Can you score a beautiful, decent, good and quality girl if you're poor?

[Anonymous]

the question describes itself, can you score a girl who is very decent, classy, never had sex with more than one person or even a virgin, has great looks and overall is a quality girl with good personality... if you're broke?

girls like that exist, not in abundance (nowadays) but they exist, and honestly i have never met one married to a broke guy, the guy usually has his own home, a nice car or even flat out rich... and if iam being even more honest i never met a hot girl (or semi hot for that matter) that said " i dont care about money" they all do, you just have to be close enough to hear it... and i have.

my own personal answer to this question based on real life experience is : no
so whats yours?

Yes

No

Rarely

Resutls

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P. S : please if you dont fit the description above dont say " yes iam one and will date broke guys" it doesn't count

[hahahmm]

In my experience, women in their 20s often did not care about money but the older they get the more they see the connection between money and security. Women like to feel safe & money is one way. Or a woman who makes good money may want to be with a guy making similar or better. Which is probably for the best as a lot of guys get resentful if his SO makes more than him.

Also the older you get the fewer ‘virgins’ there are anyhow.

But there’s all types out there. I saw homeless guys with hot girlfriends. Can’t tell you if those women met all your requirements.

[Asker]

you're right about that, most women will not care about money untill they reach 20, after 20 they start realizing what money can buy them and that they can easily get it using their body, so they aim for rich guys... as for homeless guys having hot gfs, it is possible however we have no idea how decen tthese girls are.

[Kuraj]

You could try to get a young teen girlfriend while she is still naive and inexperienced, oblivious of her own worth.
But most likely she will realize her worth later down the road, dump you and revert into the lifestyle of the typical college bicycle before settling for some sad rich fucker.

[Asker]

Glad iam not the only one aware of this... date a young girl not aware of her worth and you can sometimes keep her as a wife, but once she reaches a certain age she realizes she can use sex to get a much easier life... so many men ignore this for reasons i will never know, and only a hanful take the time to analyze girls behaviour.

[snowangle]

Depends your definition of "beautiful." If you're looking to marry a drop dead gorgeous girl with an equally stunning personality, you better have something equally impressive to bring to the table. If you're also very attractive and have an awesome personality, I'm sure you'll find a girl who fits your standards and doesn't mind that you're broke (as long as you're trying, and not just being a lazy dependent).

Myself, I'm very average looking. And I've never cared about a guy's money.

[Poppykate]

A quality girl isn't going to care about money! So she won't talk about it. But you will find that the guy she is with will work hard ( along with her) to provide each other with a better quality of life. Because they feel that they deserve it. ( e. g. Nice house to come home to, car, etc) but it doesn't always start this way. It takes years of hard work.

[Humbledman74006]

Best answer right here

[Poppykate]

@Humbledman74006 and yet I thought it was common sense. 🤔

[ChronicThinker]

If you actually are working towards a better life. It isn't about money but rather what your motivation is like and if you'll be a total dependent with no prospective future. When I met my fiance he worked only part time while I worked a higher paying job, it didn't bother me because he was heading back to school and had a plan.

[Asker]

good, however do you fit the description? cause at least 90% nowadays dont

[ChronicThinker]

I was a virgin, I consider myself attractive and am extremely loyal and an overall good person with a lot of confidence.

[Asker]

no offense but what you think of yourself as a girl has little importance, cause most girls i know tell me how they deserve a great life and a great boyfriend and most of them aren't even worth a dime (not saying you're bad or anything )

[ChronicThinker]

Well I had a lot of prospective partners in my life, I'm engaged now with a pretty good job. I have a great partner and overall a great life but I never demanded any of it: I earned it all.

[Asker]

I see, however i still stand by what i said , in real life at least mine and my friends/family... etc what you describe has never happened, and when it doesn't happen si either very rare of the girl overestimated herself... you could be very honest not saying you're not quality but iam also saying that if you're situation is true then its rare.

[Asker]

does*

[ChronicThinker]

I don't blame you, obviously you don't know me so it's hard to believe someone's word

[Asker]

your*

[Asker]

well it is the internet after all, and as i said iam not saying you're lying but it is very rare to be put in such a situation... p. s i didn't downvote

[ChronicThinker]

I believe you no worries

[Kitten967]

Money doesn't matter to me but I dont meet your standards. I'm sure you could find a girl like that, it will just be tough.

[witherwing]

If she is a quality girl, she doesn't care about money. So yes, that is possible. I don't know anyone who actually values money in a relationship. It doesn't even come up while dating. I mean seriously, who asks about finances on a date? No one.

[Robertcw]

I miss this G@G. Most of the cool girls are gone now. It's not as good as it was 8 months ago.

[Anonymous]

If you manage to find a woman that is all those things and is genuinely attracted to you.. anything is possible.

You might have better options with rebellious women that come from wealthy families. They tend to like to explore areas they know will turn their families off.

[Cryostatic]

I mean, if you take out the "never had sex with more than one person or even a virgin" bit, then I've only ever dated girls like this, no matter how much money I was making.

[Asker]

well i can easily score a girl like that if i ignore the fact that she had 20+ dicks in her, but iam not gonna ignore that cause if i do then she's not decent at all.

[Cryostatic]

I mean, if you want to decide that someone's not worth being with because they've had sex before, that's cool and all, but I've had some pretty great relationships with some pretty great women and a lot of fun during the time I spent with them.

I'd take that over moping around over the fact that I can't find a virgin any day of the week.

[Asker]

you are free to like what you want no one can decide for you my friend, however we both know that a girls sexual number is one of the things that make her decent, if she lacks in that department she can never measure up to truly decent girls.

[Cryostatic]

I mean, I personally don't think how many people a person has had sex with has a bearing on whether they're "decent" or not. There are so many other factors that I care so much more about than that, like how they treat other people in general, that I don't even really consider it.

Plus, it's not like I'm a virgin either. I've had sex with plenty of different people myself, so I guess it'd be a little hypocritical of me to judge others for doing so.

[Whatwhat247]

It depends what you mean by broke... broke because you're studying and working to pay off your student loan - then definitely.

But broke because you're some lazy ass who can't keep a job. Then no

[Kranjec]

Women love to say yes, as to prove they are not that shallow. But in real life, no. Women will want to use their looks to the fullest extent and wealth is important there.

[Asker]

indeed, what you are describing is basically what me and everyone i know observe daily.

[nickyBBB]

Yeah, I wouldn't mind as long as you don't depend only on my money

[Anonymous]

Meee as long as he shares the same Faith as me, is also good looking and intelligent. We can grow together and have enough $ to raise a family.
I'm a virgin and if he is too great, else a few girls isn't too bad

[Sha84]

depends on your appearance, personality and how bad your financial condition is. many girls only care about guys appearance and personality not financial status

[Anonymous]

Most people are poor when you’re young. If you want a stunning girl, you generally have to be equally good looking and charming, though.

[Names93]

No, women just like men for their money just like men only like women for sex.

[Anonymous]

Well, if they are all what you listed, they should be good persons and not be attracted by money but by other things.

[Anonymous]

why such a negative perspective... about girls using sex to get a easier life after a certain age?

[wassupitzlily]

TOTALLY. Don't worry mane she'll come around

[Asker]

problem is she never does, i am not lacking when it comes to attracting women, in fact i attract them effortsely left and a right, but after a while of exoerminting i found that girls who fit the description i have above never consider anything serious with me for one simple reason : iam poor, iam not established and while they flirt with me, they are dating a guy who drives a BWM and takes them out and buys them tickets for concerts.

[wassupitzlily]

you're at most 24 you still have time don't worry

[Asker]

i do you're right, i decided to stop pursuing girls and to focus on my studies, if i at least work on getting a good job then it might help me get what i want.

[wassupitzlily]

Now that's the right attitude! Take some you time, work yourself out and it will all fall into place

[Anonymous]

low chance but you can

[CT_CD]

Rarely

[Flower-petal]

Of course