Girl's Behavior 
Guy's Behavior 
Flirting 
Dating 
Relationships 
Fashion & Beauty 
Health & Fitness 
Marriage & Weddings 
Shopping & Gifts 
Technology & Internet 
Break Up & Divorce 
Education & Career 
Entertainment & Arts 
Family & Friends 
Food & Beverage 
Hobbies & Leisure 
Other 
Religion & Spirituality 
Society & Politics 
Sports 
Travel 
Trending & News 
I've been friends with this guy for a few years now. We recently developed feelings and became a couple. Our first date as a couple is next Saturday.
I'm really ready to have sex with him as I feel I know him well enough but I'm going to wait at least a couple of dates. He hasn't mentioned it yet. Question is, for someone you already know, how many dates should you wait?
That’s really cool, I’m happy for you☺️
So…. on the one hand…you’re already familiar with each other and have a bond, so in that regard, I don’t think you need to wait super long.
BUT…. are you completely confident that you’ll work out as a couple? You don’t need to predict the future or anything, but I just mean to be sure that this isn’t a passing fancy, if this is a friendship you value and would regret losing if things went south on the relationship front. And I guess to some degree that’s just a risk you have to take. Maybe you’ve been able to figure this out already, or at least as best as you can without actually doing it, and if that’s the case, that would be another green light. I don’t know all the dynamics of the friendship, how disposable it is to you, how much forced interaction through mutual friends there’d still have to be if there was an ugly split, etc. I’m being overly negative here, just trying to cover all the bases, haha.
Maybe give it a few dates just to be totally sure you’re vibing as a couple, but I don’t think it needs to be months or anything like that. Good luck! Hope everything works out great!👍
It happens when it happens in my view. In most cases when a guy and girl meet, sexual desire is the motivation bringing them together - at least it is on the guy side.
Your case is a bit different having been friends for years (which i assume precluded sex). You now have romantic feelings and I assume sexual desire will arise from that. It is outside of my experience.
I don't know if he'll be like Finally I get to stick it in after x years or be more I've waited x years so I can wait a bit longer.
Feelings and urges go together like a horse and carriage so I think start reinforcing sooner than later. :)
How many dates is not what you should focus on.
When you are together and it feels right for you both it will progress naturally. Just make sure you have protection handy when it does happen. Relax and enjoy being together.
When it feels right to do so. There is no strict rulebook. Don't vrush it if you aren't comfortable.
Opinion
20Opinion
Don't wait...
My suggestion is get intimate the first date!..
full penetrative penis in vagina sex can be optional. But do kiss him, hold him squeeze him. And at least a blowjob!.. however if you can skip blowjob, if you go for full sex.
Handjob is there most annoying thing, don't try to attempt that..
If I was you. I would go full on sex. With world war 3 about to start, I am pretty sure lot of men will be called for war soon. You wouldn't want to waste time Waiting date after date..
If you start sex on first date, you will won't be able to do all sex positions with him, before he is called to war!.
It's good to wait a bit to make sure y'all have a balanced relationship and it isn't just about sex. However since you've known him for so long, you don't need to stress. I'd try to finish the first date without it, but after that just let things flow naturally and it'll happen when it happens
If you want it you can also initiate it, perhaps he is missing the signals you are ready for it.
If I were you , I'd make an appointment for today , why possibly wait? No need to put it off..
There is no established number of dates. People wait until both of them are ready.
Just have sex when you're both feeling ready to. There's nothing wrong with taking your time.
I think that it's about knowing the other side enough and feeling sure.
There’s no rule. Sex isn’t an objective, or shouldn’t be. Usually it derives naturally out of constant make out sessions in the backseats of cars.
Just please get on the pill.
It's really until you both feel comfortable having sex. My girlfriend and I waited a bit over 6 months, but we were both virgins. I think if we knew how good it felt, we wouldn't have waited as long.
Go for it when you both are comfortable. You will automatically know when the right time is so go with the flow
It’s hard to put an actual number on it. You are better off just going by how you feel together. Just take it on date at a time and I think you with both know when the time is right.
Yes. Once you've got married and want to have a family is the best time.
Not until you both are comfortable with taking the next step.
Well you already want to bang him so do it that evening
Whenever you both want to.
Until you both feel ready.
Do it. Right now.
Go for it! He will be yours forever.
Get married first? 🤷
Whenever you and him feel like your ready too
You can also add your opinion below!
