mad, offended or anything like that, I'd question how much he "likes" you. In my opinion, not very much and is only interested in your body and/or sex.

[Asker]

@gingerguy I'm curious what might've triggered him to only be interested in my body/sex?

[GingerGuy]

Just straight out ask him. It may or may not be the case. Again, we guys are visual and are "bombarded" 24/7 with images. From tv, internet, advertising to every day beautiful/sexy women on the street. So, we ALL are interested in sex if we're attracted to you. But doesn't necessarily mean that's ALL we want. But maybe he's not interested in a serious relationship? Just talk to him about this. Find out what he wants and doesn't want (hopefully he's honest with you) and share your thoughts and feelings. Again, if he cares about you and knows you're not comfortable sending pics to him, it shouldn't be a big deal at all to him.

[litost]

Means he wants to see your ass nothing more nothing less

[Jo1991]

Depends on how close you guys are. If he just started chatting to you or met you recently then he probably doesn't see you as girlfriend material. If it's been a fairly long time that you've known each other then he may just find you sexy af and would still date you if the chance came up

[Tonic4k]

It means that he's sexually attracted to you. It doesn't imply that he sees a potential girlfriend in you, but he could also see a potential girlfriend in you. You can't really make an assumption based off of him asking for but pics.

[liTeWave]

Agree!

[Zer0Ghost]

You mean before anything else has happened? Means he likes good masturbation material not girlfriend material

[Asker]

So that means he likely doesn't think I'm beautiful or have a good personality?

[Zer0Ghost]

I mean it could, I'm just saying it more than likely just means he wants something to jerk off to

[Asker]

Ok so it's possible that my personality/appearance isn't the issue and he s just looking for a hookup?

[Zer0Ghost]

A hookup or, like he asked for, just pics, yes

[Sugartitty]

Nah it just means he's horny and a bit (too) forward with you

[2Crom]

It just means he likes your butt. He still may or may not respect you, and may or may not see you as girlfriend material.

[steveguitar]

Don't do it, you never know where these pics end up in the internet age. Besides why do you want to a guy who wants butt pics?

[paulsheppard071]

I think he just likes butts. Not my thing but I get it. In this day and age, asking for any sort of nude picture seems to be as commonplace as the old "what's your sign?" pickup line.

[SuperEunuch]

It almost definitely means he sees you as girlfriend material

[Asker]

Huh? But the blatant disrespect proves that he may not

[SuperEunuch]

He doesn't mean to be disrespectful

[Browneye57]

He just wants sex with you. Duh.
And don't send any pics you don't mind showing up on the internet at some point, for all to see.

[sheajake17]

Depends on how close you are. Make sure he's not just using you tho

[Asker]

Are guys who do that to a girl likely don't think she's beautiful or attractive? Likely he's not really into me

[sheajake17]

If the guy thinks a girl is ugly, he won't bother asking for a butt pic

[Asker]

Oh ok at least there's that lol

[TheChatWanderer]

Not true I've gotten plenty of nudes from ugg chicks whether requested or not. I just like to see how far a person would go for my entertainment.

[sheajake17]

Lol well i dont see the point on asking if im not interested

[Anonymus2017]

It's one of two things.

1) He simply wants to see your butt.

2) He is planning on getting in your pants.

[Asker]

No interest in me whatsoever?

[Anonymus2017]

Well, it depends on how long you have been talking and if you think it feels right that he is asking for butt pics.

But usually, wanting nudes means wanting sex.

Personally if I was interested in someone, nudes would not be the first thing on my mind.

[Asker]

Ok so it might mean he doesn't like my personality right?

[Anonymus2017]

That is a possibility... or he could just be horny and not thinking straight.

[Asker]

I'm curious, what about my personality would have turned him off when he haven't really talked long enough for him to know about me

[Anonymus2017]

If you haven't talked all that long and he doesn't really know you, then I would say he is probably just trying to get sex. You don't bring up nudes in the early stages of getting to know someone.

[Asker]

So it's likely nothing to do with me?

[Anonymus2017]

Yep, nothing to do with your personality.

[Asker]

Oh interesting

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

He doesn't respect you if he wants butt pics of you.

[Fleece]

That means that he's too stupid to know what obligations a boyfriend has.

[Aletje]

It has nothing to do with that. If a guy wants you as his girlfriend, he's gonna think you're hot, therefore, would like to see your body.

[Insanyx12]

Guys shouldn't be asking for that he shoukf be asking everything about you and wanting to know the real you I would keep looking

[Yashvardhan_Malik99]

Nope he don't love you but has a lust for you. Does your boyfriend as k it?

[Asker]

Not he's not my boyfriend. Just wondering why he isn't interested in me as a person?

[Yashvardhan_Malik99]

Do you know him personally?

[Asker]

Yeah sure

[Yashvardhan_Malik99]

Give a message

[Asker]

I sent a follow

[Asker]

Ok but you have to follow me back

[Yashvardhan_Malik99]

Okay girl

[Yashvardhan_Malik99]

Send me a message I'm waiting

[vichu_007]

He sees you as photo material for some sex fantasies

[BeHappy1985]

He wants to play with his pee pee thinking of you..

[Nononi122]

So my girlfriend been asking me for my ass pics cuz she thinks mans butts are cute so guys would u do it and girls what do y'all think about that?

[freddy0769]

Its a decision between the 2 of you. If you want to then do it. Both. Of you need to send pics to each other

[mickmick]

maybe just for show off for his friend
never done that

[Phyllis91]

You are a sex object to him.

[DanieD]

He wants a fuck buddy

[Anonymous]

He wants you for sex, don't send it to him.

[keow10]

He want to use it for sex

[cupidkisses]

Yes he doesn't see you as a girlfriend material

[karan_naughty]

he likes your body more than you

[Asker]

Ok but why though?

[Brongg]

Thats just wrong

[karan_naughty]

he is asking your butt pics
he likes your ass
not you

[karan_naughty]

brongg. he asked her for her butt pic
which means he likes ass

[Asker]

True I'm just wondering what about my personality would make him not respect me or like me

[Brongg]

Yeah but that doesn't mean he dont respect her or dont like her

[karan_naughty]

if he shared your butt pics with someone else
then it will be a problem
or if he blackmailed you then...

[Asker]

@brongg I think he doesn't respect me because the way he asks for nudes is quite upfront. He said "send butt pics."

[Brongg]

Yeah ok if its not your boyfriend he is disrespecting you

[Asker]

I don't get it, he was respectful before when he used to call me gorgeous and beautiful and asked how I was doing. Now he just asks for booty pics and doesn't compliment me. Why would it change so fast

[Brongg]

Because he didn't get you fast enough to that Point so he say it like that, he doesn't care, block him and move on

[Asker]

Oh ok I'm kinda confused what you were trying to say. He didn't get me fast to that point, what do you mean

[Brongg]

The Point where you would send pics without him asking because you started to like him a lot, this didn't happen so he is now more direct to you

[LastNightmare]

nope, I do like seeing my girls butt

[donaldsfarm]

Ill taket the pics myself,

[niceguy1234567]

It means he want to ass you

[thegr8lion]

It may mean he wants to fuck your ass

[Anonymous]

Of course. He sees women in the proper context.

[disgustingweebtrash]

It means he's horny