What does "annoying in a good way?" mean?

[Anonymous]

For example, a guy friend who revealed he really likes you, , but said you're annoying in a good way.

[Sucram]

"No, no no, you're doing it wrong, cut the onions this way"
This can be quite annoying, but if you realize it's good advice, it's annoying in a good way.
Or if you are clingy it can be annoying but he enjoys the attention he is getting and prefers you to be this way than you not being that way.
Or hundreds of thousands of other possibilities for this.

[Asker]

Well, he used to text me first, then stopped and when I started to text him first, I always felt like I'm annoying him and I always said to him "sorry for bothering you" or ask him if I am bothering him.

[HammerSwain]

Might just be his way of letting you know he enjoys the attention you give him.

[Asker]

I'm sure he does, but whenever I reach out to him first, I feel clingy and I hate being that towards guys, because I'm very independent.

[HammerSwain]

If he's just your friend there's nothing wrong with that. If you like him but he's shy it might take a while for him to make the first move.

[Asker]

I asked how he felt about me and he told me he really liked me since high school, but didn't think it wasn't the right time to tell me yet. He gets very eager whenever I need his help or I want to hangout with him, but I get terrified when I think I'm too clingy to him even though he told me plenty of times, I'm not.

[HammerSwain]

I wouldn't call that being too clingy if you like each other. You just said he's eager when you need his help or want to hangout and he has told you that your not being to clingy so listen to his words. Sounds like he loves it when you talk to him or seeing his phone light up when you text him.

[Asker]

I agree, I think he does too. Sometimes, when we text, he'll try to keep the convo going as much as he can, but feels like doesn't know what to say.

[Anonymous]

No is not.

[Asker]

What?

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah cause he’s telling you you can be annoying he’s just adding the “But in a good way” to not make you feel bad.

[Asker]

Well, it did hurt. I find him more annoying though..

[JosyJosy]

That he does not mind you being around

[Asker]

Really? I always take annoying as a bad quality, but in a good way is so confusing.

[JosyJosy]

good=good

[Asker]

Alrighty then. I'm still going to keep my space from him. I hate feeling clingy.

[AlexDelux]

That you are annoying but in a good way

[Asker]

Annoying is not good complient though...

[scooogy]

you're stimulating his mind in a constructive way.