Is growling sexy?

[lmw123]

The guy I’m talking too started getting mad and he started growling. It kind of turned me on and I thought it was sexy. Is this normal?

[CZLumen]

Personal preference
Yes it's normal, just make sure you're safe and let your partners know, and a good thing to know about yourself.

Have fun ;)

[theotherconstantine]

Growling is an aggressive act but just like pinching or biting, it may be arousing for the "dominated" one in certain circumstances

[lmw123]

The girl or the boy? Lol

[theotherconstantine]

Either one of them could be the dominated one...

[lmw123]

He kept texting back and it was about a space break. I’m like why are you texting back lol but he was growling 😭

[theotherconstantine]

If he wanted more space, then his growling was meant to deter you, even though you became aroused. Though I don't understand how he growled in a text message, maybe you were using WhatsApp or similar.

[lmw123]

So just give him space. He’ll get over it.

[lmw123]

It was more snarling I think

[theotherconstantine]

He may get over it or not. If he mentions your differences and suggests he or you should leave, like almost daily, then it's a sure sign he wants to slowly but surely push you away. That's what happened to me.

[lmw123]

That’s why he asked for space he still mentioned meeting up he just needs space

[theotherconstantine]

Okay then, it seems he still likes you...

[Legiøn]

It's almost 2018. Apparently there are more than 2 genders. Your ability to be seduced by a growl is pretty normal.

[NightlyCreature]

If it turns you on, then yes, it is sexy, for you at least, and that's normal.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I like when a girl makes cat sounds or growl like cat does yes it would be sexy.

[lmw123]

I say uggg a lot with a lot of gs and sometimes it sounds like I’m moaning lol 😂

[lmw123]

Through text

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yeah i see LOL

[KevKev7557]

Yeah it's normal. Just like for some people that purring is turning them on.

[winterfox10]

That's pretty normal. He is showing you his animalistic side is what's got you hot and bothered ☺

[lmw123]

It was a combination of barking and snarling lol 😆

[lmw123]

And growling

[winterfox10]

Yup! Haha You have to channel your inner cavewoman and tame your beast

[lmw123]

So he was seduced lol

[winterfox10]

That was your job. 😉

[lmw123]

Mission accomplished 👍🏻

[winterfox10]

'Ata girl! Lmao

[Bowtie4Life]

Quite normal, some guys do it on purpose if they know it will be recieved well

[lmw123]

He was mad. Do you think he was doing it on purpose?

[Bowtie4Life]

If you honestly know that he was mad, then sadly i dont think he was doing it on purpose

[Bowtie4Life]

Communication is key though, try and get him to growl if you like it without him being mad. Then show him you like that behaivor. Mixed signals aren't fun 😧

[pulkitr]

Growling is not normal no but is fine as long as he doesn't bite.

[EM9389]

Haha why is he getting angry lol.

[lmw123]

Too much texting just overwhelmed he needs space

[Mastigos89]

I need to find a girl like you. 😍

[lmw123]

Haha. He was texting me and I could tell he was growling through the phone. It turned me on lol 😂

[Mastigos89]

I do it sometimes when I angry, excited, or turned on. 🦁♌ I hope its normal-ish. 😶

[lmw123]

So he knows he’s doing it even if he’s mad

[Mastigos89]

Kinda hope so... unless he is a cat person, then its instinct. 🤗

[lmw123]

And he kept texting back it was about a space break I’m like why are you texting back probably aroused lol

[Mastigos89]

Its possible or you really irritated him. Just a guess though.

[lmw123]

So just give him space. He’ll get over it.

[Mastigos89]

Well if its negative yes. If its positive, how horny do you want the guy to be? I mean after a certain point the fish is going to bake the string and swim away. Sry just had to toss that bait in there and see if I could hook the point. 😂😂😂

[lmw123]

ExplAin

[lmw123]

I think it was snarling

[lmw123]

Like barking

[Mastigos89]

It might be seen as being a tease with no intent to have sex. He could become sexually frustrated with being blown off and move on. Not saying that is going to happen... just that it could if you leave him out in the cold for a long time.

[lmw123]

So what a couple weeks

[Mastigos89]

Why don't you hang with him sometime and tease him? If he is quickly aroused (awkward boner) or displays other on edge, turned on traits you know he wants to f_€£ your brains out. If not then reassess from there. 😆

[lmw123]

He asked for space

[lmw123]

We were texting too much

[Mastigos89]

Were you hanging too much?

[lmw123]

No I met him online we still haven’t met up

[lmw123]

He mentioned meeting up though just wants to take it slow needs some space

[Mastigos89]

Well that is a bit different of a situation. Maybe less horny more cranky. 😯

[lmw123]

He said I need to loosen up lol

[lmw123]

Both moody lol

[Mastigos89]

I dont understand. Have you not stretched in a few years?

[Mastigos89]

Dude sounds moody

[lmw123]

No he said I need to relax and stop 🛑 lol

[Mastigos89]

Your emoji no crossed over iphone user.

[lmw123]

Oh he basically said I need to relax and we need some space

[lmw123]

He’s younger than me he’s 25.

[lmw123]

I’m 29.

[Mastigos89]

Yeahhhh 😔

[Mastigos89]

You seem fun so I don't know why he said that.

[lmw123]

I’m a little clingy we went overboard with the texting lol

[Mastigos89]

I get a bit of space. How long has it been? How long were you connecting for? Did you two 😉 online?

[lmw123]

Yeah we met online. We hit it off. We were talking all day sometimes for a month lol

[Mastigos89]

Why didn't you two meet up already?

[lmw123]

We were going too but I guess he saw I was getting clingy

[lmw123]

He still wants to meet up

[lmw123]

He wants more sexually than I do right now lol

[lmw123]

See the issue

[Mastigos89]

Hmmm, I think you are going to need to make a decision if you want to meet up and possibly have sex but risk it being not what you expect. Or don't meet up keep having distance and maybe move apart. Unfortunately this is the final jeopardy question. 😔

[lmw123]

So your saying stop being prude I’m a virgin

[lmw123]

So be brave and adventurous this is the 21st century

[Mastigos89]

I don't know you were a virgin. That is kinda a big deal. Hmmmm, I guess what I am saying is there are a few choices ahead of you. Whatever you choose will impact what happens between you two. Meet up or don't, neither is a guarantee of a relationship. You need to choose which is the route you want to go. Makes sense?

[lmw123]

Yeah bc he’s mentioned meeting up. I know he wants to meet up. I just need to relax.

[Evora]

Are you sure it's not more like snarling?

[lmw123]

A little bit of both

[Evora]

Lol he's a zombie from the walking dead xD

[Outkast24]

Oh my hahahahahahahahahaha YES

[lmw123]

We’re on a space break. Ill tell him when we talk again 😭

[WhiteDuck]

Yeah, we can call that normal

[maturedlibra]

Yeah its seems normal

[Super2nd]

Is he a member of a metal band?

[Anonymous]

You sound fun and wild are you?

[lmw123]

No I’m clingy and I text too much and he wants space and he was growling and it turned me on 😭. But everything will work out.

[Opinion Owner]

How old are you?

[lmw123]

I’m a little inexperienced lol

[Opinion Owner]

How many guys you been with?

[lmw123]

These are personal questions lol I’m not as fun and wild as you think

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah sounds like it, maybe you need to loosen up a little bit

[Opinion Owner]

Let’s start slow

[lmw123]

He tells me that. What does he mean by that?

[lmw123]

By loosen up a little bit

[Opinion Owner]

Well I just asked you how old you were and you got all nervous, why did you want to tell me?

[Opinion Owner]

Didn’t

[lmw123]

I’m 29

[lmw123]

It says it on my profile

[Opinion Owner]

That’s better, I’m 30

[lmw123]

No everything is fine he just asked for space

[Opinion Owner]

He’s probably talking to another girl

[lmw123]

We were talking every day and it just got intense too quickly need to slow down

[Opinion Owner]

Did you sleep with him

[lmw123]

No I didn’t

[Opinion Owner]

How long were you guys talking and hangout

[lmw123]

A month he said I was crowding him

[Opinion Owner]

Is he Younger than you

[lmw123]

Yes he is

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah he sounds like about 25

[lmw123]

That’s how old he is

[lmw123]

I don’t even think he’s talking to another girl I don’t think that’s the issue

[Opinion Owner]

I would play hard to get stop calling and texting

[Opinion Owner]

That will change his little attitude

[lmw123]

I have for the past three days I’m not going to contact him for three weeks

[Opinion Owner]

So if you don’t take for 3 weeks then what, and I’m guessing your not 29

[lmw123]

I am

[lmw123]

I’m just saying I plan to not text him for a few weeks

[Opinion Owner]

Tell me a little about what you look like?

[lmw123]

I’m quiet but if someone gets me mad I can bark lol I’m like him except he’s more social lol

[Opinion Owner]

And I was saying if you don’t talk for3 weeks just call it over right

[Opinion Owner]

How tall are you

[lmw123]

That’s not what I was saying how long should I give him

[lmw123]

Oh you mean speak up call over get it

[Opinion Owner]

I wouldn’t text him tell he does

[lmw123]

Got it be direct speak up got it

[Opinion Owner]

He will trust me they always do less there’s another person

[Opinion Owner]

He will text you

[lmw123]

Not even after three weeks I can’t text him

[lmw123]

Oh so your saying he will text me

[Opinion Owner]

What other things you need help with 😆

[lmw123]

So if I keep not texting him he’ll start to wonder

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah don’t contact him until he contacts you first and if he doesn’t then there’s somebody else

[Opinion Owner]

Right

[lmw123]

Could I still contact him if he doesn’t contact me

[Opinion Owner]

What do you feel like you should do?

[lmw123]

Well he texts me back most of the time. I think I should give it three weeks. If he doesn’t contact me I’ll contact him and ask if he needs more time.

[Opinion Owner]

So in the 3 weeks of waiting what if another guy wants to hang out with you?

[lmw123]

I’m not talking to anyone else right now

[Opinion Owner]

How much time are you going to give him

[lmw123]

I met him online

[lmw123]

We haven’t met yet we still have Work to do he even mentioned that in our last conversation

[Opinion Owner]

Run 🏃‍♀️

[Opinion Owner]

Sorry to say but run

[lmw123]

What

[lmw123]

Why do you say that

[Opinion Owner]

Sounds like he’s hiding from you now, I’m guessing in your last conversation you were talking about going on a date or meeting in person

[lmw123]

No he mentioned that to me

[lmw123]

He brought it up

[lmw123]

I didn’t bring up that he did.

[Opinion Owner]

He might be for real but if it was me I wouldn’t text first

[lmw123]

Does loosen up include not reading into texts

[Opinion Owner]

How many boyfriend have you been with

[lmw123]

None

[lmw123]

But seriously does it include that

[lmw123]

He’s been telling me to relax, stop, and not read into everything.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah just chill out a little bit

[lmw123]

Do guys not care about texting as much as girls

[lmw123]

So don’t analyze his texting skills too

[Opinion Owner]

If you were sending like 10 text to my 3 yeah I’d say relax a little

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah don’t do that

[lmw123]

Ok got it

[Opinion Owner]

Tell me something about yourself that nobody knows

[lmw123]

I’m a gymnast 🤸‍♀️

[lmw123]

Lol 😂

[lmw123]

He knows that but you get it lol

[lmw123]

I was a gymnast

[Opinion Owner]

Short or tall?

[Opinion Owner]

And do you have the gymnast butt and legs

[Opinion Owner]

Gymnast are Usually good looking

[lmw123]

No shit! That’s why he wants to pound me 😜

[lmw123]

That’s me loosening up 😎

[Opinion Owner]

YEAH!!! Atta girl that only took 87 messages and 2 hours 😆

[lmw123]

So I guess do that with him and don’t analyze the texts 😭

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah perfect and don’t let him play you, it’s been fun good luck with this guy I need to run I’m just getting to the gum💪🏼

[Anon-ymous1]

Uh... what

[Anon-ymous1]

*Guy I'm talking to, by the way. Not "too."

[Mastigos89]

So your guy does it too. Sry couldn't help myself. 😂

[Iloveapplepies34]

Yes it is

[shamj]

Nooo

[Lumberman53]

No it's not

[moleo]

Yes it's normal