My boyfriend has been pushing me away and not showing interest in me or sex. We didn't have sex over a week and he hasn't shown interest into it until now. He's told me he's been really stressed because he's going through something and wants me to give him sex to “help” him. He's threatened that if I don't have sex with him he'll leave me forever. He later tells me that he's going through a loss in his family and it's his cousin from another state died.
Nope. Don't Do it. He's manipulating you and will continue to until you give him some. As obvious as it seems I must add that if you haven't done it yet there's a solid chance that he will ghost you immediately after getting his way. He doesn't deserve you and he shouldn't want to do it without your consent. If it was me I wouldn't do it without both your consent and maybe more importantly knowing that you are completely comfortable with me and you won't regret it later for some reason. For example I was completely infatuated with this girl and I was clear about that. However I knew that she was spoken for and I had no intention of breaking her home up. I was happy just to have her in my life and wanted her to be happy with whoever she was with. Eventually she fell for me because I accepted her unconditionally for who she was. She decided that I earned sex and she gave me consent but I could tell that she felt that I deserved the reward but that she would regret her infidelity and feel bad about herself after. That's unacceptable for me. She later said that she knew that she loved me in the moment I passed it up. We eventually did do it and it was some of the hottest sex I've ever had. Because she was ready to completely give herself to me and I her. If your guy is using sex as a threat before you even do it then it's a major red flag. If he threats to leave then call his bluff. You have the Pussy and therefore the power. You're the one who is special and sought after. He's just a horny teenager.
How old are you two? You own your body so if you don’t want sex he doesn’t get sex. How is sex going to make him feel better? After two minutes his cousin is still going to be dead so I don’t get it. You only have sex when you are both up for it end of story.
u This makes absolutely no sense. You say that he is pushing you away and not interested in you or sex but then the next sentence you say he threatens you if you don't have sex. You see how contradicting that is? So which is it? Does he not want it like you say or is he threatening you if you don't... like you say. It is really hard to give you any sort of help. If he is threatening you at all that is a massive red flag and time to get out of that relationship. He can't hold sex over your head... if he actually is since you also say he doesn't want it.
Leave.
He's threatening to leave over sex? Put that trash out.
Opinion
5Opinion
Your call but I would have a talk with him saying. I’m sorry about your loss but don’t think you can force me to have sex with you.
Tell that bum to take a hike
well, do you want to do it?
Do not let anyone force you
TELL HIM TO KICK ROCKS
No I wouldn’t
You can also add your opinion below!
