Why do guys have rape fantasies?

[ElizaPam]

People often ask why girls do but I think the real question is why do guys? My rape fantasy gives me control. I dont actually desire to be raped. What do guys get from fantasizing of raping a girl?

[AustinTXGuy]

Rape is such a strong word, I don't ever fantasize about taking a woman against her will. What I do fantasize about is the rough aggressive style of sex attributed to rape. Rather than try to explain that I might say I have a rape fantasy but this is what I'd mean.

[TheWitttAmerican]

I imagine the desire comes from the control. It's entirely primal or utterly psychological, one or the other. You have someone beneath you and no one can tell you know. They're shaking and kicking and moving and that motion is in and of itself very exciting.

[idgetyou]

maybe it gives the thought of being dominant. just maybe

[HelpingMcHelpington]

well for me, it sorta like, she doesn't want it at first but I'm SO DAMN GOOD, she eventually turns around and asks for more. An ego boost. Kinda why I like "Bitchy" girls who put me down in public, just so I can tease her later on to the point she's begging me for sex.

[Canadaman99]

Maybe the guy thinks he will never have sex so fantasises about taking it. It just means rough sex. Or wants control. Either way i doubt many peoole would be interested in their fantasies of this nature becoming a reality

[aaronlesdavis]

It's all about control it's the next level past a bdsm or dom/sub fetish. Some people just want more and more control over others

[DeanMS]

Ewwww without consent it's barbaric the emotional trauma is uhaaa, if it's with consent it not called rape it called something else

[dropkicknj13]

I'd think it's the far end of domination and bdsm, which most people think are a turn on. Rape fantasy is just taking it much farther then most people

[qwert1234]

I don't.
I get turned off by the thought of it.

Probably other guys fantasize it because they cannot/would not do it in real life.

[abc3643]

Your rape fantasy gives you control? Interesting! What is your rape fantasy?

[WeirdoWerdo]

Uh? I find rape literally disgusting and you should literally be burned alive till death for raping someone. It is unimaginable for me to have such a horrific fantasy.

[Red88xxx]

Then you'll definitely like Nirvana's Anti song Rape Me.

[taleswapper]

Pretty much the same thing as girls do. Freedom from responsibility. Both sexes want to be unaccountable sometimes, and rape fantasies allow this.

[jimmijo1954]

Here’s a better question: why do girls fantasize about being raped?

[Smegskull]

I think it comes from the same place as the desire to just run over the people in your way. That nihalistic desire to throw right and wrong at the way give in to base instincts and take what you want.

[Juxtapose]

In kink culture it's called ravishment. I wanna be "ravished" myself.

[astonb]

Never had that fantasy but would assume it would be a guy under the thumb and it's reasserting control

[IshanRS]

Its much more in girls fantasies than boy, research shows 62% girls fantasize about it

[SelfIsolated17]

I don't fantasize about dark stuff like that.

[jon28805]

That's not one of my fantasies.

[niomi04]

I don't have such weird fantasies

[WTFliberals]

I don't.

[Decentguy]

Mostly women have it

[legalboxers]

I never did.