Boyfriend thinks it’s bad sex?

[Kmay1998]

So my boyfriend and I had sex last night. I think it’s always good because we are very connected and we are very passionate about one another. Before we got together I took a break from guys so I didn’t have sex for a long time and he said he didn’t have sex for a while. So after we were done last night, he says “I promise when I get back into the swing of things it will be a lot better” ... does that mean he thought it was bad?

[TadCurious]

From the way you describe the situation in your details it sounds like he was putting the responsibility on himself for (?) "poor performance" or something? I don't know. It doesn't sound like he was being critical of you though. Maybe he's self-conscious about how he performs in bed, like cumming too fast or something.

[Kmay1998]

I was thinking he thought it wasn’t as exciting maybe? I had made him wait until last week to have sex so this is only the 3rd time and he’s been on top all 3 times. I love being on top and it starts out that way but I think he just gets into it and he always flips me over.

[Kmay1998]

I guess what I’m saying is, I hope it’s something else and he doesn’t think our sex is boring because we’ve been in the same position

[TadCurious]

I'm sure he doesn't think your sex is boring. I'm sure he likes you being on top (because that's such a great view for the guy) but when he gets close he likes to turn you over and him be on top so he can thrust better and finish that way.

[TadCurious]

thank you for MH opinion!

[0112358]

It means he thinks he was bad.

Either not hard enough/hard fast enough or came too fast. In his mind.

[20yearsolder]

Didn't mean she wasn't happy with his performance. Once he gets back in the swing it will last longer you think it'll be better for you

[FemWorship]

he thought HE was underwhelming in bed for you
or remembers when his SOP was much better

[Kmay1998]

What is SOP

[Kmay1998]

Just kidding I figured it out lol

[cMusick]

Possibly, but not necessarily so. He could simply be saying "that was alright, but you just wait until I get back on my A game."

[AbstractPhilosopher]

To be honest, he thought you were more qualified and experienced than himself. He doesn't want you to feel like he sucks. he wants to make sure you are satisfied.

[krishh0805]

Doesn't mean it's bad!! He probably wanted to more!!!

[Pickle_Nick]

Sounds like he has a confidence issue.

[silvabak]

Sounds like it!! Maybe he cum too quickly?

[Kmay1998]

He does cum really fast but I just enjoy the moment with him... but I’m not sure if he thinks I could be better or if he could be better?

[silvabak]

If he cums quick he will see it as his problem which he will want to improve on! Just help him relax an Wen he feels like cumming stop, play your body then start again so he can last longer

[Deeppurple]

You need to give more details about whole thing.