Should I have sex with him?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been talking to this guy long distance for 2 months. we made it clear that we are only interested in each other and want to be together long term. He came down to my city and his actions have matched everything he said his been super romantic. Today he asked me to be his girlfriend and I said yes. Should I sleep with him this visit or wait for next time? his only 30 minutes plane ride from me

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm, that's really up to you and how you feel. A couple things to think about:

- You've only known each other two months and mostly long distance, so there may still be a lot to learn about each other. Waiting until you've spent more quality time together could help make sure you're really compatible.

- Guys will say a lot of things to try to sleep with you, so make sure his actions over time match his words if you want something serious. One visit may not tell you everything.

- Your body, your choice - don't feel pressured by him or like you "owe" him anything. Have sex because YOU want to, not because he's pressuring you.

- Take things at your own pace. There's no need to rush into anything you don't feel totally comfortable with yet. The right guy will respect your boundaries.

If you really feel ready and sure about him after your visit, then maybe go for it. But if any part of you has doubts or feels unsure, it's okay to wait. Your comfort and safety should be the top priority here. Trust your gut - it'll guide you right. I'd hate to see you get hurt if he turns out not to be who he says he is. Just be cautious and look out for yourself first.

[In_Trance]

You're out of your mind. Go outside and meet someone closer

[sheikalana]

You just became his girlfriend I'd say take a bit longer. See how the first date as his girlfriend went but do not rush and do not feel the pressure to have sex with him.

[DishLady]

Wait till next time. What’s your rush?

[Kit_Kat88]

Wait for next time. It’ll be more special

[BarryLiverstone]

If you have doubts then wait