Why does a guy keep looking at my hips?

[Anonymous]

So I caught this guy like 3 times “subtly” looking at my hips.
Like I get the whole guys who looking at a girls ass and boobs but have never come across a guy who tries to subtly look at a girls hips and stare?

by the way there’s a lot of chemistry between us

[1averageguy]

sadly most guys only have one thing on their mind we do admire a woman's body and like to look however the important thing is whether or not will treat you with respect or not if we get the chance to know you if they treat you with respect they're worth keeping if they treat you as just an object then drop me like a hot rock

[Asker]

So what he’s thinking about sex?

[1averageguy]

Maybe. thats what lots of guys think about but some are just admiring your looks

[Menelin]

Hips are attractive. It's another physical part of the body that implies fertility and explicates the gender difference. In the same way, strong arms are attractive for women not just because it shows he can be a strong protector, but also it emphasizes the fact that he is a man.

[Asker]

But are men conscious of this birth thing or do they just find it attractive

[Menelin]

It's definitely an unconscious thing. There are plenty of songs about girls with curves but none of them say why they like it, much less they want her to have their baby.

[Anonymous]

My date does this too! My ex boyfriends also commented on my cudvy hips. They just seem to like it for some reason.

[Asker]

Really? There we go!

[Torex]

As a lot of people are saying that men often are attracted to traits that imply fertility. Though most of us don't think "wow those hips are great for giving birth", it is a more subconscious thing.

It is possible he just likes hips, or is checking you out and is analyzing your waistline. (if it is the waistline and he keep on looking he must like what he is seeing)
Or he might even be looking slightly lower and imaging what your vagina looks like.

[Asker]

Honestly I can’t pinpoint where exactly he was looking because I was a little confused that it happened more than once. I’ve caught him staring at my face a lot of the times to that’s normal. Never saw him checking out boobs/ass but would see his eyes wander to my hip/waist/upper thigh area. So I was like?

[alextheokay]

The hips control how your body moves watch or ask any dancer, and they set the shape of your figure. I'm pretty all guys are attracted to them most just don't notice due to aforementioned boobs and ass.
Kudos girl work it on him 😁

[Asker]

Thanks hahah!

[spartan55]

Different guys find no different parts of the female body attractive, no big deal. How do you know he isn't looking at your belt?

[Asker]

I don’t wear a belt

[spartan55]

It was a joke.

[aa180]

I totally disagree with the guys on here saying that it has something to do with childbirth. For me, hips are sexy purely because they add to a woman's curves. That's one main reason why we find tits and asses arousing; they happen to be the roundest parts of a girl's body. Curves on a girl = sex appeal. It has everything to do with lust and nothing to do with starting a family.

[Asker]

I am curvy in body. Like I’m skinny (not very thin) but around my hips area I am curved because I do have wider hips naturally. I got self conscious at one point and got worried he may think I’m fat

[aa180]

If you have an hourglass figure then this is the ideal and sexiest body type for a girl. Fat is different; it's more when the girl looks round like a ball. So you have nothing to feel self-conscious about.

[socrazy]

Anybody looks at the things that seems or feel good to look at... There is your answer... He likes to look at it more often... Given the answer after reading some convo. In comments section

[Asker]

Yeah that’s a nice way to think but at one point for worried that he thought I had wide hips or was fat. But it wasn’t a “gross stare” it was more dazed and just like he was completely in another world and it happened a couple of times

[socrazy]

Ooh... Then you can just ask him a couple of questions like... What do you think about my shape and all... But make it sound like you are asking it in more unconscious way... Like you don't have anything in mind... Or try your own way to let it come out of his brain.. by convo.

[socrazy]

Where are you from by the way?

[Anonymous]

Maybe he's horny and is checking out the area he would like to put his penis

[Asker]

LOL I doubt in public

[Opinion Owner]

Why not, guys check out women all the time

[Asker]

So you guys casually have dirty thoughts in public?

[Opinion Owner]

Of course, we are looking at your boobs, your ass, your groin

[Asker]

What if you end up getting a boner? Doesn’t the idea freak u out

[Asker]

And oh wait... the groin is in between the hips :/ ohhh

[Opinion Owner]

No, I hope someone like you notices it. It's a turn on

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, your pussy

[Opinion Owner]

What were you wearing that day

[Asker]

The thing is I wasn’t wearing tight clothing. In all 3 occasions. Twice semi loose black pants and the third time I was wearing jeans with a loose long hoodie. So... it’s not like I was wearing tights. But I've caught him staring at my face endless times but the hips was 3 times. He would have his head lowered and raise his eyes and look in the region and just stare looking dazed

[Opinion Owner]

Imagining what's under those cloths

[Anon-ymous1]

He's probably not looking at your hips; he's probably looking at your ass.

[Asker]

He was looking at the front area not the back because I was facing him. He didn’t have a view of my ass

[Anon-ymous1]

He may have been looking at your crotch.

[LegateLanius]

Hips are an indicator for being able to harbor children

[Asker]

So you guys are thinking about labour and birth while checking out the hips? So weird

[LegateLanius]

Its been like that for a while.

[helloimh]

Because girl have treasure of beauty.. so Gil's some part attract the guys attention.. so may be yours lips so attractive

[wolfman1000000]

Hips are sexy. Also there is a thing about bigger hips is more attractive to males due to easier births or something.

[lucidfruitshop]

Cuz those hips don't lie.

[Asker]

Hahahahahhahaha

[sahil_jalan]

U must hv amazing butt 😍😘

[Asker]

I was facing him didn’t have my back towards him

[sahil_jalan]

May be u r facing him bt u hv a butt whch every guy wnt to fuck.

[socrazy]

So much pervert act dude

[Stan_Control_]

Hips? Lemme see...😇😏

[Asker]

Okay.. ?

[Stan_Control_]

Yeah... Imma perv.

[Asker]

Hahahahaha cool that you’re str8 up about it. Well u won’t be looking at mine. Surely there’s many to look at

[Stan_Control_]

Yeah... Too many. That's why i pick 'em.

[boyfr1end]

maybe ur lips were cracked by winter...

[Asker]

Hips not lips

[boyfr1end]

maybe I should go to eye's doctor.. 😎😎😎

[boyfr1end]

maybe u do natural belle dance when u walk but u don't know..

[Anonymous]

You've good child bearing hips

[Asker]

I don’t get this child bearing. Like do u guys seriously go “she’s got good hips means she’ll be good for giving birth”

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah lol good wide hips.

[Asker]

Hahaha so interesting

[Princeforprincess]

Because ur hipps don't lie

[Ayer93]

Hips don't lie.

[thegr8lion]

Hips attract men

[Asker]

Why?

[thegr8lion]

In my view I find them seductive to feel the curves rub my hand on it

[thegr8lion]

Like the dog chases his tail

[Asker]

Interesting! Makes sense

[thegr8lion]

Hmmmm