My boyfriend wears WOMEN’s cloths ALL the time. I want to ask if this is normal, but what is normal in 2017?

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I've wbeen with the same guy for a few years and we're now living together.
I've always known that he has worn girls jeans/pants, jackets, shoe, socks, tights and panties and even shirts. He also wears sports bras, no regular bras, just spaghetti strap and camis/tank tops. He doesn’t wear a bra out most of the time as it’s too visible. He doesn’t wear heels.
Around the house he will wear leggings, yoga pants and long sleep shirts, shorts or skirts with tights. As I'm typing this, he's sitting on the sofa wearing black opaque tights, anklet socks, panties, shorts, sports bra and sweat shirt - ALL GIRLS!!
Now there is nothing fancy about his panties, there are no lace or silk or frilly ones. Just Fruit of the Loom or Hanes Her Way "Hi-Cuts". There are no bikini or granny panties. He has MORE girls clothes than boys! Even some of his work uniforms are woman’s. I should note that I wear mens jeans and t-shirts as I find them more comfortable, but that's the only mens clothes I wear.
He has short hair and doesn't wear makeup.
I KNOW he's NOT GAY or Bi! He's not interested in guys... his web history has proven that.
1st question - does anyone else have a guy in their life like this?
2nd question - At night I'll rub and tickle his bum and play with his panty lines... it gets me soooo wet. He will keep his panties on when were having sex, and it feels great as the panty line rubs me at just the right “spot”. Is this wrong for me as I love it when he keeps his panties on? Sometimes I get very excited thinking about him in his bra and tights, and sometimes I will wear his panties, tights and bra. Am I a bit bi-sexual?

jacobteasterly · Accepted Answer

I personally LOVE wearing girls leggings and yoga pants. I just recently found guys leggings and they're a little better cause theyre still just as comfy and freeing, while also having space for the private area haha. Also I have smallish feet so guys socks are just always too big for me and I like colorful socks anyways so the girls section is the best place for me to get them. I don't know about panties, but I prefer to go commando if possible anyways. Although I do wear boxer briefs when wearing jeans or dress clothes. They make guys skinny jeans at H&M and other places that are still skin tight and stretchy and soft, they just have bigger pockets and again, more junk room. Girls and guys hoodies are barely different when it comes down to that aspect. Honestly I believe that the world would be a simpler place if more clothes were just unisex because there's pros and cons to both genders clothing lines. So just to sum it up, no not weird. I mean sometimes role play is even a turn on for people so maybe that even has a part to play in it. Just communicate and understand why he does and honestly if you don't have an issue with it then no harm, no foul. Right?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Lift his skirt up, pull down his panties and tights then suck him off!
What you do or what he does is none of our business. As long as no-one gets hurt (or arrested) have at it.
Maybe you 2 are a match for each other.
Do you dress in girly clothes? You did mention that you have men’s clothes.

Kellykelkelltik · Accepted Answer

If you wear jeans and sneakers… well… not sure what to tell you. We all “crossdress” for the foreseeable future. That is until we learn that clothing is cloth. Sometimes we all want to feel pretty and feminine, so we don ribbons and soft, curvy cuts. Other days we feel like punching the world in the mouth so we don dungarees and All-Stars. To think only women are allowed to break this absurd barrier and not be ostracized is ridiculous. Men are allowed to express their need to feel pretty as much as women are allowed to play it tough at times. Dicks and Vaginas aren’t boundary markers. Masculine and feminine energy lives in everyone of us. Next time you see a male perusing the panty aisle at target, instead of mentally labeling him as a pervert, consider smiling at the fact that he’s being as brave as our sisters were back when they risked shopping for denim when the cultural understanding was that denim equaled penis.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

You two are lucky to have found each other. Sounds like a good fit - are you a tom-boy by chance?
There is NOTHING wrong with how anyone dresses or how you feel about women's clothing. Have you had any female sexual experiences before? Maybe you are interested in girls too.

LuWe22 · Accepted Answer

The boy who does that is either a sissy or a crossdresser. I pick number 2 because you said he is not gay. No I don’t know any guy like this and you can love what you want. If you wish he is a girl only then you are bisexual.

britpop · Accepted Answer

I don't think it's a common thing I've never come across it but if ur both happy with it then who cares I don't know if ur bisexual or not but as it's clothing on a guy probably not

humanearth · Answer

I that same type of guy as your boyfriend. But, I go for more of the gender neutral look. I like the wear almost anything in womens clothes and mix with my mens clothes. Like one of my favorite combos I created is my dark blue suit with a matching skirt and I do wear a garter and stockings with mens dress shoes. I totally blend the gender lines. I have been doing this for so long that I'm not sure when I started. But I will tell you it was before it was a common thing thing to do. Yes I am married with children that have children and that normal here.

As for you (wishing my wife was took that much of approach. So kinda jealous on that. I would love her to be as sexual excited as you describe, but we also been married for 24 years and this summer will be 25 years. So I'm sure that has a lot to do with it ) I do not think your are bi-sexual. Unless you are attracted to women. You just have a kink for your man in womens clothes and that's a great thing for cross-dresser. Why you say? Most cross-dressers are banished from the human race.

Caaarl · Answer

Honestly it's complicated I don't think you're necessarily bisexual. These types of things pollute each other. For example girls clothing is probably not sexy on its own for you but I when it's on a sexy guy that you like. It becomes that.

I think this is very uncommon and somehow you developed a fetish. But who knows. I'm not sure exactly why you like it. It's probably not because you're bisexual.

You do you girl.

aggle · Answer

Sounds like you're both into it. I can't say it's something that typically happens but then again it's not something guys generally discuss with eaxhother.
As long as you're both enjoy yourself then do what make a you happy.

Chumblyf · Answer

I have only girls jeans in my closet, can't stand guys jeans with rough fabric with no stretch. All my hoodies are women’s as I have short arms and they fit better. Pink brand is the best. I only wear women’s panties, as they are far more comfortable. I sleep in dresses or Pink/VS PJs. My wife sometimes shares this stuff with me, sometimes not. I also have a couple skirts and skorts that would pass as kilts. They are so much better than shorts. Girls have been wearing guys long shirts as dresses for ages. I wear shirt dresses as long shirts. What’s the big deal? It shouldn't matter either way. At least nowadays people are so not paying attention that they don’t notice. And for those who do I’ve never gotten more compliments.

HollyTran · Answer

I am a cross dresser, but I think it is totally normal and if anything I am seeing more of it. when I go shopping for girls clothes there are tonnes of boi's in the shops and we are all wearing girls stuff. My girlfriend and I go shopping together and girls ask me where I get my stuff, and about my hair and stuff, so I think it is totally cool!

Cammy137 · Answer

If you're both into it then there is no problem. You'll end up with a ton of negative responses on here (id imagine) but id just roll with it if it works

kamalravi25 · Answer

Well... If he doesn't have any problem, and u too feel good. Then... Just live the life u love. Yes i don't feel it normal. But its 2017 anything can happen.

Nina12346 · Answer

Maybe he's transgender and change into a man, people do that , do you know everything about his life? I think you should talk to him.

shubhamchachapara · Answer

Well if he is doing in private with you, then nothing wrong

TheMoroccangirl · Answer

Mental illness meets mental illness.  I cringed so hard I have to throw up P. s. your guy might be trans soon

astonb · Answer

Sounds like a good relationship for you to let him carry it on. I have experimented but nothing serious

utterlyconfusedlol · Answer

well what he wears is his business no it does not make you bisexual

Anonymous · Answer

That shit is not normal at all. I have never met a straight guy who did any of that.

Anon-ymous1 · Answer

... What does the year have anything to do with it?

WeirdoWerdo · Answer

Can't say that it happens that often... I personally only seen people like that on the internet...

kdhingra307 · Answer

Nope, at least I dnt personally know anyone. 2nd I can't say But I feel this is too weird

Kat_puppies · Answer

he is a drag like my friend @Wharton24

Anonymous · Answer

to be perfectly honest I think im the same

Onlythisone · Answer

There is no way a girl wrote this...

dipeshb · Answer

Rofl... Y would he wear such clothes 😂😂😂😂

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