Should I just go for it the next time I'm having sex with my boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

Ok so am 21 and I have had a couple partners without lying I would saty about 10.I know what to do in bed and I've been told that I am very good even when am at the bottom I never just sit there and always rotating my waistline(anyone who's good in bed should know what I mean) anyways I only have one problem I never really touch the guys penis that the only part am shy about dnt get me wrong am really good at everything else but could this keep me back from being even better or is it not a big deal(when I say touch I mean like the way he would caress my vagina and enjoy getting me wet I wouldn't do the same for him)but never the less the guy is always hard I have a lot of assets for him to be busy with lol...breast,ass etc.

should I just go for it the next time I'm having sex with my boyfriend we been together for a couple of months and we just started having sex over the weekend and it was only once so next time should I reach for it or should I just continue liek the first time because he really enjoyed it.

[slide111]

Don't listen to what these puritans are saying. You are a human being and sex is a beautiful way to strengthen the connection you have with another soul! To answer your question: Unless the guy specifically said otherwise or shies away from you reach, I would say just go for it. Most guys will be happy about that kind of initiative.

[Anonymous]

I am sorry, but your question seems very superficial and immature. I hope that you treat sexual relations and relationships in general with more respect in the future.

[Asker]

How is the question imature???

[Opinion Owner]

You treat sex so wantonly. There is no respect in the way you approach sex. And making your goal to be great at sex is exceptionally immature--who does that? Who is that superficial? Treat the act, the relationship, yourself, and your partner with some respect. Let the act demonstrate affection and genuine care, not just a cheap pleasure session.

[A-Soldiers-Wife07]

I'm kinda with everyone else on here. How would you feel if he refused to touch you, and just do the actual act of intercourse? Would suck wouldn't it? I think it was the way you asked the question and worded it made it seem immature.

[TinkerbellMarie]

i agree with the guy, this is really immature. you shouldnt have that many partners. its all on you though. don't feel like your obligated to do something you don't want to do. but when and if you feel comfortable then do whatever.

[mrs-troy-dash]

yeah you shud because its only fair because he feels ur shit...so yeah grab a spoon and have a taste of that flavor you got going on

[Anonymous]

A couple means two. But you said ten? I think you mean several.

But anyway, If you really like him and don't mind exploring then go for it.

[JohnNC41]

go ahead and grab it it won't bite