He got hard while I was sitting on his lap?

[Anonymous]

There was no space in the car so he told me to sit on his lap. I felt he got hard during the whole ride, it was like a rock! He also hugged me from behind during the ride. But he has a girlfriend! Sooo wtf?

[markscott]

You had your ass on his lap. When you do that, there is a good chance a guy will get hard. Not that it has to happen, but it's a common occurrence. Your ass is sexy and feels soft, and his body responded. He has no control over whether or not he gets hard. Sometimes the more a guy tries not to get hard, the harder he gets. It just works that way. However, he probably shouldn't have hugged you, though I'm not sure just what that mean. It's possible he was even trying to settle you ass slightly differently, so it didn't stimulate him so much. The thing to do is to let go of the situation, and use it as a learning situation. Just know, guys get hard easily. That doesn't mean you can never sit on a guys lap again, without him getting hard, as it doesn't always happen that way, but it does mean that can easily happen.

[hahahmm]

Do you always do whatever guts tell you to? Next time, if you aren’t into the guy tell him to F off. He took you sitting in his lap as a sign you’re interested in sex/physical flirting. Any guy will get hard if you sit in his lap. You should not have sat in his lap unless you want things to go in ‘that’ direction. I guarantee you he would not have told you to sit in his lap if his girlfriend was around.

[JosyJosy]

Sure he has a girlfriend, but people get turned on by touch and if you are also pretty it will probably make things worse for them

[JosyJosy]

I have no explanation for his hugging though..

[markscott]

Things are probably better off if you say nothing about him being hard to anyone around his girlfriend of hi friends, as his getting hard really may have been beyond his control. and he may be embarrassed himself, as someone else said. All it can do if make trouble where there may be no reason to make trouble.

[JosyJosy]

@markscott yeah but the hugging though?

[markscott]

I really don't know about the hugging. It's difficult to know what a "hug" means, when there are so many types of hugs. As said, it's possible he was trying to adjust how you were sitting on him, to be more comfortable or to make is less obvious he was hard. It could be you were sitting on his lap long enough, that it started feeling real good, and he was holding you closer because of that. A guy can hardly keep from doing something physical, if his cock is stimulated long enough. Or he could have been a jerk, and trying to get more feeling. There's no way to tell from the description you give, and likely, you can't tell either. It does seem best to let it go, and use it as a learning experience.

[winterfox10]

Women's asses are incredibly soft. Having one pressed up against your cock feels great. He might also find you attractive, but we get hard at really inappropriate times. One time I was just sitting in the car with my dad, and I got hard as hell. No idea why.

[chris1984]

him having a girlfriend doesn't change that you sitting on his lap is appealing. just means he shouldn't act on it. hugging you is pushing it, though his intention may have been to keep you safe while the car was moving.

[JudgementX]

It happens. We can't control it. The hugs a little weird, but not really a big deal. It's just one of those things you laugh about for a minute and then forget about. Chances are, it might not have even been you.

[That1GingerKid]

It's a natural reaction lol

He basically couldn't help it😂

Its? more wired that he didn't have his girlfriend sit on him

[mafrabjj]

Im telling you our friend has his own life lol always wake up on some weird inappropriate times lol

[Proxyz123]

Its natural for a guys penis to become hard when pressure is exerted. Try not to think too much about it. Either that or he is just horny to see a girl on his lap and for him to be hugging you

[Tidus30]

OK hugging part is weird because he has a girlfriend but what do you expect when you basically rub yourself over his cock? it’s like dryhumping.

[Anonymous]

A lot of guys like to be flirty even if they have another half and obviously that's what was happening when you were on his lap

[JackofSpades]

A mans cock has a mind of its own.
He's not going to fuck you just because he got a boner.

[rucrazy2]

i have had that happen and can't help it. damn thing has a mind of uts own and just because he has a girlfriend does not mean he's not attracted to to you

[carlsgold]

Young guys get hard in a flash, your warm butt did that, feel good you can turn a guy on so easily.

[mecicopigeonman]

He's a guy, if he found you attractive there nothing we can do... I'm sure he was just as embarrassed

[MAC42]

Did you expect a guy not to get hard if you sit on his lap, lol

[CanderousOrdo]

It's just biological and he was just enjoying his chance of having someone on his lap

[Anonymous]

Well he's an ass type of guy.. He likes poopoo

[Opinion Owner]

That was not really a question tho..

[Revolver_]

sounds like a real creep

[Anonymous]

hm, i wonder why

DUHHHHH

[NerdInDenial]

It happens

[be5h36dh1]

He likes you

[Anonymous]

Ummm he's a perv?