The best is just to sever the relation after telling him that you cheated on him and that you are not the person that he had placed his hopes for a future on.
Once a cheater, always a cheater and he will never be able trust you again since cheating is just like an addiction. Once you smell blood, you always go for it and it is the same with being unfaithful.
If you get an incentive big enough to do it again, you will and you owe it to him to start his life anew with someone he can fully trust.
What is the purpose to live a lie knowing that sooner or later he will find out? What would happen then? It would just hurt both even more and you know it. Do the only right thing and that is to confess and put as much distance between both of you.
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I just want to clarify a few points. When you slept with his cousin and were friends with benefits for a while, were you and your boyfriend together at that time?
Because if you were not, technically it means you were single and you are free to pursue any relationship you want. You do not have any obligations to be exclusive to anyone.
You can tell your boyfriend about it if it makes you feel better. You have to let him know that it happened in the past. But do expect that he may take the news badly, especially when it was with some related to him.
The situation gets messy if you and your boyfriend are already a couple when you slept with his cousin. Because it would constitute to cheating.
In this case, I feel it is better that you two go your own ways.
I hope for your case it's the former.
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Tell him it happened before you guys got together and it should be something he can get over
I was in the exact situation I told the guy, he didn't care. I slept with his cousin for a year and eight months, because we were friends with benefits. We pursued the relationship but I couldn't sleep with him, I felt bad and we ended things. If you can do it go ahead and tell him
Girl you should probably just break up with him at this point I’m not even gonna lie to ya or sugarcoat anything I mean this is a bad predicament
Was it b4 you were together, bc if so I don’t think he should hold it against you
Just tell him.. worst case scenario he dumps you and then date his cousin! ;)
Better to tell him now before he finds out on his own.
Yes. You should tell him honestly and ask him to forgive you. If you don't want to, you should just forget about it and move on
Why did you cheat on him with his cousin? That's so disrespectful...
You answered your own question so go do it...
Tell him. Be honest. Communicate
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