Should I have sex with my cousins boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

One night a couple months back her boyfriend said he wanted to see me naked, at least once. I looked at my cuz thinking she was going to freak out on him but all she did was look at me. I said that will never happen. He asked why. I said isn't it obvious you're dating my cousin. He just smiled and asked me if I was a virgin. I didn't answer him because I didn't think it was his busness. I'm not a virgin I've been with 1 guy (long time bf/now ex) Im 19. My cousin finally spoke up, said her relationship with him is open. My issue is he's really hott, I actually find it hard to say no because I haven't had sex in almost 2 years. I've been putting all my energy into college N I seem to be really picky in who I find attractive. My cousin is 27 and her boyfriend is 24. She also said she would share him! I mean who talks like that? Maybe a one night stand one day but I don't think I'd like that very much. When I was in a relationship it was monogamous. I couldn't ever think I was inlove with someone and share them. They're mine and I'm theirs, thats it. Thats all I will ever want. Now it gets a bit more confusing. When she isn't around he flirts (not pervy but charming and sweet) and is touchy (running his fingers over my hand/arm touching my hair, massaging my back and feet etc) He talks about deep things about his life family and work. He gives tattoos N gave me one recently on my uper thigh it turned me on and I feel so wrong for that. He is more sexual towards me when my cousin is around. It's weird. He's so different. My cusin and him aren't inlove they both told me that. He says he wants a serious monogamous RS. I told him to tell my cuz he said she doesn't like to be tied down to just one guy and he feels like he's over it. He almost kissed me yesterday but I turned my head. He backed away when I looked at him he looked hurt. I almost wanted to take it back N kiss him but then he sorta smiled and said see you 2morow. I don't know how to handle this at all.

[Red_Arrow]

You can either talk to her alone, or talk to the two of them together, and include the topic that he wants a different relationship and she how she feels about that. If she is okay with that, then you can go ahead with the knowledge that she knows exactly how it is. And if the two of you hit it off, you may even make it a relationship for the two of you. If you are just looking for the sex, and it stays only sex, that is okay, too, though he may move on looking for the relationship he is talking about.

[sid312]

If thats what ur looking for then rock on but if u get feelings for him ur cousin says she cool wit it. Wait to see how cool she is when he pays her no attention

[sid312]

Not to mention if it does go bad she will tell friends and family what a whore u are! I am not saying u are but picture it, i can and i dont know u!

[Asker]

She is pushing him on me. She doesn't do romance. And I don't have family besides a brother and he knows what she's like. Plus knowing her she wouldn't ever say that she's very open with her sexuality and doesn't believe in the word slut or whore but thank you for your advice. I'm now going to do anything with him unless they break what ever it is they have off. Then maybe ill see what happens.

[GirlScout]

They both sound creepy and manipulative. He sounds like a real creep and she is just encouraging it. Did you hear about that young girl who fancied her sisters boyfriend? Her sister arranged for them all to get drunk together, then they strangled her, raped and beat her... all as her parents slept in the next room.

Watch out for people, they can be fucked up. Don't set yourself up for messed up situations, especially when you will be outnumbered.

[abundantlyrich]

You have a sexual attraction for him. But are you ok 👌 with being your fuck buddy? He seems incapable of having a proper relationship.

[Asker]

I'm dating someone else. He broke up with my cousin and tried to date me but I said no. I couldn't trust him in the long run. My cousin and I are still good she has another guy now. Thanks =)

[abundantlyrich]

Good to hear

[Rissyanne]

Why would you want to hurt your cousin like that? There are other fish in the sea...

[Asker]

She has been pushing him on me for months. She said she doesn't care. I've told her how he acts without her there and she still says she has other guys. She don't love him she thinks he's hot. I feel like I'm stuck and I'm confused on how I feel. He says he doesn't like the relationship they have anymore and wants something real.

[Rissyanne]

Then why is she calling him her boyfriend?

[Asker]

Because they are close friends for years and they both agreed to have an open relationship and he is a young guy who thought he hit the jackpot but now he wants to have something real. He wants a family. My cousin cares for him but says she's disconnected from the feelings of romantic love. She doesn't get jealous ever. But I still feel like it's wrong in someway because he acts like he wants a RELATIONSHIP with me when we are alone but with her around he just talks about how much he wants to have sex with me. And things like that. I'm uncomfortable asking the questions that would help. me handle the situation. I did ask why he acts so different when she isn't around and he said "he can't help it because you're you" he says... whatever that flippin means. Sigh* I'm too inexperienced for this shit lol

[Anonymous]

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[lafemme]

DO IT! i mean he's not cheating if it's an open relationship. and she is perfectly fine with it. i would if i were you :)

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't make a move. Just because she might change her mind. And then bring it up in the future how u hit on her boyfriend

[sahan138]

I think your cousins boyfriend want have sex with you and your cousin at once
Thats what i think

[Stacyzee]

Since it's okay with her, go for it !

[MJas16]

There's a lot of things that can go wrong..

[kobe23]

I kind of want to see you naked now.

[Red_Arrow]

Now? More likely for a long time. lol

[Klaatu51]

nooooo he's taken!!

[Anonymous]

AWFUL idea.

[Tarvold]

No!. Just No.

[Anonymous]

No, you should not.